Limits

[Deleted Member]

In my ***s and 20s I was very much switch becoming slightly more dominant in my late 20s. After a decade away from kink in a vanilla relationship I’ve come back to kink with little to no submissive traits and massively increased dominant and sadistic tendencies. I feel that I’m more kinky than I ever was and although my own limits have expanded my drive to push the limits of my partners has increased 10 fold!

[Ax****]

Limits are usually tied to comfort and trust. Exposure and time spent with a partner and trauma will often change that.

[Deleted Member]

I'm struggling to find something I would say no to in the moment if I'm honest 🤷‍♂️ at the start, I thought I just like a little ***, now I'm an open book, if you think it, do it 🤦🏼‍♂️

[Sp****]

I've never had a physical encounter, but with roleplay I used to love CNC and R-play. However, after a few years (and knowing friends who've been ***ed) I now can't do it. It distresses me now because I've seen the effects the actual deal can cause.

[Wa****]

Ever since I left my relationship I’ve been looking to explore more. My past relationships were very vanilla, it’s challenging to find a women willing to try new things. I think I’ve become very open in since becoming single. Idk if my limits have changed or I’m realizing I don’t have many limits

[Sh****]

Yeah, not only do I feel like I get kinkier with time, but kinks I thought were limits became an interest of mine and left the limit box. I suppose it’s my evolution in the lifestyle.

[Deleted Member]

My kinks have evolved a little (one or two lost a half dozen gained, partly ageing and your body won’t do what it used to cope with) but in a wider queer etc set of experience my willingness to put up with partners who are ashamed of a relationship with me existing has evaporated. Early on id date closeted people but no more. Keep our dynamic private sure but pretend we aren’t a thing - hard limit.

[Ki****]

My kinks have evolved and my limit list has definitely been cut in half and more specific. The biggest thing that I have learned is that for me, it is not about what I am doing, but rather, who I am doing it with. The more trust I have, the less limits I have

[Mr****]

One really great thing about the kinky things is just how loose you can get with your limits. It's like you've come further and further down the road, and it was usually always for the better

[Deleted Member]

I have discovered a lot more things I'm open to exploring, and more things I enjoy.
My limits have both expanded and shrunk, depending on who I am with.

[Be****]

Givesafuck is right I used to be like no way and now I want it and it's just nice to let go And be who you are fuck what everyone else says or thinks

[sa****]

GnR had a great lyric that can apply to Sammy things including kink.. I used to do a little until the little got more and more. Essentially we all evolve..

[Je****]

Yes definitely!!! Overtime in this lifestyle I have learned exactly what I want and how I wish to participate. I do leave room for creativity but it’s within the limits I require.

[Da****]

Yes, I have no limits

[ge****]

1 hour ago, brantford354 said:

Yes, I have no limits

So someone comes to you as a dominant and tells you they want you to kill them in cold *** in the local shopping mall with witnesses and you'd do it? If you would then I'd question your sanity, if you wouldn't then there's a limit right there.
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Know that's an extreme example, but there are probably less extreme ones that could be found if we really probed.

[ey****]

2 hours ago, brantford354 said:

Yes, I have no limits

cheers, send me £50