New pleasure dom

[Pa****]

56 minutes ago, eyemblacksheep said:

So the kinda reality.   While women don't have the same refactory period as men, there are still human limits - each orgasm takes a toll on the nervous and cardiovasuclar systems.

Whilst the actions of a partner may influence how many orgasms someone has in a session (likewise to men, although there is a refactory period - if someone keeps going they can get more out of you, but it hurts...) generally how many someone would be even capable of having is down to their body - but after a few orgasms they are going to become sensitive and it starts to get ***ful.   It again, doesn't matter how good you are, or think you are, there is still a limit on the human body.

Apparently, it's around 2% of women can achieve as many as 20, and that certainly wouldn't be every time.

So with that in mind it is still probably worth working out what is actually going on.

The fairest thing would be to say you are misinterpreting her body signals - that you are counting things like pelvic contractions, "waves" (so counting one orgasm as two or more) or twitches - no shame in that, but again it's probably a sign to stop counting and just enjoy it.

However, it's also not impossible that she is lying/faking - possibly to help make you feel good, especially if the sex/experience is otherwise enjoyable - or again, if she thinks you're keeping count and trying to break records.  

Or, of course, a lot of this post feels like a brag or boast, to claim you're exceptionally skilled.  Perhaps as an advert via the backdoor. Again, I kinda hate to break it to you - but if she is having 30-50 or more orgasms it's her, not you, and it's probably causing her a lot of *** and discomfort.

My girlfriend can have chain orgasms (10 in 20 minutes), we’ve talked about it in depth. I check in with her during the scene too. She enjoys them but they do take a toll on her body.

It’s important to check in with whomever you’re playing with instead of assuming they like/don’t like what you’re doing.

I only say this to you because you seem to imply that chain orgasms “probably cause a lot of discomfort”

[Ja****]

3 hours ago, eyemblacksheep said:

So the kinda reality.   While women don't have the same refactory period as men, there are still human limits - each orgasm takes a toll on the nervous and cardiovasuclar systems.

Whilst the actions of a partner may influence how many orgasms someone has in a session (likewise to men, although there is a refactory period - if someone keeps going they can get more out of you, but it hurts...) generally how many someone would be even capable of having is down to their body - but after a few orgasms they are going to become sensitive and it starts to get ***ful.   It again, doesn't matter how good you are, or think you are, there is still a limit on the human body.

Apparently, it's around 2% of women can achieve as many as 20, and that certainly wouldn't be every time.

So with that in mind it is still probably worth working out what is actually going on.

The fairest thing would be to say you are misinterpreting her body signals - that you are counting things like pelvic contractions, "waves" (so counting one orgasm as two or more) or twitches - no shame in that, but again it's probably a sign to stop counting and just enjoy it.

However, it's also not impossible that she is lying/faking - possibly to help make you feel good, especially if the sex/experience is otherwise enjoyable - or again, if she thinks you're keeping count and trying to break records.  

Or, of course, a lot of this post feels like a brag or boast, to claim you're exceptionally skilled.  Perhaps as an advert via the backdoor. Again, I kinda hate to break it to you - but if she is having 30-50 or more orgasms it's her, not you, and it's probably causing her a lot of *** and discomfort.

That’s why I was hesitant to give a number. It’s unbelievable. And she’s not my first like thst. And she squirts multiple too. Lol

[xo****]

So I feel like true pleasure doms know you’d have to start a tally to really keep track lol. I guess 3 or 4 is a good minimum from my experience. We enjoy taking them there so much that we want to keep going and when you get in the right zone it’s not going to stop until YOU decide it’s done. That’s why quantifying is kinda unrealistic lol

[Sa****]

I never had one but I imagine it depends on the people involved lol.

[ey****]

9 hours ago, PacificRestraint said:

 

My girlfriend can have chain orgasms (10 in 20 minutes), we’ve talked about it in depth. I check in with her during the scene too. She enjoys them but they do take a toll on her body.

It’s important to check in with whomever you’re playing with instead of assuming they like/don’t like what you’re doing.

I only say this to you because you seem to imply that chain orgasms “probably cause a lot of discomfort”

it's why I went with 'probably' because it's not a definitive - but, yeah, as you say the chain orgasms take a toll. Certainly it would hit someone around their limit.    

And absolutely.

there has been a couple of threads recently of guys who have been stating how many orgasms they give their partners and are trying to break records and it's... ok... so who is this for? For her? Or for the person to try to boast? Because like there is a limit on what folk can take before it does become less enjoyable.   And this isn't about what someone is or isn't doing right or wrong, but just our bodies.

I suspect someone who feels their partner is going for a record but they now just want things to end is more likely to fake/lie to get it done with 

It's also slightly more likely if there are multiples close together they are part of the same wave of one or two, rather than distinct individual orgasms.  Ultimately, it doesn't matter so long as you both are enjoying the experience.

[ey****]

7 hours ago, JasonTemua said:

 

That’s why I was hesitant to give a number. It’s unbelievable. And she’s not my first like thst. And she squirts multiple too. Lol

I feel the main thing really is to focus less on the counting and in just making sure you're enjoying yourselves and that if there are rolling or multiple orgasms that it is likely to be taking a toll on her and to check in that she is ok rather than pushing for any form of record in which it's more likely to become less enjoyable for her.

