Personal details

Gender Woman
Age 43
Status Not single
Height 162cm
Body shape Plus-size
Eye colour Brown
Hair length Long
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Origin UK
Pubic Hair Shaved
Body hair None
Zodiac signs Virgo
Tattoos

About me

I’m looking for:

Description

WARNING: Any individuals or institutions using this site or any of its associated sites do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form both current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.

I am a very strong minded, strong willed & well behaved experienced submissive.
After being a Domme since my teenage years, then leaving that behind to retrain as a sub a few years back, I know my role very clearly & therefore I am not interested in 'Switch games'.
I’m may be a big girl (size 20) but I’m also very comfortable in my own skin. I will always class my sub-self as ‘in training’ as there is always something new to learn or experience.
‘I simply seek those that have perfected the Art of Anticipation’

Looking to chat to, learn & share with experienced Dom’s/Dommes (& subs) within & outside the BDSM world. Not necessarily for meets as I’ve made some amazing friends & connections on here & that’s good enough for me.

I am a BDSM sub, I am not here to fill your 5minute sexual whims or self kinks so if the art of your conversation only extends as far as ‘Can I see your tits’, ‘what filth are you into’ & ‘I want to fill you face with my cock’ or stimulating introductions such as ‘hi’, ‘hey’ etc please don’t bother.
Also I like to know who I’m talking to so a profile with a face photo on is preferable.
And if you are young enough to be my son (or grandson) then please don’t feel offended when I tell you you are too young, regardless of how many times I hear ‘age doesn’t matter’ it’s just not going to happen.

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BigPolly
icon-wio BigPolly wrote something in the forum
  • 18.10.2018 8:07:48
  • Female (43)
  • Solihull
  • Not single
Advice on finding/cultivating a relationship with a dominant safely.

It takes a strong person to be a sub, you have to truly know who you are & what you want before you are willing to hand control over to someone else so what you are saying makes perfect sense.
a Dom(me) cannot Dominate without your gift of submission so you are just as much of an important Read more… & powerful role in a D/s dynamic.
And like you say, striking up a conversation is very important rather than someone just hounding you with rules & demands. Don’t accept anyone talking to you on here any other way than they would face to face be that in context of conversation or with lack of conversation.
The fact that you can already see all of this clearly means you are already one step ahead in getting what you desire.
Good luck 😁

BigPolly
icon-wio BigPolly wrote something in the forum
  • 17.10.2018 13:25:54
  • Female (43)
  • Solihull
  • Not single
Advice on finding/cultivating a relationship with a dominant safely.

Firstly if a woman is approaching you for money on here & she doesn’t not have a registered profile stating that her dominance is a paid service then you need to report it. The world of kink is much harder to find a match than vanilla relationships. You are not only trying to find someone you Read more… have a connection with on a personal level, you also then need to match kinks & that’s really hard although not impossible just don’t expect quick results. You can also widen your search by being more active on here, attending munches & going to fet clubs or events. There are many many D/s relationships & many of which where the woman as the D so it’s not an unreasonable or impossible request but it does take a lot of patience to find the right one for you

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BigPolly
icon-wio BigPolly wrote something in the forum
  • 16.10.2018 23:42:41
  • Female (43)
  • Solihull
  • Not single
BDSM Archetypes Treasure Hunt!

I know it’s odd because even when I know the answers I struggle to tie your clue into it...I’m not sure my brain works like anyone’s hahaha
thank you for all your help though, you’ve been awesome 😘

BigPolly
icon-wio BigPolly wrote something in the forum
  • 16.10.2018 17:45:14
  • Female (43)
  • Solihull
  • Not single
BDSM Archetypes Treasure Hunt!

Phew couldn’t get it this morning but just sussed it from @sarenaa ‘s clues.
I’ll have to start doing more crosswords so that I can get @morris159 cryptic clues next time
Thank you to all that put this together, as usual it’s been fabulous fun & thank you to all that helped my piddly brain to find Read more… them 😁x

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BigPolly
icon-wio BigPolly wrote something in the forum
  • 15.10.2018 12:51:04
  • Female (43)
  • Solihull
  • Not single
BDSM Archetypes Treasure Hunt!

Today’s is #25 @Tinytigger are you stuck on the clues already given?

BigPolly
icon-wio BigPolly wrote something in the forum
  • 15.10.2018 12:48:31
  • Female (43)
  • Solihull
  • Not single
BigPolly
icon-wio BigPolly wrote something in the forum
  • 15.10.2018 8:14:45
  • Female (43)
  • Solihull
  • Not single
BDSM Archetypes Treasure Hunt!

What will you do with all your free time once this is over @morris159 🤔😂

BigPolly
icon-wio BigPolly wrote something in the forum
  • 14.10.2018 22:41:47
  • Female (43)
  • Solihull
  • Not single
BDSM Archetypes Treasure Hunt!

You can only send them to someone who hasn’t yet got any, click on their profile & it’ll give you the option to send one but it picks a random one, you don’t get a choice which one so then it’s up to you to go back & find the one you’ve gifted

BigPolly
icon-wio BigPolly wrote something in the forum
  • 14.10.2018 22:34:06
  • Female (43)
  • Solihull
  • Not single
BDSM Archetypes Treasure Hunt!

I vaguely remember @Crystal_Clear but I’ve slept since then 😂x

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BigPolly
icon-wio BigPolly wrote something in the forum
  • 14.10.2018 18:14:27
  • Female (43)
  • Solihull
  • Not single
BDSM Archetypes Treasure Hunt!

Ha! Couldn’t get it this morning, the first 2 clues were far too cryptic for me but got it on @serenaa ‘s clue 😁

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BigPolly
icon-wio BigPolly wrote something in the forum
  • 13.10.2018 22:42:27
  • Female (43)
  • Solihull
  • Not single
BDSM Archetypes Treasure Hunt!

@morris159 🤦🏻‍♀️ I might get rid of one so that I have an extra one to find 😂

BigPolly
icon-wio BigPolly wrote something in the forum
  • 13.10.2018 6:45:50
  • Female (43)
  • Solihull
  • Not single
BDSM Archetypes Treasure Hunt!

Thank you @morris159.
Can’t believe we only have four left to find ☹️

BigPolly
icon-wio BigPolly wrote something in the forum
  • 12.10.2018 15:56:37
  • Female (43)
  • Solihull
  • Not single
Punishement ideas

If its for your own humiliation then only being allowed to wee when he says. Him making you drink lots then caning or stroking between your legs but not allowing you to wee is torture.
Or only weeing in a vessel he’s provided
Or simply standing in stress positions whilst being made use of ie Read more… holding something.
Or standing in a stress position watching in silence whilst he wanks either by watching you or over others girls pictures
Wearing something out in public such as a butt plug or nipple clamps
Putting a loo brush handle up your arse & being made to scrub the loo that way
Licking his shoes clean
Or simply being caned beyond all levels although for me that would be heaven

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BigPolly
icon-wio BigPolly wrote something in the forum
  • 12.10.2018 15:42:16
  • Female (43)
  • Solihull
  • Not single
BDSM Archetypes Treasure Hunt!

Yes thank you @Crystal_Clear I came back from work & the ‘hint fairies’ had all descended on my inbox at the same time 😂
You guys are flipping amazing I bloody love you all! 😊

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BigPolly
icon-wio BigPolly wrote something in the forum
  • 12.10.2018 9:18:11
  • Female (43)
  • Solihull
  • Not single
BDSM Archetypes Treasure Hunt!

🤔 *scratches head........think I’m going to need *another clue
*someone giving me the answer

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