Popular Post li**** Posted 5 hours ago Popular Post So after a terrible break up, I took a lot of time to heal and recalibrate. Now I’ve been single over 5 years and I’m ready to find someone to explore with again. Problem is, I’ve forgotten how to flirt!!! So guys and gals (and everyone in between) what kind of things do people do and say that let you know they are interested?? I’m good at verbalizing interest, but being blunt doesn’t seem to be a good tactic with strangers in public. Haha. 😂 How can I get a guy to know I wanna make out 💋 haha or at least talk further about romantic interest…. Is it a look? At work I can’t really be touchy with my customers but sometimes I want them to know they can give me their digits! Haha. 😂 I’m feeling out of the loop. Any advice is welcome!
yo**** Posted 4 hours ago Eye contact with a smile That will lure me in 100% but I have noticed the men nowadays don’t do live action hunting aka flirting everything’s on apps now they dont need any effort required beside a swipe We rather play video games and talk to a woman Good luck just smile
ja**** Posted 4 hours ago 3 minutes ago, young45yold said: Eye contact with a smile That will lure me in 100% but I have noticed the men nowadays don’t do live action hunting aka flirting everything’s on apps now they dont need any effort required beside a swipe We rather play video games and talk to a woman Good luck just smile God damn it's disheartening how many people turn this every opportunity to bitch about men. I can tell you right now women are largely terrible to talk to nowadays, they all walk around with Princess attitudes. They've got these ideas in their head about what they deserve. And if you fumble flirting with a woman she'll go on social media and blast you for it. Don't whine about men in video games, that's the egg after the chicken. Men were pushed away from socializing
Be**** Posted 4 hours ago 2 minutes ago, jaxnorth said: God damn it's disheartening how many people turn this every opportunity to bitch about men. I can tell you right now women are largely terrible to talk to nowadays, they all walk around with Princess attitudes. They've got these ideas in their head about what they deserve. And if you fumble flirting with a woman she'll go on social media and blast you for it. Don't whine about men in video games, that's the egg after the chicken. Men were pushed away from socializing I agree ngl
El**** Posted 4 hours ago I don't flirt. I am just myself. I don't have a lot of interests though. My 10 years of healing brought me a completely insane amount of ... I just can't factor. I see red flags every where. I have been trying to get back in touch with my– not even just lust but attraction part of me. I don't find anyone attractive anymore unless if they have super super monogamous loyal qualities. It is really difficult, because I think one in a million people literally have it. And then once you see that there's something about them that you just can't do it, either. So you have to go through another million people to find something that you're attracted to. Puppy being just me, I find a lot of people who want what I have or what I offer. But what I have to offer is only fot 1 type of man. It is a frustration cycle
Be**** Posted 4 hours ago Welcome to a guys world haha, but sadly we can’t mind read and never know.. only ways to know is to ask but then again for blokes it can really backfire nowadays
bo**** Posted 4 hours ago If you're going for guys, many don't recognize subtle cues or choose not to depending on the setting. Being direct/blunt/forward is a sure way to get things going if he's interested. If you want to stick to subtle firting, giving the look, making lots of eye contact, smiling, maybe a little giggle, and hair play. Something a little less subtle is looking him up and down when he's looking at you.
Mi**** Posted 4 hours ago Well honey I got you beat it's been 7 yrs for me and I am right there with you. The only thing I know how to do anymore is be my alter ego a Dommy. But I want I do long for my person and hate the only way to meet someone anymore is online cause we forget how to flirt and who we truly are when it's on a screen. Anyways good topic and I hope you get all your answers
laura90 Posted 4 hours ago I think men pretty much interpret every kind of friendliness or politeness as flirting, right? You should be good if you are straight. ;) Just remember the mindset: Everyone wants you. Because: it is the truth. You look hot!
hy**** Posted 4 hours ago I agree with laura90, down to every work. You are so gorgeous so go get what YOU want.
