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I personally like educated men… mostly cause i am
Myself. I find blue collar have too much macho aggressive loss of control etc. howeved most men fit that description. I guess u see more men in universities who work super hard to gain knowledge i think is sexy it takes patience, persistence, resilience. Im also an army vet so i like athleticism so maybe blue collar? Idk ….

2 hours ago, Unknowing said:

I don't think attraction necessarily comes down to hormones, career, ***, or social status. Women have different tastes, and I only know one universal truth when it comes to attraction. And that's how a woman feels about herself when she's with you. Can she be herself, feeling safe and un judged or is she on edge, anxious about a reaction and guarded.

I don't think it's that women are naturally more attracted to so-called "losers." Maybe those men simply aren't as worried about work, status, or trying to prove their worth, leaving them more emotionally present and capable of connecting closer with what makes her happy

Feeling safe is probably the only way to get a woman. You nailed that

10 hours ago, nickfrostig said:

In my humble opinion, people without work get the most 😂 women love losers

Lol there is some truth in this for codependency. Wanting to take care of someone. Men do it all the time by making their women stay home mom, they like they cant leave and need them

I was a UPS guy for 26 years , some women had a “ thing “ for us. Mostly just both parties being big flirts, but then there were some that answered the door half dressed knowing it was us

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I think alot of people think that they want their partner to have a stable well paying job and think more about that aspect, but in the longterm, they end up wanting them to have a stable well paying job that is somehow a relatively chill/ less stressful with lots of vacation time that they feel safe taking.

I think many are in the impression that blue collar jobs are pretty good pay and stable, and many blue collar workers I've met have been more strong and confident than average lol. More relaxed too.

A huge aspect for many women is feeling safe, and a relaxed, confident (but not arrogant) man feels safe.

Not a hivemind, true. As somewhat of a woman myself I've noticed that a man who can make or fix something with his hands is always an attractive sight. A highly capable individual who can fix someone's problem with his mind, advice or connections is even more attractive. Thats why doctors/lawyers are attractive on a basic level. The fix and solve.
Obviously physical fitness gives a huge boost to any profession (or a even a lack of profession) and a bad shape is a drag that brings points down for any job title. People often overlook the fact why "being nice, clever and well employed" doesn't seem to do the trick.

The hottest person is someone who is obviously good at their job. I have fallen in lust with the most average looking people because their ability to do a job (entertainment, customer service, support work, ect) was so obvious and superior to everyone else around them.

I prefer men that work physically, so blue collar would be it, but a certain amount of smartness and education is neccessary too.

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