Words vs Action

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9 hours ago, TripleXHexxx said:

If. He. Wanted. To. He. Would.

Find someone who will and leave him alone. Be prepared for him to keep coming back because they always do. Don't let him. Leave room for people who are worth it.

This! They always always do.

[Sl****]

It’s about priorities. If he wanted to he would. I just went through this. It takes literally 9 seconds to text someone. I stuck around way longer in my case than I wish I did trying to give him the benefit of the doubt. When there wasn’t one to give. If he makes you feel like a wreck and crying he isn’t your safe place and you deserve one. Your safe place doesn’t put you second. They text you. They make sure you’re okay. If you had a tough day, they make time for you-you shouldn’t have to ask for it. You’re not being jealous, you just aren’t being treated right.

[ch****]

8 hours ago, columbia12019 said:

If it’s always about *** or things, I think that’s a red flag

What about dadjokes?

[ch****]

Sometimes i see the words used in profiles are constructs to being respectfully direct.

[co****]

Knock, knock…

[ch****]

13 hours ago, columbia12019 said:

If it’s always about *** or things, I think that’s a red flag

When you things? Do you mean in general?

[Starbucket]

17 hours ago, chocobbcLA said:

What about the opposite side if the fence when ladies ask for a dozen pictures or interview you to death by asking "tell me about yourself" like a yob interview. Whats the limit? Any subtle nuances?

Not all ladies do that. Don't lump us all together.

[co****]

When you things? Do you mean in general?

I mean they have all the necessities and nice things but all they talk about is what they don’t have, what someone else has and it’s never about gratitude for what and who they have or what they hope to accomplish and build toward in life