Discussing cuckolding for the first time

[Sq****]

Can't really beat around the bush just gotta ask the question if they would be willing to try it with you as its something you desire to have

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15 hours ago, Castle180 said:

I have to ask please I mean no disrespect
As a man HOW is that enjoyable for you? To share your woman with someone? I am not made that way to me it’s the one thing on the planet I could not, would not, share my woman with anyone in this universe! Call me old fashioned but you would have a better chance of FaceTiming God.

different folks have different interets 

like, aside from cuckolding/hotwifing (two different things which get confused) any other form or shade of non-monogamy, technically, involves sharing your partner (or yourself) to whatever degree

Mind in terms of "old fashioned" the whole concept of monogamy is a fairly recent idea and was initially Socially ***d (the church or state effectively made people be monogamous) so to be old fashioned would involve more than one partner anyway.

Anyhoo... in terms of modern day cuck/housewife in some cases it can stem through shades of ***, in other cases it can be "my partner is hot" and fantasising about watching them be fucked.  There are those also who are into the whole trophy wife thing, or, feel they need a wife for status or social standing - but are either not that into them and so happy for them to be sorted elsewhere, or if it's someone particularly succesful, it can be a whole fantasy on power of what *** can't buy. 

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Most people start using it a dirty talk for a while

[ki****]

Will- Started off as long distance dirty talk then just became a kink for us. It took some getting used too but got the videos are amazing 👏

[Cl****]

It's a great thing for women

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8 hours ago, Clitdick1961 said:

It's a great thing for women

not always

like again the old issue that folk keep confusing hotwifing and cuckolding 

But in a genuine cuckold situation - where the woman is in control of if and when she wants to do anything with anyone; every date still carries the whole risks any date would - but also that an awful lot of guys she's meeting aren't always on board with the situation as much as they might say they are.  Whether they think it is going to become a regular thing, if they themselves want anything more than the occasional fuck - dealing with being ad hoc - and then those who start to overstep boundaries because of this 

[DC****]

I am not fully into cuckolding as I am dominant, but I like to be in control and I like to make similar things happen with submissive guys and lesser men because it turns me on for some reason, but I have to be in charge. I introduced it by getting my partner to wear very little around a friend and it went from there and grew into some intense experiences.

[Ca****]

It really depends how much communication you two have before hand. As a Bull, I’ve flirted with the wife in front of the Cuck to see how they feel about it. It’s about seeing how they react and taking it slow and communicating what you’re both comfortable with.

[La****]

Wellll it was a short term relationship sadly but it started with her finding the key to my chastity and wanting to keep it after a discussion. She also made me wear her clothes from time to time even if under mine but it felt good. She'd also bring me to meet some of her frienda and some of them would act quite personal with both of us and that's also how I found my true self really! Its all about taking it easy at first imo and letting it build up.

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August 11, Castle180 said:

I have to ask please I mean no disrespect
As a man HOW is that enjoyable for you? To share your woman with someone? I am not made that way to me it’s the one thing on the planet I could not, would not, share my woman with anyone in this universe! Call me old fashioned but you would have a better chance of FaceTiming God.

You know, I don’t think I like the idea of my woman moving to the rhythm of another man. However, I want to be with other women and with other men’s woman (consensually) so it’s only right that I allow for and even celebrate my girl’s desires.
These are some of the things I had to come to terms with.
1. I am not the only man in the world that knows how to please my woman.

2. I may not be the best sex she’s ever had or the best sex she’ll ever have. It is not likely that the my gf is my best so why should I think that I would be hers?

3. The jealousy and protectiveness I feel is a *** based reaction not a love based reaction. It stems from feelings of lack and scarcity when in actuality I have an abundance of sex, love, and companionship.

4. I am able to give myself the illusion of having control when my wife’s needs are met because I have allowed or facilitated her experience, even if it’s with me.

Hope something resonates with you buddy. And you and your girlfriend find a
way to get all your needs and desires met without hurting each other!

[da****]

I like the way you think you're damn you're spiritual. I wish more people couldn't think like you

[oa****]

Powerful.... just not for me, I agree with alot of the notions, just not feeling the spiritual awakening...