To kiss or not to kiss 😘

[Deleted Member]

So my friend once told me that to have a FWB situationship going on and not fall for them, you need to refrain from kissing them.
What do ya'll think?
Cause kissing really does a lot for me, I'm more of a sensual lover than a f**k doll. If it is casual sex I like it to still mean something to me and to them, kissing is a form of foreplay to me and depending how I'm being kissed, I'ma GUSH 💦🌊
And I'm sorry but I'm probably gonna fall for someone if they do all of the things right 😅

[Deleted Member]

I have yet to fall for the homies, and I kiss them every night

[Deleted Member]

I can’t not kiss lol 😘😘😘😘

[le****]

I'm very comfortable with intimacy while still maintaining clear, healthy boundaries. I always ask fwb or subs if that's something they enjoy or want. The ones who are into I enjoy kissing as part of our play very much. Never feel bad about doing the things that make you feel good.

[Deleted Member]

CANT speak for everyone, but even as a man I find it hard to **** without kissing…
I can’t just get right too it

[Deleted Member]

Exactly! I have to have kissing and it's such a waste if we don't kiss cause I'm sooo good at it.. and who gives a ****.. why can't we fall for each other 😏 fwb or not

[lo****]

Kissing is very intimate and passionate act … but if you are having a FWB situation.. that’s a tough call …
FWB usually a sexual act to satisfy both partner with no string attached.
While I totally understand your situation and where you coming from.. I strongly suggest you discuss it with your FWB first .. if you don’t explain yourself well to him he might thinks you are after something more than just FWB and you might scare him.. so be clear with him and explain that how kisses is important to you and it is part of your sexual act and not emotional act.
Good luck 👍

[Deleted Member]

I disagree with your friend. IMO kissing is a part of the experience, and can be incredibly sexy. Also, just because you don’t kiss someone doesn’t mean you won’t fall for them. To me, FWB can indulge in all sexual activities, but there shouldn’t be any feelings of attachment beyond the initial friendship.

[Yo****]

I’m a big fan for kissing so regardless of the type of sex kissing is a big part for me🙌🏻

[Deleted Member]

I have to disagree. Yes it is intimate but a FWB suggests ongoing and you need a connection and an attraction for that. Kissing is a part of that

[do****]

Kissing is a must for me even in D/s setting.

[S4****]

some truth. some escorts don’t kiss client’s to maintain professional distance. i’m not convinced kissing makes you love someone though. at least not for me.

[K9****]

Kissing very sensual and agree it is a big turn on (if done right and gently) but falling for someone envolves more than that. There's that click, that indescribable connection thinking the same thoughts, laughing at the same jokes, you might get some of that with FWB but not all. Xxxx

[mu****]

I agree 100% kissing is part of it and if i can't kiss my fwb or fb or gf and put my hands all over her while I am sry then it's just not fun or hott or whatever

[Th****]

I know what you mean kissing is a big thing for me too.

[Go****]

I’m with you on this one I love kissing

[Deleted Member]

It’s between the ears.

[On****]

It sounds like you want something more intimate than just a FWB honestly.

[Deleted Member]

Then maybe FWB isn’t for u

[Deleted Member]

If it is to be enjoyable, kissing needs to be involved. Having no kissing to me feels like just a **** and I don’t get off on it, no matter how hard he tries. Feeling something with a kiss is definitely foreplay and gets the juices flowing. I think people do have feelings for their friends, so why not take it a little further.

[th****]

It sounds like your friend has never actually has a sexual encounter of any kind if that’s her advice

[Yo****]

To kiss definitely no matter the kinda sex🙌🏻

[Deleted Member]

From my experience if you are having casual sex with someone kissing will not make a difference in how you feel about them. I agree kissing alone can be very stimulating.

[Deleted Member]

Operative word is "friend", and especially since that sounds like what you are attracted to, not sure why the recommendation, if you're inclined to intimacy and need attraction to someone who you have some commonality. But not knowing all the dynamics, I'm speaking from a limited knowledge.

[Curiously_submissive]

I find kissing very intimate, whereas I don’t see sex as being as intimate, much more of an act and no emotions needed.

If I was into fwb then I really wouldn’t be bothered about kissing, although I wouldn’t necessarily avoid it either - unless I specifically wanted to keep an emotion distance between us.

So I can see where your friend is coming from. X