sa**** Posted 3 hours ago Very true men are easy just say hello and if that doesn't get any convo started show some cleavage and slap him on the ass and say what didn't you heare? Believe it or not it'll work. It's worked for me with ladies probably 50% so it should word for a pretty lady like yourself at least 110% of the time if it doesn't message me I'll stare at your beautiful curve let you smack my ass the head down a dirt road for a first date
to**** Posted 3 hours ago If your having a conversation with the person start talking about upcoming events in your city tell them you'd like to go but don't want to go alone
Johnny-2194 Posted 3 hours ago It can be hard to “make a move” in public, for both sides. But a great way to show interest is eye contact and smiling. A lot of times that lays down the vibe you’re putting out, and if you start to receive it back, then just show more interest that can turn to more flirting. Ask if they have any fun plans for the weekend, or something that might open up some opportunity - “oh that sounds like a lot of fun. I wish I was going.” Try to read the room and don’t push too hard if it’s not there. But sometimes just throwing out that hint of interest is all it takes. Just some of my 2 cents FWIW.
Didz Posted 3 hours ago First, I love your whole vibe. Second, it really is as simple as being forth coming and declaring interest. Lastly, depending on the job, don’t 💩 where you sleep but if the vibes are vibing and you know it’s safe in all ways. Refer to the first and second answers.
Didz Posted 3 hours ago Just now, Didz said: First, I love your whole vibe. Second, it really is as simple as being forth coming and declaring interest. Lastly, depending on the job, don’t 💩 where you sleep but if the vibes are vibing and you know it’s safe in all ways. Refer to the first and second answers. Be yourself, say the thing.
ld**** Posted 3 hours ago id f in k. your profile is great but as Didz wrote, be you. and if you want to make out with someone, tell em. some of us are just as socially awkward. good luck. 😊
jS**** Posted 3 hours ago I 100% feel you on this. In the digital age, too, it seems almost impossible. I’m also in my 40s, so I come from the days when you had normal conversations with people- a simple, polite back-&-forth that takes all of 5-10mins. Now days its all via text, online, and usually after a normal, conversational pace has been established, the other party will simply disappear mid-chat without warning, not following up for hours or even days. If you are so bold as to text a “hello?” or “still there?” they’ll bite your head off like “look i dont sit on my phone all day ok?! I have a life ya know!” and then cut you off by blocking you entirely. In person, as a single male, its even worse. You go to a bar solo, and youre automatically a serial killer and not to be trusted. Its beyond frustrating. Jeepers. Maybe i should just make my own post, asking for advice. 😂🙄🤦♂️🤷
ca**** Posted 3 hours ago "Hey, that's a nice you have there. How hard is it to take out? Can I help?" Obviously, read the room first, but as a guy this would make my day hahahaha
ld**** Posted 3 hours ago ps. think repetitive eye contact and interest in the person should give them the hint. maybe a touch.
ca**** Posted 3 hours ago 1 minute ago, cambridge53599 said: "Hey, that's a nice you have there. How hard is it to take out? Can I help?" Obviously, read the room first, but as a guy this would make my day hahahaha \
Ma**** Posted 3 hours ago I cant speak for all guys but I would say that you want to avoid non verbal ques as much as possible. Since many guys dont know how to read those signals well and can either miss them all together or miss interpret them. My advice would be to build a friendly repour with casual banter and drop subtle hints that you are intrested. If this does not que them in then ask for their phone number or something more direct. If it still is not sucessful, just be forward. I know its some pretty general advice but this is my view what we guys respind to the best. Hope it helps
th**** Posted 3 hours ago Dress casually and unintimidatingly, and drive around town, stopping at different public places, parking next to cars like your own, and get out and walk around, observing your next victim.
gfy Posted 3 hours ago I can't give any general advice, I can only tell you that it might be much easier than you think. I'd react pretty positively to a simple: "Hi, would you like to sit down somewhere and have a drink with me? The first one's on me :)"
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