What kink is huge for everyone else but just "fine" for you?

[Mi****]

No shaming anyone's thing here, everyone's kink is valid!!!!!! This is about the ones that are clearly massive, whole communities built on them, and for you they're just... fine.

Mine is feet. Nothing against them, tried it, enjoyable enough. But there's a whole universe of people for whom feet are THE thing, and I've never felt whatever that is. The gap between "sure, that's nice" and "this is my entire fetish" is what I don't get.

What's yours? Bonus points if the thing that's just fine for you is something someone above you swears by.

[Deleted Member]

Anything anal…like I get why it’s erotic and a huge fetish for people, but I just can’t phantom the enjoyment of it? Whether it’s licking or eating or fucking, I just can’t find it enjoyable?

[id****]

Choking, feet, chastity

[ma****]

Public…give me somewhere comfy lol unless we’re in a mattress store 😏

[Be****]

6 minutes ago, pinkxxlilbow said:

Anything anal…like I get why it’s erotic and a huge fetish for people, but I just can’t phantom the enjoyment of it? Whether it’s licking or eating or fucking, I just can’t find it enjoyable?

I agree I’m just not all into it.

[se****]

Feet and pet play

[Cu****]

Fin dom. I’ll never understand it.

[Lu****]

I will never not feel icky about the “daddy” thing PERSONALLY.

[TimtheMerciless]

Tiny cock ***. I know what you are thinking and it is NOT the reason. 😏

[No****]

I don’t get the accents kink. Just doesn’t do anything for me

[Deleted Member]

The cuck thing. And feet

[Ro****]

11 minutes ago, LuckyKenny said:

I will never not feel icky about the “daddy” thing PERSONALLY.

Ditto the Mommy thing. If you are into age play (I'm not) then ok. But when it's part of a simple D/s dynamic with no age play in it I find it takes me out of my sub mindset.

[Vi****]

I guess it's not really a kink per se but blow jobs. so many guys obsess over getting a bj and they've never done anything for me. A lot of people say that's because nobody has ever done it right and i'll just say that I've had enough to find it very hard to believe that i none of them knew how to do it right. They're just whatever. I'll take one but only for her pleasure. definitely not mine

[Ru****]

I don't get the mommy kink, or feet. I don't think I ever will.

[Ma****]

36 minutes ago, pinkxxlilbow said:

Anything anal…like I get why it’s erotic and a huge fetish for people, but I just can’t phantom the enjoyment of it? Whether it’s licking or eating or fucking, I just can’t find it enjoyable?

For those of us that are pre-op, anal might be the only choice. Would I prefer it some other way? Sure but until I have the *** and recovery time, my ass will have to do

[Mi****]

30 minutes ago, matches_malone said:

Public…give me somewhere comfy lol unless we’re in a mattress store 😏

Okay confession, public is mostly meh for me, too much setup for something that's over fast. But I have done the deserted parking lot of an amusement park once, and honestly, no complaints 🤣 So apparently my rule is no public unless the lot is empty and the rollercoasters are watching

[ki****]

10 minutes ago, VirginiaGuy77 said:

I guess it's not really a kink per se but blow jobs. so many guys obsess over getting a bj and they've never done anything for me. A lot of people say that's because nobody has ever done it right and i'll just say that I've had enough to find it very hard to believe that i none of them knew how to do it right. They're just whatever. I'll take one but only for her pleasure. definitely not mine

Agreed. It’s not like I doesn’t feel nice or anything but it just doesn’t quite do it for me. That said the control aspect makes it something that I do enjoy

[to****]

Definitely the mommy fetish I had 1 guy on here wanting me to be his mommy I said I'm a cross dresser we might have a problem lol 😆

[Ro****]

1 hour ago, pinkxxlilbow said:

Anything anal…like I get why it’s erotic and a huge fetish for people, but I just can’t phantom the enjoyment of it? Whether it’s licking or eating or fucking, I just can’t find it enjoyable?

I suspect for M/F and possibly F/F anal, its the taboo thing. It's also a dominance thing. The person being penetrated is the submissive one. This goes back to ancient Greece (powerful Greek and Roman politicians suffered not because they had sex with a man but because they were the receiver not the giver).

For M/M or preop MtF its the only way.

It's possible you don't see it as taboo...

I did hear a rumour that Christian ***s on purity pledges see anal (and oral and manual) as 'not sex' when it comes to 'being a virgin on my wedding night'. I can believe it based on my experience of how ***s can interpret rules creatively...

[laura90]

This all doesn't apply to me. I love hearing people's kinks. I love hearing the craziest fantasies and I almost never judge. Even though rarely some people troll and say things like "K*ll me" which of course is inteded to make me look like a criminal only because I am into BDSM. Plot twist: I am totally not interested in k*lling anyone, not even almost. I try all to prevent any major damage from happening. By now I know that I can enjoy a lot of things if I feel sympathy or even love for a sub. Example: I never was into this "living furniture" thing. Since I met someone that I developed feelings for, I suddenly think of this person being my furniture very often. It totally depends on a person and what vibes someone is giving me. If I love someone I feel excited about many things and my ideas explode. Right now, I am not much into petplay. I don't understand petplay fully - but if I really like someone I could enjoy walking him like a dog or something. For me everything that strengthens the bond is much more interesting than sexual arousal.

[Mi****]

17 minutes ago, RoseSatin said:

I suspect for M/F and possibly F/F anal, its the taboo thing. It's also a dominance thing. The person being penetrated is the submissive one. This goes back to ancient Greece (powerful Greek and Roman politicians suffered not because they had sex with a man but because they were the receiver not the giver).

For M/M or preop MtF its the only way.

It's possible you don't see it as taboo...

I did hear a rumour that Christian ***s on purity pledges see anal (and oral and manual) as 'not sex' when it comes to 'being a virgin on my wedding night'. I can believe it based on my experience of how ***s can interpret rules creatively...

Can confirm that one from the inside. Grew up Christian, and as a *** the logic was exactly that, anal didn't count, so technically we were both still virgins. Me giving, to be clear 😅. Looking back the loophole was doing a lot of heavy lifting 🤣

And it's not just Christians, any religion with a no-sex-before-marriage rule produces ***s who find the exact same workaround. Give ***agers a rule and they'll find the loophole, it's practically a law of nature

[Je****]

Off the top of my head. I don't wanna be called daddy. It hits differently as a dad to 2 girls and a boy. Also I'm not really into all the "step" porn on the sites. Oh ya and ageago probably misspelt it. The tongue out cross eyed thing lol! Not hating thou live and let live ya know

[Ne****]

Rope. I literally do not give a shit. Even if it attracts pussy in droves.

[co****]

1 hour ago, Jephenie44 said:

Off the top of my head. I don't wanna be called daddy. It hits differently as a dad to 2 girls and a boy. Also I'm not really into all the "step" porn on the sites. Oh ya and ageago probably misspelt it. The tongue out cross eyed thing lol! Not hating thou live and let live ya know

Daddy still does it for me with 4 kiddos lol step I’m hit and miss with. And the crossing eyes? Can’t do if it’s faked but power thrust and it just happens??? Oohhhh yeah daddy likes. Gets a good growl and feral thrusts outta me at least.

[An****]

Anal