FemDom without feminization

[Mo****]

Does anyone else feel as though FemDom has been come too much about feminization?

I love the fem dom but could go easier on the feminization.

[Daddybrains]

I’ve had FemDom friends who didn’t feminize - and I’ve known female brats who specialized in attempted emasculation of their play partners. A D/s relationship is like any other relationship in this way: if the two of you are fundamentally incompatible in your wants, walk away.

[DrStarlight]

I do. Especially sissification, which is a hard limit for me. Sissification to me is inherently misogynistic.

[PrincessAmiBabi]

Im a switch. An when im Domme i hate feminization and sissification. Not my thing at all

[Zis]

I dont do feminization, because its misogynistic. What do you mean, its degrading for you, to be treated like a woman? Shows deeply how the sub feels about woman, so he is not for me.

[ey****]

it's coming up to 13 years I've been continiously active and I have been fortunate enough to do some form of play with many many wonderful people - and I think it's like been.... maybe two... who've brought up anything vaguely around feminization - and one of those we were literally having a dress up and role play day and we got out some Super Mario stuff and she was like "Naw, you're being Princess Peach" but it wasn't really about "being feminine is humiliating"  which is why we did those.   But yeah, over the time I've found more ladies pushing against feminization, due to it's inherent misogny (and sometimes sprinkles of transphobia) unless it's in a generally positive or fun light 

[Kb****]

Feminization makes me feel like im a real submissive girl and the domina is my sensually dominant protective partner

[su****]

3 hours ago, PrincessAmiBabi said:

Im a switch. An when im Domme i hate feminization and sissification. Not my thing at all

I agree. Nothing against those who enjoy it, but not my thing either. Unfortunately It also  seems that chastity and sissy always seem to be put in the same sort of pigeon hole.  However the two are most definitely  not mutually exclusive. 

[Kb****]

I prefer fufu to chastity lol

[DY****]

It’s because they hate women. They see us as beneath everyone, the lowest. The manosphere has turned their brains

[Kb****]

No, its actually because I love women and femininity so much that I wanna know whats its like to be the woman and also let the woman experience what its like to be the man

[Zis]

15 minutes ago, KbGoonie said:

No, its actually because I love women and femininity so much that I wanna know whats its like to be the woman and also let the woman experience what its like to be the man

That doesnt make sense to me as fem dom. So only a man can be sensually dominante protective partner? I have to inpersonate a man, to be that?
Thats sexism

[Kb****]

Eh take it however youd like. Is it not sexist to assume that I should be the dominant one?

[Kb****]

Why cant both of them just be people, playing a different character for awhile?

[Zis]

5 minutes ago, KbGoonie said:

Why cant both of them just be people, playing a different character for awhile?

Thats exactly what im talking about. Let it just be two people playing with eachother and not put characterlabels on the genders. I dont think you should be the dominant one because of you are male.🤷🏼‍♀️

[Zis]

8 minutes ago, KbGoonie said:

Eh take it however youd like. Is it not sexist to assume that I should be the dominant one?

Just looked at your profile. You want to be "fucked like a girl"...what does that mean to you?

[Kb****]

However you want to take it, the thing is girls or woman get fucked or inserted into whatever so yes like a girl.

[Kb****]

Fucked, like a girl. How's that?

[Zis]

Sooo, a homosexual man is not getting fucked? Only females?
And i can tell you, i have fucked big bearded men from behind...hard... and there was no feminization involved.

[Kb****]

Or to assume that a woman isnt inherently dominant? And has to impersonate a man to be so? Why cant she be impersonating Chelsea Green WWE champion?

[Zis]

...dude, you are makind my points here...a woman doesnt have to impersonate a man to be dominant and a man doesnt have to impersonate a woman to get fucked! Thats all im saying here!

[Th****]

18 minutes ago, KbGoonie said:

Or to assume that a woman isnt inherently dominant? And has to impersonate a man to be so? Why cant she be impersonating Chelsea Green WWE champion?

59 minutes ago, KbGoonie said:

No, its actually because I love women and femininity so much that I wanna know whats its like to be the woman and also let the woman experience what its like to be the man

*YOU* are the one who started off with assigning gender to D/s and top/bottom roles. Implying that lifestyle Dominant women are "playing a character" and not just being who they are. Why are you now trying to act like you didn't? 

[Kb****]

Why does everything people say have to be twisted into somthing it isnt? I like to feel like a girl being dominated. But you are saying that by me saying that im being misogynistic and sexist?when in reality its just 2 different life experiences. Whatever I said to make you think im trying to be exist or whatever wasnt relieved how it should have been apparantly.

[Kb****]

*Recieved

[Kb****]

Instead of woman and man we can just say submissive and dominate. But thats not to say its set in stone like that. Women are inherently more submissive than men tend to be. Thats not sexism either btw.