And like remember regardless whatever is or isn't happening is largely down to her body, you haven't got a special skill.  

[Deleted Member]

Jason, respectfully, this feels like an advert to anyone who might be interested in your profile but hasn’t had the pleasure of messaging you just yet.

I hope, trust and ask that you put as much effort into aftercare as you are in making your subs cum 30-50 times a night (of course, I acknowledge that now that you’re embracing what you can do, it’s gone higher!).

That many orgasms will take a toll on any person’s body, so if you are hitting those numbers, please make sure you’re looking after your sub’s other (entirely valid) needs too.

They’re human beings, not orgasm machines!

[fe****]

Alot of men think we cum when we moan, or make noises. No. Also that's not cum when we get a little wet. Actual orgasms are way more and harder to achieve. I have had 8 in one day. And that last one was a big one!

[Ja****]

6 hours ago, GreyFox87 said:

Jason, respectfully, this feels like an advert to anyone who might be interested in your profile but hasn’t had the pleasure of messaging you just yet.

I hope, trust and ask that you put as much effort into aftercare as you are in making your subs cum 30-50 times a night (of course, I acknowledge that now that you’re embracing what you can do, it’s gone higher!).

That many orgasms will take a toll on any person’s body, so if you are hitting those numbers, please make sure you’re looking after your sub’s other (entirely valid) needs too.

They’re human beings, not orgasm machines!

My sessions are all night and I’m not an asshole. Lol. There is precare and aftercare. She leaves a whole new person. Lol

[Kl****]

My record is 12 to 16 times, but if a woman doesn't know herself / how to achieve pleasure it is much less or none.
But theres truth in that the journey there is as munch fun as the destination.

[Ja****]

1 hour ago, KlausDom69 said:

My record is 12 to 16 times, but if a woman doesn't know herself / how to achieve pleasure it is much less or none.
But theres truth in that the journey there is as munch fun as the destination.

I always have an extended smoke or hang sesh before. There must be trust and comfort built first. Leave the outside world at the door. Then submit.

[vv****]

10 hours ago, GreyFox87 said:

Jason, respectfully, this feels like an advert to anyone who might be interested in your profile but hasn’t had the pleasure of messaging you just yet.

I hope, trust and ask that you put as much effort into aftercare as you are in making your subs cum 30-50 times a night (of course, I acknowledge that now that you’re embracing what you can do, it’s gone higher!).

That many orgasms will take a toll on any person’s body, so if you are hitting those numbers, please make sure you’re looking after your sub’s other (entirely valid) needs too.

They’re human beings, not orgasm machines!

🤭 🤭

[ra****]

Yesterday at 12:18 PM, kinkydarling said:

In that case I think I have been pleasure Doming myself 😂

🤣🤣🤣❤️

[ra****]

5 hours ago, KlausDom69 said:

My record is 12 to 16 times, but if a woman doesn't know herself / how to achieve pleasure it is much less or none.
But theres truth in that the journey there is as munch fun as the destination.

Spittin’ straight facts right there!

[Kl****]

5 hours ago, raleigh953174 said:

Spittin’ straight facts right there!

Often the women who can come the most are the ones who know themselves sexually, they masturbate, and often borderline nymphs if not outright nympho's... Sometimes as a man you're just the tapestry or companion on their journey... I have no problem being either. 

[Ja****]

1 hour ago, KlausDom69 said:

Often the women who can come the most are the ones who know themselves sexually, they masturbate, and often borderline nymphs if not outright nympho's... Sometimes as a man you're just the tapestry or companion on their journey... I have no problem being either. 

I prefer the ones that never let someone truly know them like that. Breaking down walls and helping them reach new places. Maybe tackle some issues from their exes who were disgusted by “freaky stuff” or my favorite squirting. The repressed ones really let go with the right person.

[no****]

Record of 23 gushing and screaming at this point 👉

[Paaahpi_Pandingo]

😉😈

[TheRigger]

Depends on the sub, her experience, mental state, your techniques, etc.

I have managed to make a sub cum once and not able to take anymore (lots of orgasm control and denial), to having multiple orgasms leaving the sub high on endorphins - lots of aftrr care may be needed - especially if the sub has a sub drop when have withdrawal symptoms as she recovers from the come down.

[Ja****]

It’s really fun when they cant talk or go into subspace. Lol

[BadTouch76]

my record is 35 plus times because i stopped counting and they all began to blend into one big giant event (ok i jest my bad.. continue :) )

[Deleted Member]

Tuesday at 06:41 PM, JasonTemua said:

My sessions are all night and I’m not an asshole. Lol. There is precare and aftercare. She leaves a whole new person. Lol

I’m glad to hear it, J-man. What do you do for precare and aftercare?

[Ja****]

We both smoke so smoke sesh and hang out to get in the right mindset. After I’m still connected so I just kinda know what she needs and depends on her. Depends on how intense it got and where she went for how long. Lol

[Ja****]

1 hour ago, GreyFox87 said:

I’m glad to hear it, J-man. What do you do for precare and aftercare?

I’m still learning and evolving with her help

[hu****]

To be honest with you dear, it all depends on the sub because as a ts woman, i can go all night and fuck you to stupor till i have your ass filled up with my cum