Dark taboos

[Da****]

How do you find people likeminded if your kinks, fetishes and fantasies are a little beyond even this app.

[FETMOD-BD]

I'm allowing this post for discussion and debate BUT...... Keeping in mind our Community Standards and Terms of Use, anyone breaching them will receive points / time outs - This is your only gentle reminder. 

[Wa****]

Not too often, but I always want to talk to people about the more taboo. It just takes a bit to gauge what people want to actually talk about because it can be hard to phrase things that are taboo without sounding like you’re trying to talk about illegal things at times haha

[Wa****]

It’s much easier in person I think. Easier to read another person with what they’re implying and seeing where the conversation goes

[Deleted Member]

Depends on the type of kink you have.
Do you mind sharing what exactly would that be?
If it’s something illegal: you don’t. Get to therapy please.

[ey****]

on the whole - there's very few kinks and fetishes that cannot be talked about on here

the exceptions are

Findom (can be talked about, but cannot be advertised)

anything involving ***

any form of Incest fantasy, *** and ***philia 

so, umm... aside from Findom. Stuff that's pretty much, rightfully, illegal anywhere 

[Al****]

S***, idk what most the things on here are so I just shut up. I got a strike for being truthful about something real that's a legal fantasy. I know *** from criminal minds. No idea what findom is... theses topics are alot to handle. How about a girl that likes to be be sexy and have all different ways? Like rough, submissive, public, random suck you off no matter what or where, f*** face hard, *** me until I'm past red... guess I'm too normal.. Topic seems how to introduce taboo... should probably get off of here...

[fa****]

I want to say what is your definition of dark? I've had more than a few people tell me my fetish is dark and rebuffed it and had other people tell me it is dark but that was part of the turn on.

[Deleted Member]

If you actually put on your profile what you like, people can avoid or contact you

[ms****]

I get it bc I’m into sounding and other weird stuff but this isn’t my weird lol

[Vilhelm007]

My sub has a CNC fantasy!

[Deleted Member]

I’m into some stuff and iv had people message me just to say they are not into the same stuff I just think why bother it’s hard enough finding people to talk to on here

[st****]

I've got stuff on my profile but dont like to put everything on just incase it puts people off, I think people just need to ask you, in sure we are all up to trying new things that are out of our comfort zone.

[Deleted Member]

There are other forums with significantly lower standards/limitations.
And bare in mind, most are watched by glowies.

[mc****]

It's the same for us women, we have thoughts and things we want to do but can't put it on here xx

[Deleted Member]

Yeah I try to keep those thoughts and ideas restricted and off limits you know? Unless she brings it up and wants it, I will not be the one to initiate the really twisted stuff.

[Da****]

37 minutes ago, Mcr0161 said:

It's the same for us women, we have thoughts and things we want to do but can't put it on here xx

Too bad you can not elaborate on here

[Deleted Member]

It’s like finding a unicorn

[un****]

i’ve found communities on reddit dedicated to certain fetishes i’ve yet to see expressed here however i would not recommend meeting up with people from reddit 9/10 its a chick posing as a dude using pics you can reverse image search or a scammer looking for ***

[un****]

Just now, undeaddom said:

i’ve found communities on reddit dedicated to certain fetishes i’ve yet to see expressed here however i would not recommend meeting up with people from reddit 9/10 its a chick posing as a dude using pics you can reverse image search or a scammer looking for ***

dude posing as a chick i can’t read my own writing apparently

[Deleted Member]

What about non kink stuff? Alot of this place is ENM but from the albiet small sample of people I know, it's either not a thing or a repugnant thing? I would say, in much the same way as ENM is common here and some could say it's a meh topic, you talking about odd kinks would be like ENM to the "straights"

[VK****]

This must be one of the weirdest threads going. Everyone dancing around but the elephant remains unmentioned. As others have said, there are the strictly illegal activities...and then there are others. Some have hinted at CNC and 'rough' sex. Consenual being the key there at which point it's fine as long as limits and safe words are immediately respected. The other activities frequently mentioned in limits (although on occasion one might be missing) are *** and ***. Whilst not my Kink, I have no objection to either if done in a safe, sane and consensual way. Some wonderful 'needlework' to be found on porn sites for example, very beautifully executed. I'm sure there are places on the web where afficionados can find their fellow souls.

[Deleted Member]

Imo......just be yourself. Everyone has likes and dislikes. If one person doesn't like it, doesn't mean the next won't

[ey****]

I am intrigued about what these dark fantasies are?!

I mean CNC is fine to discuss. ditto for r*pe play.  Sc*t is fine.    I'm boggled. 

[xc****]

same here. so curious to know what it is. blackmail? something with ***? knives? CNC crossed my mind, too.. maybe it’s an extreme form of that? how are you certain it’s beyond this app? maybe drop hints in your profile and see who bites?