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I agree with gfy. Being direct tends to work well on guys.

So what works for me is alot of intrest. Get a convo going and then, be direct exactly what you want. Maybe its a bit akward. But akward is cute. You got this

I never figured out the whole flirting thing to begin with. Neither me flirting with someone or recognizing that I was being flirted with.

"Hey, that's a nice *piece of clothing* you have there. How hard is it to take off? Can I help?" Obviously, read the room first, but as a guy this would make my day hahahaha

Men are mostly unsubtle. Just tell him you would say yes to a date if he asks.

Touch, smile, adjust hair, slow blink, repeat their last words back to them, giggle, touch, compliment, flirtatious invitation, slip phone number on a piece of paper into their hand.

Just now, 6onmy9 said:

Touch, smile, adjust hair, slow blink, repeat their last words back to them, giggle, touch, compliment, flirtatious invitation, slip phone number on a piece of paper into their hand.

And then leave.

Okay, I can’t flirt to save my life so I would recommend just making a human connection. Connect on movies, hobbies, philosophy, life. If you’re interested tell them. That would be my recommendation.
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On another note, the fact that you look the time to be single was so smart. We can’t love others until we love ourselves. Taking years in the single life will pay dividends in your next relationship. 🙌🏼

I find the situation dictates what works . I held a door open knowing there was a woman behind me . When a turned to look at her my face fell into shock by her beauty .. no joke like a deer in head lights.. she asked me if there was something wrong . I answered plz forgive me my soul just tripped over itself to see you ..

I'm on spectrum so i just go with "just so you know, from now on I'm hitting on you" honesty and a bit weirdness has been working in my experience

Honestly I’m kinda oblivious to it most of the time unless it’s ***fully clear that’s what is happening. Even when I bartended for a few years it wasn’t obvious 🤷‍♂️

Also been single 5 years I feel like its also hard foe me because after ky last breakup my standards went up a bit because I wanted a partner that also cared about my needs as much as their own. But im still told im a big flirt even though im just talking g nicely and respectfully.

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