What are women attracted to in guys?

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4 hours ago, chaosdad86 said:

I guess some of yall need to go to build a dude lmao and for many of you do you provide the list of things you mentioned or should this all be on their side??

I find what I'm looking for fairly frequently? There are a lot of decent people in the world.

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And yes generally people say I'm fun, caring, compassionate and intelligent etc.... anyway this is a thread asking specifically. It's not like I have a check list in my head but these are the traits that are present when things go well and lead somewhere.

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58 minutes ago, YourHypnosub said:

I'm transitioning M2F now, but what I heard over & over & over was "confidence". 😑 I don't think I ever appropriately showed that as a guy.

Confidence is good because it leaves me guessing less. But it's not a necessary for me. It just makes things easier.

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7 hours ago, chaosdad86 said:

I guess some of yall need to go to build a dude lmao and for many of you do you provide the list of things you mentioned or should this all be on their side??

I don't think the women here are asking for too much since what's mostly been listed so far are basic characteristics of a decent human being.

[fo****]

I myself don't think about whether someone likes me/finds me attractive. In a world that celebrates the fake and villifies the real I try to be honest, authentic and attentive. So many people are so afraid of rejection that they exaggerate or say what they think the other person wants to hear. Be yourself. If it doesn't work out it's ok. You're the right person for someone

[ha****]

Its looks bro because a woman takes a look at your pic and decides u don't even deserve the respect of a simple reply of I am not interested

[ha****]

Its all about looks and if not looks its ***

[dr****]

True very true @hawkfury69_69

[ey****]

wondering why this is a "what are women interested in?" thread full of men projecting 

and then you complain when there's a "For f**ks sake, men!" thread.  All men - shut the f**k up.  ta.

[fo****]

looks may be part of it but I've seen some not so attractive men with gorgeous women and it was because of how they treated them. How they spoke to them and how they carried themselves. Your comment is what some of these women will see and they'll remember that when you try to say hi

[dr****]

Y don’t y’all wait for a woman to respond back through the feed ? 🤦‍♂️

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51 minutes ago, hawkfury69_69 said:

Its looks bro because a woman takes a look at your pic and decides u don't even deserve the respect of a simple reply of I am not interested

Even when I have done that I've often had a few messages of *** telling me I'm not all that.. Who do i think i am blah blah. Or there's the ones that say they are happy to just chat then within days (sometimes mere hours) they are trying to sext with you. Granted this isn't all men some have been super respectful. Often rather than have the awkward messages or receive the *** leaving them with no response is a safer option.

[Se****]

22 hours ago, cheekykhalid said:

None of those matter if you're not good looking.

Was this sarcasm???

I only ask because looks come WAY WAY down my list of priorities. 

If someone can’t engage my mind they can be the most attractive human in the world I’m neither going to play with them or fuck them. 

Maybe that’s not the “norm” but it’s certainly true for me and lots of other people I know. We aren’t all superficial x

[Se****]

55 minutes ago, hawkfury69_69 said:

Its looks bro because a woman takes a look at your pic and decides u don't even deserve the respect of a simple reply of I am not interested

I (respectfully) disagree. 

And if you see a previous thread I started you may understand why. 

Your initial message goes A LONG way in terms of whether or not you will receive a response. 

I have spoken with many men on this and other sites none of whom are “classically beautiful/handsome” by societies standards or (that I’m aware of) rich. But because of the way we have interacted they are beautiful to me. But ANY person I’ve had any form of longevity with or met has been able to hold a conversation with me, challenge my beliefs, teach me and be respectful. 

It really isn’t a difficult concept. 

Yes there needs to be some form of attraction but, for me at least, this isn’t the most important thing and is something that builds over time.  Purely speaking with someone due to the way they look at best leaves many, many potentially amazing partners out of your vision and at worst is shallow. X

[fo****]

1 hour ago, hawkfury69_69 said:

Its looks bro because a woman takes a look at your pic and decides u don't even deserve the respect of a simple reply of I am not interested

You sir are childish to come to my inbox like you did. No wonder no one answers you🤣. My 4 year old behaves better than you. I'm glad they aren't answering you.. such a douche

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30 minutes ago, foreplay4play said:

You sir are childish to come to my inbox like you did. No wonder no one answers you🤣. My 4 year old behaves better than you. I'm glad they aren't answering you.. such a douche

Meanwhile you're spot on with respect and treatment being the most important aspects!

[dr****]

Abba!!!

[x-****]

His mind, commands presence, intelligence, witty, romantic, good manners, beautiful inside and out, sense of humor, dedicated, honest, kind, a gentleman through and through

💙 💎

Edited July 9, 2022 by BlueDiamond69

[ki****]

Strength dominance idk just like feeling safe

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Scent? Emotion? Style? Feminism? Charm? Personality? Charisma? Soul? Calmness? Open-mindness? Energy? The dark side?........

[fo****]

7 hours ago, swphoenix said:

Meanwhile you're spot on with respect and treatment being the most important aspects!

Thank you

[fo****]

Thank you. I appreciate you 😊

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Heck I am safe I am just a.grump but ugly old booty who says what he sees and if people don't like I don't mine's I just stick to my motorbikes

 

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Honesty. Trustworthy. The cornerstones of any other relationship is moreso in the BDSM world. And, unless negotiated first, no still means no, and stop means stop. Anyone's unwillingness to do something you may want to do, does not make that person inadequate or useless. It makes them human; subs have choices.

[sa****]

Intelligence, the ability to be reflexive, to change your mind in face of new information and humility. Oh and i do like someone who can laugh at themselves. Obviously there has to be sexual chemistry but that is more about being able to hold a conversation than looks for me personally. And oral. A deep overwhelming desire to selflessly give oral.