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This is not your problem to solve, communicate clearly to all parents that if they can't move past voicing their own judgmental opinions then they will be relegated to low/no contact.

I don't think this has to do anything with your family. It's shame showing up luke this in your life. Maybe there's a opportunity there 😉

and just like those before me, is your life, not anyone's else.

1 minute ago, EugenIsThriving said:

I don't think this has to do anything with your family. It's shame showing up luke this in your life. Maybe there's a opportunity there 😉

luke=like /// damn typo

If you are happy about it then it doesn’t concern your family to know about it. Be happy and be who you are

What matters is that you and your partner are happy. Your family doesn’t need to know more then that.

Also just because they disagree with the life style doesn’t make it wrong. It’s just wrong for them. It works for you. That’s what matters.

I don’t know how your family could make a moral judgment on something you both morally agree on. You’re in agreement as two consenting adults. As along as you two get along and are enjoying the relationship. It’s your personal choice. They may be worried that it’s being strung along and won’t amount to anything. But that’s for you two to find out. Just live your life. And don’t worry about what they think. Mention it once if you’d like. Beyond that, live it alone and live your lives.

In my OPINION if you have more then one partner it means you’re incapable of being loyal to one person at a time so getting with multiple people is like passing around all diseases possible

^^WHAT HE SAID^^ plus if your main partner isn't enough, then the might as well live as a single person. It's better than complicating your life with trying to juggle multiple people. I know two couples that tried this, both ended up hurt, disfuntional, and broke up\divorced in the end.

The Truth as better than sugarcoated lies with artificial sweetner...

I see many opinions following the silly rhetoric "like a**holes". They are sh**ty and stink. Who cares what you think about a polys values intent. More wtf are you to express such. Vanilla and judgemental. Definitely not attractive

Now about her subject, when it comes to sexual adventures and desires it is perfectly to not inform your family. You don't have to tell them everything

Do what you want to do. If they judge you just don’t mention it but life should have no worries and feelings of what somebody else thinks what somebody else wants you to do or how somebody else feels. If they love you, they will understand. Happiness comes as much as you push for it. This world is getting to wear happiness is less and less obtainable and then we’re too old to do the things we wanted to do when we were younger.

Speaking as someone who suppressed who he was and what he desired for years I say who gives a flying fuck in a rolling donut what the family thinks.
Live your life, love who you love, and enjoy yourself. As for family just keep that as a topic not talked about at holiday gatherings when sitting down to dinner or around the Barbie.

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