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DominatingHer
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Recently my little brat has broken a lot of rules that I had set up to keep her in check. She got brave and started giving cheek, talking back not doing what she was told, avoiding punishments, swearing at me and all sorts of things. Now I am asking for advice and new punishments to break her back down into a mindless slut.

  • I have tried physical punishments like spanking, slapping, hair pulling and clamping and other.
  • I have used mental punishments like degrading her, embarrassing her, making her do degrading tasks like crawling, begging, being put on a leash or used as a foot stool
  • Some more unique ideas like watching me get off unable to touch herself, taking her ability to speak, blinding her, cold showers and ice cubes.

Any and all ideas, especially unique punishment's, are welcome. Anything to make her submit and break her down into a pathetic whore.

Posted

I feel that...

what were your pre-agreed punishments ?   That's the framework you have to work in

Does she actually want to be 'broken down' - maybe talk to her - ask with her what is working and what isn't

If you have different relationship objectives to her, it's not going to work.

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It seems you have tried a lot.  You have put a lot of care and energy into your brat.  She isn't responding.  Maybe she has too much confidence in her status.  

Bring home another pretty little brat.  Tie up your present one.  Attend to and train the new one in the presence of your incorrigible brat.  Ignore your brat for a couple days as you pour attention into the new one. 

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First off OP, noticing your age, can I assume that this lady is a similar age to you, and that you're both fairly inexperienced in the lifestyle?

If my instincts are correct, I'd suggest maybe taking a step backwards and rather than indulging in fantasy ideas and perceptions about the lifestyle that have perhaps been fed by porn, that you both discuss what it is you want and expect from your dynamic and at the same time take some time out to learn as much as you can.

None of the above is meant to be a criticism, but your whole post does read as something of a fantasy view - now there's nothing wrong as such with that but it's key you *both* understand not only each other, but have a clear and informed idea about the lifestyle too.

For example does she want to be a "mindless slut" - if so do you know why she does? It's important you both have a clear idea of why and what will put her there if that's what you *both* want.

Has she explained why she's behaving the way she is? Is it to challenge you and simply act bratty, or are you just not doing it right for her?

Until you understand all of the above and more, it's pointless asking for ideas here as anything suggested may not be right for both of you, and could in fact lead you to some damaging places.
  • 1 year later...
MisstressStorm
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I’m a Domme and definitely brat phobic. From My experience, subs act bratty to get some reward ( attention/ status or *** ).
If a sub isn’t behaving in a prescribed manner then there is a conversation and a period without Mistress - no contact , nothing. Giving them time to reflect on their behaviour/ expectations/ the dynamic.
Conversely, good behaviour ( expected as the norm ) and over that ,gets a reward. subs are Tasked to make their own sub menu of activities . Whilst I will always do as I please …. the sub can put their cards on the table …. I chose if I pick them up.
Mistress Storm ⛈️
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