Popular Post bb**** Posted August 25 Popular Post When is enough enough? After how many heartaches do you surrender? Throw in the towel? Raise the white flag? Give up?! Years of investing so much time and effort into vetting and dating, met with nothing but disappointment and/or *** on repeat. It’s not even my heart at this point, my spirit can’t take anymore. I know I’m not the only one that feels this way. Who else is over it? What now?
Deleted Member Posted August 25 To me, if they can’t find the time to acknowledge your existence or take a few seconds to text you to let you know they’re thinking about you once in 24 hrs .. they don’t care. It’s time to move on, because their actions don’t match their words.
da**** Posted August 25 I gave up years ago, which is unfortunately what brought me here. There's no winning. There's no positive outlook. There's just day after day of nothing.
Pr**** Posted August 25 Oh I hear you loud and clear over here, I was just talking about that with a few people. I wish I had an answer, if you find one lmk. I feel like I'm dying on the inside trying to keep trying.
Fa**** Posted August 25 I’ve given 110% of my heart and soul to someone who only ever treated me as an afterthought, and it’s breaking me inside. It hurts so deeply to constantly be passed over, to watch everything and everyone else take priority while I’m left sitting on the sidelines. I poured entire oceans into this, only to realize I was getting bare minimum crumbs in return—a late-night text, a booty call, a cheap invitation when nobody else was around. I’m just so exhausted from loving someone with everything I have, only to be made to feel like I’m completely invisible and unimportant. I deserved to be chosen, openly and fully, not saved as a last resort in the middle of the night.
Pr**** Posted August 25 20 minutes ago, Fantasymaker500 said: I’ve given 110% of my heart and soul to someone who only ever treated me as an afterthought, and it’s breaking me inside. It hurts so deeply to constantly be passed over, to watch everything and everyone else take priority while I’m left sitting on the sidelines. I poured entire oceans into this, only to realize I was getting bare minimum crumbs in return—a late-night text, a booty call, a cheap invitation when nobody else was around. I’m just so exhausted from loving someone with everything I have, only to be made to feel like I’m completely invisible and unimportant. I deserved to be chosen, openly and fully, not saved as a last resort in the middle of the night. Hugs
Ll**** Posted August 25 We are able to open our eyes in the morning we are still breathing and we get home safe that's a blessing anything above ground is better than under ground regret is greater than gratitude
Ye**** Posted August 25 When you find out the answer to “What now?” Please let a girl know cause I feel you. It’s exhausting doing the same song and dance over and over. Hugs to you. Hang in there ♥️
Te**** Posted August 25 I never had luck with finding a like minded girlfriend and the last one was but I wasn't shit to her
Hypnocurious Posted August 25 Sometimes we find ourselves stuck. We know we are looking for something more. But where is it.........Our feeling and emotions are ours to control. What do we do when we do not know how. ? We all have limiting beliefs. Laid down when we didnt know what they were. Now we are adults and it is time to release those beliefs. Time to make a change for me. What if there was a way to do this now. There is always a way, meditation, sound healing, Hypnosis, there is a way...............Do you want to change.............? It will be better when you release what is holding you back. Tried everything. Really. There is more............
ro**** Posted August 25 Gots to gently tap on that thing baby girl… just gotta tap on it to make it feel better … Stay positive
Ve**** Posted August 25 1 hour ago, Fantasymaker500 said: I’ve given 110% of my heart and soul to someone who only ever treated me as an afterthought, and it’s breaking me inside. It hurts so deeply to constantly be passed over, to watch everything and everyone else take priority while I’m left sitting on the sidelines. I poured entire oceans into this, only to realize I was getting bare minimum crumbs in return—a late-night text, a booty call, a cheap invitation when nobody else was around. I’m just so exhausted from loving someone with everything I have, only to be made to feel like I’m completely invisible and unimportant. I deserved to be chosen, openly and fully, not saved as a last resort in the middle of the night. My heart goes out to you... I am truly sorry to hear you have been going through that... I also understand your ***.. finding someone that wants to become a sub in the dynamic that I want is also proving to be difficult.. but I will never stop hoping that someday the person that fits with me will walk into my life..
ca**** Posted August 25 I have a different take on this.. hopefully it makes sense.... Don't surrender after a heartbreak. Take time to reflect, learn and liberate yourself from the unnecessary. Birth a new version of you. Come into life with a new perspective and excitement about more discoveries, experiences, lessons and most importantly keep yourself liberated. And, if I may add one more thing... If one must truly surrender, surrender yourself in an authentic relationship.
Bi**** Posted August 25 It’s hard out here for a lover girl. I have become very clear about what I want and need in my life, and have been clear with my connections. Each encounter makes my own wants, needs, and desires more and more clear. But I can only play the “getting to know you” game so many times before I need a time out. It’s exhausting. That used to be part of the fun, but it becomes repetitive.
Re**** Posted August 25 It’s very hard indeed, the ghosting…. The cancels…… the fake sorry I was busy. Ive almost thrown in the towel so many times. My mission needs to be completed. It is very hard to keep your emotions out of this lifestyle. When you always feel like the last resort in their lives, even though it’s supposed to be NSA friendships occur. MEN STOP TAKING US FOR GRANTED!!!
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