Whip question

[Somebody-2430]

Feels weird to ask, I always wanted to experience being whipped with the hands tied, but not in the mood to commit to relationships after a very ***ful breakup with abusive person recently. Is it possible to be whipped by a person who provides this for ***? Are there any such kind of places in London?

[TxFrank]

There are plenty of people who are happy to do it for free, without attachment.

[Deleted Member]

Been doing it without attachments for years and there are certainly people who do it for ***. But also plenty who do it for free. You’ve made a Great Leap Forward reaching out into the community. Play safe. Talk about what you want. Talk about safe words and signals. Talk about aftercare. There is someone for every kink. Don’t feel ***d beyond what you like and asked for. Don’t feel bad for safe wording. Most of all have fun. I’m sure you can find great people in London to explore with.

[Deviant_Ric]

If you feel ok to do so, find a local munch or kink social where you will be able to speak openly and perhaps be introduced to fellow kinksters who offer a far safer bet. Absolutely nothing wrong with any route you take so long as you are eyes wide open, carefully vetting, and look after your safety first.
I hope you find a route to fulfilment

[Matttster]

Be sure to do your research first. As a bottom you should have a good understanding of what it is all about, more so when you are seeking someone you don’t know. You should understand things well enough to ask questions and make sure the person you are talking to truly knows what they are doing.

Also, as a bottom being whipped, you need to understand the process. For example, if you move at the wrong time you could get hurt much more then the Top intended (well with a whip, not so much with a flogger).

Another thing you may consider is going to a dungeon rather than to someone’s home. If there are others around, you are much more likely to find someone competent.

For aftercare, you may consider bringing a friend. They may be more understanding and relatable.

[TheBookCollector]

Definately attend munches, to make friends and find out about play events and also look to attend and watch how people play especially tops who use whips get an idea of how good they are with it and style.

If you like what you see approach them once they have come down and seen to thier partners needs, and ask if you can speak them both.

There used to be an impact play class near London bridge but for the life of me i cant remember who organised it or whether its restarted post pandemic.

[ey****]

So - whipping can be quite extreme so while it is possible to do so without any form attachment - I would be cautious at jumping straight in with the first person who offers.

There's always two routes in kink - time or ***

The time route would involve you going to munches and/or events getting to know people. If someone appears to be skilled with a whip an opportunity of seeing them play first is always a boost.   The very first time I was flogged I watched a lady beat a guy in a club and ask if she wouldn't mind playing with me.

The downside of the time route is it does take time and effort.  Trying to rush things more likely to end in a bad experience.

OR

The *** route

Like, honestly you can't swing a bullwhip in London without accidentally striking a Pro Domme there's so many of them - ha (and Pro Masters if that's your thing)

Obviously not every one specialises (or is skilled in) whipping and some are better than others.  Luckily most also have clips so you can see the clip and see if that's for you.

But as a starter if I was in London and wanted to be whipped I'd probably look up Miss Courtney, Mistress Evilyne or Madame Cruella

[TheBookCollector]

The group on fetlife linked to the whip classes is ***r Whip London. So you may find something there to help.