Switching it Up

[Ma****]

I have a few questions aimed towards the more dominant of us out there as well as the more submissive mascs around.

What are some good spaces you've found aimed towards expressing your more submissive side?

And a place where I particularly struggle is how to stay in that headspace. I myself tend to "brat" or push boundaries and I switch back easily into a place of control and dominance.

For the doms of more masculine subs./switches-

How do you encourage your subs to fall into that submission? Do you ever have to adjust whenever their headspace shifts and do you have any experience with "bratty" male subs/switches? How do you tend to handle them differently than a traditional sub?

Im just curious because I know the position isn't as common and can be difficult to adjust to.

Unfortunately it is something I have little experience with on the sub side.

[Da****]

I would love to see some answers on this myself.

[hr****]

i'm naturally submissive, so this question might not be aimed exactly at me. but your dom can do a lot to help you reach that headspace. going slow, and giving praise can go a long way! i highly recommend looking up some audio files that are meant to help subs relax and get into that mindset :)

[bd****]

As a sub, typically consequences such as loss of privileges (unable to wear clothes around the house for 12 hours) or punishment (say spankings) typically encourage you to be more compliant like a good Sub should be.

[Da****]

1 hour ago, hrnyboyblue said:

i'm naturally submissive, so this question might not be aimed exactly at me. but your dom can do a lot to help you reach that headspace. going slow, and giving praise can go a long way! i highly recommend looking up some audio files that are meant to help subs relax and get into that mindset :)

That’s a good shout tbh

[Ma****]

1 hour ago, bingchilln said:

You couldn't handle a wet paper bag on your face chill lil bro

Brother you might be a little confused.

[Ma****]

1 hour ago, bdsm_fantasy said:

As a sub, typically consequences such as loss of privileges (unable to wear clothes around the house for 12 hours) or punishment (say spankings) typically encourage you to be more compliant like a good Sub should be.

Ahhh see most of the doms ive been involved with have been very strict doms and such and too be fair it just makes me want to act out when im involved with them. Maybe soft domming would be more of my s***d in the beginning until the headspace sets in.

[Antinormaltendencies]

Someone once said that batting is a form of communication in of itself, meaning you want more of the thing so you keep acting out. A full stop of play could be an incentive for you to behave.

[Mr****]

My sub tried to challenge me recently. I made him sit then yelled at him about why I have to do everything and he promptly apologized and acknowledged his place. I don't tolerate that. I always use strong communication to redirect whether aggressively or passionately