Breath play

[Lugnut-4292]

Hi,

Only very lightly played with this. Mrs LugNut has put her hand around my neck (she has little hands and couldn't throttle me even if she tried) and held her hands over my mouth momentarily. I want to explore this a bit more but safely. No plans on death or brain damage just yet. Any advice on how to play safely? I saw a bag thing that goes over your head with a breathing tube. That looks kind of fun but not quite the same. May still give it a go.

L

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Safeties, always. Not only should you always have a safe word, but also a safe action and sound, to cover all eventualities. Others might have even more safeties; I don't know what, but safeties are key.

[ey****]

I love breath play on either side of the slash.

One thing that was very helpful for us was to go to a workship - which also demonstrated a few different bits of equipment and techniques.

Hands around the throat is common of course.

I also own a gas mask which can of course limit breathing, especially if you cover the nosel.... 

I've done the plastic bag over head also (*must* be see through - not just for your own trauma as the bag collapses in on you and steams up as you look into her eyes.. but so she can make sure you don't pass out) and also smothering the face with hands, feet, bums, breasts...

if you do a search on xhamster for Danke Miss Flora 2 - part of the first part of that video involves breath play using a foot and then her bum.

[Wishching2]

I enjoy breath play with my husband just be very careful to be safe. Personally I enjoy just my husband squeezing my neck to constrict my breath but sometimes he twists my slave collar to constrict my breath & that's not as risky as a mask to me.

[Lugnut-4292]

Thanks for all the replies, Mrs LugNut sometimes kneels with boot soon across my throat and that his the right buttons... She does not apply full pressure.

L

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I'd add to be aware of the heat at the moment too..theres potentially a risk of heatstroke, and breathing gets heavier when it's hot,  plus you sweat more, which could lead to dehydration, pulse races more with the breathing so heart and lungs are under more pressure, I dont know if you take any medications that could do that to you too, but it's best to be aware of knock on effects, and keep an extra eye on things.

[Lugnut-4292]

47 minutes ago, MsJax said:

I'd add to be aware of the heat at the moment too..theres potentially a risk of heatstroke, and breathing gets heavier when it's hot,  plus you sweat more, which could lead to dehydration, pulse races more with the breathing so heart and lungs are under more pressure, I dont know if you take any medications that could do that to you too, but it's best to be aware of knock on effects, and keep an extra eye on things.

Take any medication...I think I take them all. I rattle when I walk with all the tablets. Due to health issues and medication I sweat massively. I feel sorry for Mrs LugNut. Answer is to drink lots of wine 😁 

We play light at the moment with breath but I would like to see if Mrs LugNut is happy to notch it up a gear but no Biggie if not. It is not so much feeling short of breath but feeling she could snuff me out of she wanted to. Mind games really. I am quite big and she is little so it would be hard short of plastic bags but feeling so helpless is bliss.

L

[Be****]

Breathplay is awesome but you must always take precautions. I like to use a set of keys so that if the person drops the keys, it's an instant stop so you know they need to breath. Make sure your wife has an emergency plan in place just in case anything goes wrong. It's a really good thing to make a v with her hand so that she can apply pressure to your throat without crushing your windpipe. Simple pressure on the throat might not cut off your air circulation straight away but it will create what's called a blood choke, which can be a great slow burning asphyxiation. Definitely look into the medical side of things, make sure she knows where your nerves are to save damage. Workshops as eyemblacksheep has said are great if you can get to some.

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Know ur limits with breathplay and safety have a safe word or signal that you will know wen to stop before it goes to far 

[ey****]

just a quick point

a couple of people have mentioned safe words

it's rather difficult to safeword if you can't breathe.........

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Eyemblacksheep Rubbish u can still make a sounds and try and call out if ud remain quiet ud out cold

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4 minutes ago, Cptnkinkyn said:

Eyemblacksheep Rubbish u can still make a sounds and try and call out if ud remain quiet ud out cold

Personally I'd rather rely on a safer alternative, a bunch of keys to drop, or a bell to ring, anything that can make a sound that catches the attention..

