Personal details

Gender Woman
Age 43
Status Not single
Height 162cm
Body shape Plus-size
Eye colour Brown
Hair length Long
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Origin UK
Pubic Hair Shaved
Body hair None
Zodiac sign Virgo
Tattoos
Languages English
German

About me

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WARNING: Any individuals or institutions using this site or any of its associated sites do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form both current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.

I am a very strong minded, strong willed & well behaved experienced submissive.
After being a Domme since my teenage years, then leaving that behind to retrain as a sub a few years back, I know my role very clearly & therefore I am not interested in 'Switch games'.
I’m may be a big girl (size 20) but I’m also very comfortable in my own skin. I will always class my sub-self as ‘in training’ as there is always something new to learn or experience.
‘I simply seek those that have perfected the Art of Anticipation’

Looking to chat to, learn & share with experienced Dom’s/Dommes (& subs) within & outside the BDSM world. Not necessarily for meets as I’ve made some amazing friends & connections on here & that’s good enough for me.

I am a BDSM sub, I am not here to fill your 5minute sexual whims or self kinks so if the art of your conversation only extends as far as ‘Can I see your tits’, ‘what filth are you into’ & ‘I want to fill you face with my cock’ or stimulating introductions such as ‘hi’, ‘hey’ etc please don’t bother.
Also I like to know who I’m talking to so a profile with a face photo on is preferable.
And if you are young enough to be my son (or grandson) then please don’t feel offended when I tell you you are too young, regardless of how many times I hear ‘age doesn’t matter’ it’s just not going to happen.

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BigPolly
icon-wio BigPolly wrote something in the forum
  • 19.06.2019 20:25:23
  • Woman (43)
  • Solihull
  • Not single
Dom says no sex with husband?

Exactly what @says!....
Is your husband part of your play? Or Cuckold etc? If not then none of the rules should include your husband.
If this play is totally outside of your marriage then all aspects should remain so. Your Dom should have the respect to not put you in an awkward position.
Also you Read more… have the right to say ‘NO’ to anything you’re not happy with. It is down to you to hand whatever control you want, to him. If you have limits then he must respect those limits.
Also rules are to be ‘discussed & agreed to by both parties’ not one sided.
You’re his sub you’re not a doormat

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BigPolly
  • 17.06.2019 11:51:34
  • Woman (43)
  • Solihull
  • Not single
BigPolly
icon-wio BigPolly wrote something in the forum
  • 15.06.2019 14:59:51
  • Woman (43)
  • Solihull
  • Not single
Newbie, looking for advice

Once she is blindfolded you could ask her to put her hands on her head then you go into the bathroom and lead her out then whist still standing there. Walking blindfolded with your hands on your head takes a lot of trust . Then take her pants and bra off for her before strapping her down

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BigPolly
icon-wio BigPolly wrote something in the forum
  • 15.06.2019 11:49:13
  • Woman (43)
  • Solihull
  • Not single
Finding your perfect Dom online {The Magician}

Love love love this ☺️Xx

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BigPolly
icon-wio BigPolly wrote something in the forum
  • 14.06.2019 23:56:23
  • Woman (43)
  • Solihull
  • Not single
LIBIDEX TREASURE HUNT

😂😂 🎃 I’m quite happy with who I am but I definitely not under the illusion that I was built to be encased in rubber, I’m not going to even try & compete with the Michelin Man 😂😂

BigPolly
icon-wio BigPolly wrote something in the forum
  • 14.06.2019 23:39:14
  • Woman (43)
  • Solihull
  • Not single
LIBIDEX TREASURE HUNT

I bet you a years wages I’ll look like a pumpkin 😂 I can guarantee it’s one of the things I definitely won’t look sexy it however it’ll have great comedy factor 😂

BigPolly
icon-wio BigPolly wrote something in the forum
  • 14.06.2019 20:02:07
  • Woman (43)
  • Solihull
  • Not single
LIBIDEX TREASURE HUNT

No I love basques & I look fab in one.
I will NOT look fab in latex 🤣

BigPolly
icon-wio BigPolly wrote something in the forum
  • 14.06.2019 14:24:14
  • Woman (43)
  • Solihull
  • Not single
LIBIDEX TREASURE HUNT

I’m not sure anyyyyybody wants to see a beached rubber whale 😂 I may stick to posting pictures in a basque

BigPolly
icon-wio BigPolly wrote something in the forum
  • 12.06.2019 9:36:12
  • Woman (43)
  • Solihull
  • Not single
Bedroom bondage and feeling overwhelmed with what to do

Have you thought about going to a fetish club/party? You don’t have to join in just go along, see what other people do & get chatting to folk. I think this will help massively with new ideas & any awkwardness

BigPolly
icon-wio BigPolly wrote something in the forum
  • 11.06.2019 19:43:01
  • Woman (43)
  • Solihull
  • Not single
Bedroom bondage and feeling overwhelmed with what to do

My use of gags have depended on the Dom. For comfort I prefer a horse gag. Not all Dom’s have put a gag on me as they’ve wanted to make use of my mouth

BigPolly
icon-wio BigPolly wrote something in the forum
  • 11.06.2019 9:53:50
  • Woman (43)
  • Solihull
  • Not single
Are there any real people on this site?

Hello, welcome & here have this big bag of patience which you’re going to need to learn to use.
If you think finding a BDSM partner is as easy as finding a vanilla partner then there is a long disappointing road ahead of you.
If someone isn’t to your liking or appears ‘false’ then use that to your Read more… knowledge stack of knowing ‘what you do & don’t want’.
Finding an exact match of what you believe someone should be like, how someone should be acting, finding someone with the same confidence as you is hard but it doesn’t make people false.
There are many on here who ghost easily or will ask for funds towards what they are doing but there are many on here who are genuine...be it a little shy sometimes.
However coming on here asking if people on this site are real will just get people’s backs up.
Sit back, watch what goes on, look at people’s questions & responses & navigate your way round on that.
Failing that there will always be local Munches or Fet Clubs if you want to jump straight in.

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BigPolly
icon-wio BigPolly wrote something in the forum
  • 09.06.2019 21:42:58
  • Woman (43)
  • Solihull
  • Not single
Extreme Judgement

Not everyone can like everyone, that’s human nature but it takes a special kind of dickhead to be negative towards someone & think that’s ok.
You keep wearing that bikini I bet you look fab in it! 😁

BigPolly
icon-wio BigPolly wrote something in the forum
  • 09.06.2019 0:54:18
  • Woman (43)
  • Solihull
  • Not single
Forbidden Fruit

😊😘xxx

BigPolly
icon-wio BigPolly wrote something in the forum
  • 09.06.2019 0:17:16
  • Woman (43)
  • Solihull
  • Not single
Forbidden Fruit

Made me smile as I think back to the early days of your journey 😊😊😊 xx

BigPolly
icon-wio BigPolly wrote something in the forum
  • 07.06.2019 12:20:28
  • Woman (43)
  • Solihull
  • Not single
Bedroom bondage and feeling overwhelmed with what to do

Ok how about approaching it differently. If you want to play, suddenly demand she stands facing the wall with her hands on her head, go up behind her & blindfold her then lead her to where you want her & tie her up