Maddie1470 Posted July 25, 2018 So me and my dom are new to bdsm we have been getting more and more into it. Well we recently have been experimenting with butt plugs. I allowed him to stick the big one in me in our set I was terrified I was nervous and I had a million thoughts go through my head from should I do this, etc. Is it normal to feel this way? I told my dom and he said do not do things you're not ready for.