[Deleted Member]

Yeah that's good plan i go with humphing mmm mmm calling out under the gag wen I need air nd and my x knows to let me breathe again and she knows my limits for nose pinching and hand gags 

[ey****]

See, that's all well and good if you know limits - which someone new/exploring might not be so sure on.  But for breath play - especially for someone new - I'd recommend non-verbal.

Something to drop is a good idea.

Also somewhere to tap, so on the leg or foot if during a face sitting for example.  Can be a good idea.

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Check out breathplay clips on porn hub x hamster like black-eyed sheep says have a look into your interest on line and see what you think 

[ey****]

I've just had a little look - if you go onto Youtube - there's a whole bunch of breath play demos and tutorials on there.

sites like xhamster and pornhub (*spits*) they're good for getting ideas from - but consider that the people involved in the clip are likely to be experienced and don't really talk you through what is happening.

But absolutely certainly a good idea from getting ideas from.  

[Lugnut-4292]

1 hour ago, eyemblacksheep said:

I've just had a little look - if you go onto Youtube - there's a whole bunch of breath play demos and tutorials on there.

sites like xhamster and pornhub (*spits*) they're good for getting ideas from - but consider that the people involved in the clip are likely to be experienced and don't really talk you through what is happening.

But absolutely certainly a good idea from getting ideas from.  

Thanks, just had a quick look, never realised that YouTube had such diverse videos. Have to have a look with Mrs LugNut later.

L

[ey****]

I've never watched the online ones (I've been to workshops) so couldn't say how good they are - but when we started we did watch some youtube ones on flogging etc.

I think like many things though, getting info from multiple sources is always good - not just for different angles but because most people always miss something (so another person might miss something else)

[Lugnut-4292]

We played today and Mrs LugNut used a belt but did not thread the end through the buckle. She just gripped the two ends at the back and pulled them tight. It was a lot more effective than just using hands and I could feel myself going faint a bit. I think we still need rack it up a notch but it was fun as she made me wank into her panties whilst telling me she was going to throttle me. A fun time was had by all.

L

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Sound like fun lugnut see if you can find helpful video tips on line both know ur safety stop signal play safe with in ur comfort and knowledge limit with each other enjoy your exploration of breath play 

[Deleted Member]

Myself and my x used plastic bags or hand over mouth nd nose pinching whilst playing wa a rush 

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3 hours ago, lugnut said:

We played today and Mrs LugNut used a belt but did not thread the end through the buckle. She just gripped the two ends at the back and pulled them tight. It was a lot more effective than just using hands and I could feel myself going faint a bit. I think we still need rack it up a notch but it was fun as she made me wank into her panties whilst telling me she was going to throttle me. A fun time was had by all.

L

Happy to hear that..has MrsL been practising her smothering too? Or is that not part of the breath play your exploring? (Very nosey question I know, and of course dont answer of you don't want to ☺)

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Yes smothering is part of breath play face sitting, arm pit, breasts is good to add spice been teased to be smothered by ur parnter sexy bits is great gd one there ms jax 

[Lugnut-4292]

9 hours ago, MsJax said:

Happy to hear that..has MrsL been practising her smothering too? Or is that not part of the breath play your exploring? (Very nosey question I know, and of course dont answer of you don't want to ☺)

Not recently. We enjoy face sitting but the usual straddle position is out at the moment. Mrs LugNut has a bad car accident 6 months ago and broke her pelvis in a couple of places so finds some positions too uncomfortable. We will have to experiment a bit too see what works.

L

Edited June 10, 2018 by lugnut

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Ah..I sympathise, I had a very bad accident a few years ago, I almost broke my back ..recovery was long, painful and tedious, despite being grateful the damage wasn't permanent, I found I'd make myself miserable thinking about all the things I couldn't do..even now I can't wear as high a heels as I could, some positions I can't hold for as long etc.

Please pass on my best wishes for a full and speedy recovery to MrsL 😊