Help Identify Fetish?

[rustyshackleford123]

So I have been getting more and more attracted to the femdom side of porn where the woman is more in control than the man. However when I search for femdom I get so many extremes to different spectrums. For example I will see men crossdressing (pantyhose, make up, wigs, etc), men being fed their own cum, cock and ball ***, sounding etc. (not kink shaming at all, appreciate you if thats your thing).

I think the closest I have come to finding a thread of what I enjoy jacking off to is GentleFemdom on reddit. I dont mind the pegging aspect, but the cross dressing is a bit of a turn off for me. I guess what turns me on the most is the bossy woman being in almost complete control, treating the man as simply a toy and being stern but not abusive towards the male.

I just recently found a video I have ***d my monkey to constantly and its titled "Latex Edging Femdom Fuck Lola Fae". That hits every mark for me and I am having trouble finding videos just like it. I did look into other vids from SweetFemdom but they dont have that same kind of vibe that specific video has. Also certain vids from a couple under the alias Kate Marley also scratch that itch (male being subdued while female has her way either personally or pleasuring).

Sorry I know this a bit broad but I am struggling to fully wrap my head around this. Its like I have had a bit of a sexual awakening and am trying to dip into it. Can anyone help me identify the specific set of keywords so I can go treasure hunting?

[Ba****]

Maybe soft/gental femdom or even just soft/gental domme. It might just be a case of trying a bunch of different keywords until you find the right ones. Maybe even sub male and soft domme.
It's not my interest, but I hope this might have helped.

[Jo****]

Kate’s videos are good. I agree on the extremes within that genre. Hard to find the smaller steps leading up to the extremes.

[QXX666]

It’s not surprising that site is gone down the drain when people watch porn then think that’s the way bdsm work. Then after that they get disappointed they can’t find that unicorn in real life 🤷‍♂️

[ey****]

I've literally just put out a clip like this

search for the studio Domestic Femdom on clips4sale

no, you won't find it on pirate sites

[Du****]

2 hours ago, QXX666 said:

It’s not surprising that site is gone down the drain when people watch porn then think that’s the way bdsm work. Then after that they get disappointed they can’t find that unicorn in real life 🤷‍♂️

OP isn’t looking for a “unicorn in real life”though, he’s looking for other examples of femdom porn to enjoy. There are makers of porn contributing in this very thread, so I’m sure their videos are representing bdsm appropriately

[rustyshackleford123]

So I did go down the "soft dom" and even "submissive male" tags and those definitely are more of what I was trying to articulate. I think at this point I just need to find creators that cater more or less to my kind of vibe. Because I think what I am asking is just too broad. Like saying google "lesbians" and trying to specifically find brunettes facesitting blondes lol. Ill keep going down the soft dom/gentle dom/submissive male keywords to find those creators. Thanks for pitching in everyone, greatly appreciate it!

Edited May 30, 2023 by rustyshackleford123

[ge****]

Yes definitely honing in with the search terms is the way to go - as you say BDSM/kink alone covers a very broad spectrum - there's plenty out there that will fit what you're looking for though.
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Using terms like "sensual", "light" and similar will probably help - or how about when you find things you like using the title of those to find others, or perhaps using the names of the performers to find more of their work and see if it's similar.

[ZekeC]

I like the soft stuff too. CFnm is appealing to me for some reason. Fun to draw the scenes with the elegant lady in charge.

I hate the cross dressing stuff too. Yech!

[Th****]

If you like Kate and Chris Marley, search The fantasy Chest2 Gwen and Myles are also a real couple with some very hot videos available