Domme

[ey****]

I still don't know how someone would define a "Domme Experience" but, I guess.  Although I'd played in clubs - and done spanking and flogging - I think my first time I would count.

There was this beautiful black Mistress pounding a slave with floggers and whips, as he was hung from the ceiling of the club.

I don't know why, but I was totally drawn, so, after the finished - I asked.  

She pushed me in ways I never knew possible.  I still remember the first spank on my arse in her leather gloves.   She spoke to me briefly about safewords - but we started and she kept going. Pushing me further and further.  I was trembling.   Although I didn't safeword, someone nearby knew I was new and didn't like how I looked, but while I wanted to keep going - retrospectively she made the right call.  It was intense.

I was reminded a little of that scene on Saturday in my most recent "Domme experience" - it had been a film day and there was some time left over - I'd just ejaculated so that ruled out a lot of scenes....  "CP?" I suggested

It has actually been a while since I'd done flogging and whipping.  I forgot how much the whips can sting, but, it felt good - to feel the burn as it tears the flesh.

I wasn't strapped on Saturday, but there was an A-Frame which I held onto the top - the stretching tensing me as the strikes came in.   Phenomenal.  Not my favourite, but a wonderful way to end the day, and weekend, there'd been a lot of foot worship - some needles, and, well, a fun time riding her dildo.  

[Cu****]

Still looking for my first real-life experience! Practised enough online now. 

[Cr****]

Mine was much like a first love but things got complicated I started obsessing he loved someone else so I'm pretty sure that relationship is done

[sW****]

Mine began awkwardly, though my subject didn't really notice. By the end, after tying him to a chair and edging him, after using his body as a lounge chair while reading aloud some filthy stories and shaming his erection during a facesitting, we were both completely relaxed, released, and feeling amorous. Good time.

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19 minutes ago, sWitchHazel said:

Mine began awkwardly, though my subject didn't really notice. By the end, after tying him to a chair and edging him, after using his body as a lounge chair while reading aloud some filthy stories and shaming his erection during a facesitting, we were both completely relaxed, released, and feeling amorous. Good time.

That is a good play... idea for me. Thank you.🤗💖

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The sub I had flaked on me

[An****]

Don't ask most of the Doms on here are fake. Feeling frustrated with it. They just vanilla acting like Doms. Then when you give them your number all they want is face time and ask you to play for them to see if your a good sub. Really Please. So now I think I'm not going to talk to anyone on here and go to a munch or fetish club,

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@Anna0505 Not all Doms are fake. It takes time to find the right one, especially older men. I have been here for almost a year.🤷‍♀️ Asking you to do face time, and to see you're a good Sub was a red flag. It is a good idea to go to munch, fetish clubs, and KEEP looking here. To bad I live in Germany... I'd join you, and have lots of fun.😅

[An****]

Yes it is a shame. But thanks for the Advice. I'm definitely going to be more careful now thank you sweetie 😘

[50****]

Mine was abusive. Took all my ***, threw me into debt, and then tried to sleep with my friends while our dynamic was still going on. Then got one of his other side hoes pregnant and left me lololol.

[Ca****]

Wow

[bl****]

Unfortunately hasn’t happened yet. So far I’ve had to block 2 people who were just commanding me to give them ***. Unless the command is something sexual, I’m not interested. If you only care about my ***, go panhandle on the street corner or start an OnlyFans. You’ll find plenty of dullards who will throw change at your feet just so that you’ll notice them. I’m a sub, not a simp.

[Deleted Member]

I have always had the mindset that asking for *** was a deal breaker. I have been asked, "Don't you love me?" I'll reply, "Yes, but I love my *** more!" Goodbye

[Tr****]

My first time was great. I had a woman who dominated me with a strap on and she was in charge the hole time and I hope to find that again with someone

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June 20, eyemblacksheep said:

I still don't know how someone would define a "Domme Experience" but, I guess.  Although I'd played in clubs - and done spanking and flogging - I think my first time I would count.

There was this beautiful black Mistress pounding a slave with floggers and whips, as he was hung from the ceiling of the club.

I don't know why, but I was totally drawn, so, after the finished - I asked.  

She pushed me in ways I never knew possible.  I still remember the first spank on my arse in her leather gloves.   She spoke to me briefly about safewords - but we started and she kept going. Pushing me further and further.  I was trembling.   Although I didn't safeword, someone nearby knew I was new and didn't like how I looked, but while I wanted to keep going - retrospectively she made the right call.  It was intense.

I was reminded a little of that scene on Saturday in my most recent "Domme experience" - it had been a film day and there was some time left over - I'd just ejaculated so that ruled out a lot of scenes....  "CP?" I suggested

It has actually been a while since I'd done flogging and whipping.  I forgot how much the whips can sting, but, it felt good - to feel the burn as it tears the flesh.

I wasn't strapped on Saturday, but there was an A-Frame which I held onto the top - the stretching tensing me as the strikes came in.   Phenomenal.  Not my favourite, but a wonderful way to end the day, and weekend, there'd been a lot of foot worship - some needles, and, well, a fun time riding her dildo.  

Sounds amazing. I wish I could get to events and see the beat stuff going on!

[Bt****]

My first real Dom experience was tonight. A Dom told his sub girl to come over and suck my dick. He said I need to buy her drinks then take her home, send pics of her b**t plug and p***y, write on her with a sharpie, take pics of her sucking my d**k. But no sex. So ok, no sex, I juiced her so wet and wild for 5 hours and he was so p***ed. Lol

[ey****]

so your first experience Dominated someone resulted in you boundary pushing and annoying someone who'd given you trust?

Great start!

[Ba****]

Unfortunately I haven’t had one. I feel like Mommy Dommes looking for femme leaning/non-binary Littles is as rare if not rarer than a unicorn.