Kink Shaming

[Da****]

Ever had a falling out with a situationship and they begin using your kink as a weapon? Tell me about how you got over the shame they inflicted on you.

[Da****]

Yes . Can’t go into details but lesson learnt is to identify ref flags early and terminate whatever it is amicably

[Da****]

4 minutes ago, Dave-Lothbrok said:

Yes . Can’t go into details but lesson learnt is to identify ref flags early and terminate whatever it is amicably

Thanks for the insight! Definitely good advice 😊

[ci****]

That’s more about the person shaming than the person being shamed. People manly shame because they are uncomfortable with something the are feeling

[vv****]

It’s just low vibe attacks… like someone calling you fat or ugly. They can’t attack your character so they go for whatever makes you “unacceptable” socially. So long as your kinks are SSC/legal, you shouldn’t feel ashamed. You know who you are and what you’re about. Not everyone is going to understand that.

[St****]

I’m going through a situation right now where I had a heart attack and still I haven’t been given a reason

[st****]

Yes

[li****]

Yeah man, going through the breakup with my former gf, mother of my ***, 5 yrs together. we had done some group things during our relationship that like before she was like all into it like cuck and film and degrade stuff, and as we were courting, so you know the what's your biggest fantasy from questions were flying and stuff and I ended up telling her. I don't know she was like all into it originally acted like she was going to be into it and stuff, and was way into when it was going down, then, during the breakup, she's like "I can't believe you made me do that stuff I did all that stuff just for you and you made e feel terrible having me do that you're disgusting" etc etc. it was like whoa wait a minute and almost felt like the whole relationship was like built on these f****** lies.

[mu****]

Had fun with both her ***s, some of her friends and a few coworkers to show her pussy eating ( my kink) is not a bad thing. Now she has to go through the rest of her life hearing about me🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[ho****]

I've had a few people in the past try to use my kinks/fetishes against me. You can't really stop people from kink shaming if they decide they are going to... in my case though none of it mattered. I don't feel ashamed or guilty about what I do regardless of who points it out. I'm solid enough that if someone wants to judge me or my practice negatively I can own what I do and why I do it and move on.

[Pr****]

People are jerks, I have had a few guys find out I'm into some "wilder" things, its not but then they just kept asking and I eventually blocked them. I can't imagine how bad it would be once they found out my thoughts and desires when I was horny and then blab to people I am friends and family with.

[Ch****]

Funnily enough, i never had this situation. More over, it happens more often that i feel myself ashamed for my kinks, since i have the feeling i cant share it with anyone except a closed and small community. So i do think now and then about the possibility that i may be a weirdo. But hey, thoughts come, thoughts go, it is what it is

[Pr****]

57 minutes ago, ChloeDemut said:

Funnily enough, i never had this situation. More over, it happens more often that i feel myself ashamed for my kinks, since i have the feeling i cant share it with anyone except a closed and small community. So i do think now and then about the possibility that i may be a weirdo. But hey, thoughts come, thoughts go, it is what it is

Being "weird" isn't always bad. I'd hate to be like others and just mindlessly go about life never considering anything new.

[ki****]

Can feel a bit hard when ending a kinky relationship. "You only wanted me because I stuck needles in your cock!" kind of thing 😆

[Ki****]

I was dating a girl once I took care of her while she was sick and then once she was better, she said that she didn’t wanna date me any longer because the puppy stuff freaks her out and she just wanted to be friends and then she never talk to me again and block my number.
So that was a nice feeling kind of like kicking your dog out under the street

[Sa****]

22 hours ago, vvhitelie said:

It’s just low vibe attacks… like someone calling you fat or ugly. They can’t attack your character so they go for whatever makes you “unacceptable” socially. So long as your kinks are SSC/legal, you shouldn’t feel ashamed. You know who you are and what you’re about. Not everyone is going to understand that.

I know this concept all to well unfortunately 😭

[Sa****]

22 hours ago, cincinnati116 said:

That’s more about the person shaming than the person being shamed. People manly shame because they are uncomfortable with something the are feeling

This is so true

[Ra****]

It’s a curse of being different but it helps you learn about red flags 🚩 for the next relationship. I think also don’t forget if it wasn’t that, it would be something else, many people don’t have much integrity.