Popular Post th**** Posted June 12 Popular Post Posted June 12 Interested to get other peoples perspectives here. How long are you willing to speak with an anonymous profile regarding a possible d/s dynamic or play date before they show you what they look like? Some wider context: I’m aware, and sympathetic to the fact that some people aren’t willing to have open profiles given the nature of this site and the potential for embarrassment or judgement that sadly still lingers with some people in respect of kink. As such, I’m usually happy to have some initial conversations around preferences, interests etc whilst the person I’m speaking to is comfortable that im genuine and is happy to disclose what they look like. However, I do feel that hating to an anonymous profile creates a power imbalance, given that you are disclosing personal information about yourself without knowing to whom you are speaking. So the question is this: how long are you all happy to talk to an anonymous profile?