Munch Notes/Agenda - The Great Kinky Outdoors - 19th August 2021

August 26, 2021

Munch Notes/Agenda – The Great Kinky Outdoors – 19th August 2021

Content contributors: @PixieDust @lil-monster @GoodGirl1003

1.One kink that is synonymous to the great outdoors is Dogging. Does anyone know what “Dogging” is and where did the term originate from?

Undertaking and or viewing sexual activities in secluded locations
The term originated in the UK and spread across the world
The term is a play on words of taking your pet for a walk, instead of "Taking the dog for a walk" you are going off to undertake or partake in and or view sexual activities usually in the outdoors at a specified parking spot or predetermined place such as a park or field.
Usually, activities are partaken in a car or adjacent to the car

2. Like many of the kinks we have out there, Dogging has certain etiquettes to follow. Do you know what some of these maybe?

If watching, you should not be touching anyone unless have been invited to do so
If you happy to let people just watch, flash your interior light
If you want watchers to come by closer, wind down your window
If you want watchers to touch, let them know
Don’t have headlights on when arriving at a scene
Anonymity – respect everyone’s privacy
Filming with a camera or phone is prohibited
Keep your phone on silent as to not disturb anyone
Try not to make a scene and bring attention on yourself
Agree on safe words and or signals in case one of you wants to stop
Condoms are advised to avoid any unwanted STDs or pregnancies
Do not leave rubbish or the like

3. Whilst many may enjoy Dogging there are few things to watch out for, what do you think some of these maybe ?

If you are a single female, do not go alone take a friend as a watcher, a support person to keep you safe.
Don’t go directly home, drive around for a while to make sure you are not followed
Make sure the place you are going is secluded, the last thing you want is the attention of the police
Safety first, your safety is paramount, if the place does not feel safe or suss in anyway leave asap
Avoid places of known prostitution and drug dealing
Never dog if children are present
Do not trespass on private property

4. What are the best ways to find out where the local Dogging spots are?

Check your local kink sites
Check Dogging websites
Google Dogging sites
Some sites will offer specialised meetups
Why not create your own, be adventurous and spontaneous but remember safety first always.

5. Why do you think kinksters enjoy Dogging? And would you, yourself partake in it? Or have you?

So, Dogging not your thing how about a bit of Outdoor sex.

6. What do you think the appeal is of outdoor sex?

Thrill of getting caught
Enjoying nature
Different levels of temperature
Different settings
Form of *** (consensual)

7. Where are the types of places you can enjoy outdoor sex?

In a park
At the beach
Nudist Beaches
Nudist camps
In a forest
In your backyard
Under the stars at night
Camping
At Picnic
Out hiking
On a boat
On a holiday
Skinny Dipping
Saunas/Spas (remember to check the rules of some public places)

8. When planning outdoor sex and it’s not spontaneous, what essential items can you take with you?

Scout out a good place to play
Blanket/Pillows
Keep some clothes handy if you have to make a quick dash for cover, such as towel or a sarong
Water
Bug repellent spray
Lube
Condoms
First aid kit
Sex Toys
Rope
Handcuffs
Paddles and the like
Chocolate/Sweets for aftercare

9. Similar to outdoor sex many enjoy public sex, can you name a few places where this might occur?

Cinema
Workplace staff room, filing room, toilets
Toilets in general
On the bus / train/ tram/ taxi
Theatre
Swingers club
Night club
At a bar
In the carpark
Restaurant
In a lift / elevator
Mile High club

10. What things should be aware of when undertaking outdoor or public sex?

No children present
Possible arrest/ criminal record
Can be recognised by someone you know
If its outdoor sex, make sure you’re not near anything dangerous or toxic such as poison ivy, nettles etc
Check your surroundings, check for ants, spiders, beehives, anything that can bite and sting you
CCTV cameras
Someone filming you on their phone

11. What are some of the best positions for outdoor or public sex?

Doggy style
Bent over a park bench or something similar
On a desk or a chair
Make do with what you got and make it work

12. Does anyone have any funny stories of their outdoor or public sex adventures? Has anyone ever been caught out?

Dogging, Outdoor and Public sex all have elements of Voyeurism and Exhibitionism contained within them.

A Voyeur for example indulges in their kink through their pleasure in watching others indulging in sexual, kink and fetish activities. A voyeur can also be someone who just indulges in people watching without any kink element.

Whereas Exhibitionists prefer to be the ones being watched while they engage in their sexual activity and or kink.

13. What appeals to people who are exhibitionists and voyeurists alike?

By people watching you are turned on
Form of *** which in turn, turns people on
The thrill of being caught
The thrill of knowing that someone is being turned on by watching you
You like being naked
You like watching whether it be publicly or hiding in the shadows
You enjoy the appeal of watching but not necessarily always being seen
You are turned on by watching people

14. What are some of the more risqué forms of exhibitionism?

Flasher/Flashing (Can result in arrest if caught)
Streaker (Can result in arrest if caught)
Sex tape (Can end up in the wrong hands)

15. Final thoughts and questions?

When indulging in any form of Outdoor or Public sex, always remember to know the law of the land, be safe, sane and consensual. The last thing we want is anyone to end up on the wrong side of the law!!!!

Thank you to our host @GoodGirl1003and to all the members who came to the Online Munch and joined in the discussion.