I need tips and advice for dominating my boyfriend

[Totesem]

I’m naturally a pretty submissive person, so domination does not at all come naturally to me. Though, I’d love to try it. My boyfriend is into the whole dominatrix look, so I thought it’d be fun to try out a Devil roleplaying scenario. Me being the devil, obviously. I guess he’s not going to be roleplaying as anything in specific except my sub lol. I’m seeking tips and tricks from anyone on specifically roleplaying as a devil (phrases to use and work with) and also just roleplaying in general. He likes having pain inflicted on him, so I’ll be using whips. As well as tying him up. No pegging on anything. It’ll just be the two of us. If there’s any games you’d play as a devil, idk! I want to hear it all.

and also, as I said, none of this comes naturally to me (and I actually really don’t like hurting people ): ) so If you have any tips about getting into a dominatrix mindset and building up the momentum that it takes, id appreciate that advice too. 

 

Thanks in advance,

dominatrix in training (;

[DaddyJAY815]

In any Dom situation takes time and experiment. Talk first about fantasies and the most obscene that would be crazy. Start light then keep pushing the limits. Find what pleases him and what is unlocked within you. Watch your fav porn and see what drives you both over the edge. This is a bond forming and will create indescribable intimacy.

[Deleted Member]

Watch a movie called Bedazzled (2000), that should give you some ideas. ;-)

[ey****]

you have learnt how to use these whips first, right?

 

otherwise - generally this is a case of talking with him to find out what he is/isn't into.

[VictoriaBlisse]

6 minutes ago, eyemblacksheep said:

you have learnt how to use these whips first, right?

 

otherwise - generally this is a case of talking with him to find out what he is/isn't into.

Yep, I echo this remark. Also, if you're really not sure you want to do the domination thing...don't do it. You have limits too, as the Dominant partner. Talk to him  about this and what you are and aren't comfortable doing.