Threesomes?

[Deleted Member]

Me and my Dom are looking into threesomes as we both really like the idea. But what’s the best way to go about it? We’re wanting a female sub/switch. Any help?

[ey****]

Quickest and easiest is to find a local escort who sees couples.

Swingers websites can be an option but can be a minefield - but, actually attending swinging clubs makes it easier for people to get a feel.  

[Deleted Member]

Commenting to see more replies because me too!!

[SophieSubSlut11]

Exactly what ‘eyemblacksheep’ said.

[Deleted Member]

31 minutes ago, SophieSlut11 said:

Exactly what ‘eyemblacksheep’ said.

Agrees 

[SapioExperimentalist]

Best luck for finding your unicorn is to go tKink house parties, take a bdsm class or find the adult scene in town. It is bananas how many like minded ***ps are out there.

[ge****]

Single women looking for couples to meet are known as "unicorns" for a reason and are not easy to find, for many reasons including the need for three way attraction, the need for the third person to feel part of the equation and not just a plaything for the couple to do as they want and not taking account of her wants and needs, she'll also need to feel she's not there just to put on a show for the male half too.

Swingers sites are a good place to look, but are full of couples looking for another woman who have difficulty finding one. Swinging clubs or kink events might bear more fruit or simply getting involved at munches on sites like this and swinging sites and showing that you're both serious and inclusive and not just looking for your benefit.

[Dn****]

Being open and honest with people is the best bet. If they are down for the team it work out and if not they say no thanks. If you care too much what people think; that’s a completely different issue. Finding a bi girl that isn’t already in a relationship can be difficult. It might be easier to goto a swinger party and try some soft swap and if you develop a report ask the couple if they are cool with the threesome with one watching or maybe after you develop the report you won’t mind the extra person.

[li****]

I’m here for the same.. I’m the one that would love the extra fun.. and I definitely see it’s hard to find unicorns.. I use to be one till I got engaged now I need someone like me lol

[Qu****]

As a unicorn, it is difficult to find ppl who understand all areas of need.

[Deleted Member]

6 hours ago, QuirkyMo79 said:

As a unicorn, it is difficult to find ppl who understand all areas of need.

Yeah I understand I used to be a unicorn myself so I think I’m quite understanding

[ma****]

We are looking for samething

[Ru****]

Same we are in Brisbane Australia. We had one experience but the unicorn didn’t want male penetration so we wish to try that now.

[Deleted Member]

Call in a professional. It's a great way to simplify the the process.

[ta****]

I’m looking for the same , did you have any luck ?

[Deleted Member]

3 hours ago, tayjoe02 said:

I’m looking for the same , did you have any luck ?

Not really had a few people message and we’ve messaged a few people but no luck

[ga****]

Glad to know we are not the only ones having trouble finding a 3 some . Seems more people talk about being interested and the just ghost you

[ey****]

one of the other big problems at times

there'll be a lady contacted by a 'couple' profile about a threesome and then, at the last minute - the woman in the couple will suddenly be busy, ill, away on business, whatever - "we should just have sex anyway the two of us" - which is a bit of a dirty bait and switch

because of this - if you are talking to someone and she feels like this might happen : she will stop talking to you.

[Deleted Member]

Wednesday at 11:03 PM, gainesville123 said:

Glad to know we are not the only ones having trouble finding a 3 some . Seems more people talk about being interested and the just ghost you

Same issue we’re having

[Ed****]

Same issue here can’t find another female

[Li****]

Im not actively seeking couples, but I have had experience with a couple and a hand full of threesomes. What may hesitate me from joining a couple as a submissive, is if the female is bi curious and has little to non experience with another woman because it means Id pretty much have to be the dominant one. Im not sure I'd want that sort of pressure. One or both have to be a Dominant for me.

[Deleted Member]

5 hours ago, Little_Em said:

Im not actively seeking couples, but I have had experience with a couple and a hand full of threesomes. What may hesitate me from joining a couple as a submissive, is if the female is bi curious and has little to non experience with another woman because it means Id pretty much have to be the dominant one. Im not sure I'd want that sort of pressure. One or both have to be a Dominant for me.

Yeah I’ve had girlfriends in the past and I’m dominant with girls but submissive to men 🤣 my partner is a Dom too

[Ch****]

Saturday at 10:00 AM, Little_Em said:

Im not actively seeking couples, but I have had experience with a couple and a hand full of threesomes. What may hesitate me from joining a couple as a submissive, is if the female is bi curious and has little to non experience with another woman because it means Id pretty much have to be the dominant one. Im not sure I'd want that sort of pressure. One or both have to be a Dominant for me.

Not necessarily. If the husband is the Dom, he could be telling you both what to do! Actually same if the Wife is Domme!

[Li****]

13 hours ago, Chastity_slave1962 said:

Not necessarily. If the husband is the Dom, he could be telling you both what to do! Actually same if the Wife is Domme!

I agree actually. I just didn't word it as well as you did.

[Su****]

Get you a unicorn who respects and aims to please both partners equally. The unicorn will not break any rules as they know they have to serve with the best commitment