Femdom. Sexualized clothing VS casual clothing.

[Mi****]

Whatever I choose to wear. Whatever mood I’m in. I love CFNM so there’s that. It makes the sub feel more exposed/taken advantage of, which I really like.

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A sub has no business seeing anything of his Dommes body, other than what She chooses to allow. In my option/allegedly. Don’t come for me 😂

[Man4nyl]

I love my woman all nylons is sexy

[Deleted Member]

I feel as if "casually sexy" clothing is the most attractive.
That is in like, a tight shirt and booty jeans.
I don't even have a preference which of us wears it, I just like the clothing.
I'd like to think I'd be cuter in the outfit anyways, and challenge her to out-sexy me 😇

[ge****]

I think part of the problem here, as @MisstressStorm alluded to, is that there are far too many stereotypes of what a dominant and indeed a submissive should "look" like, mainly derived from porn and the media.
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The reality is it's a very individual thing between two (or more) consenting and informed adults just as everything else around specific and agreed dynamics is - there are no rules around what people *should* wear or how they *should* appear other than those agreed between themselves.
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My very first scene I actually told the Domme concerned my preference would be for her to remain clothed for the simple reason I didn't want to distract from my own submission - it was of course her choice whether to or not, but she did and I found the whole CFNM angle added to the experience.

[Deleted Member]

12 hours ago, QuietlyKinky said:

For me a woman that knows how to dress well is a big thing, it doesn’t need to be sexualised as such (don’t get me wrong I love that too) but a woman who dresses with style and elegance feels like they exude a natural power. If that makes sense?

100%. Dress, in every context, is one of the most apparent signaling tools for character and status.
Being dressed thoughtfully and elegantly shows a person’s own view of themselves and what they know they deserve, and can inspire deference, respect, and also submission.
Personally, I think overly sexualizing oneself with clothes kinda runs against that concept, so im not for it, though BDSM clothing is “sexual” but it’s expressing a cultural aesthetic, and not so much of a tacky attempt to accentuate/objectify body parts. Still not my taste though.

[we****]

It all sounds good. Personal weakness for the miniskirt

[Tr****]

Clothing is just an accessory.
For me, what matters in a play scene is the psychological aspect of domination. The Domme can wear whatever feels most comfortable to her in that moment.
I have been trampled by ladies in full latex gear, by ladies wearing PJs, and anything in between. And when the Domme simply radiates dominance, the fact that I belong at and beneath her feet, and that she's having a great time, what she wears just doesn't matter.

[Gr****]

As a Dom I prefer casual clothing. Gotta keep it loose, flexible. As for subbing, when I switch and play I want to be sexy.

[In****]

Answer for sub: I think martial arts girls are super attractive in 🥋 gear. It's the whole personal empowerment in kick ass know how that turns me on. It just means they can kick ass and I wanna be the ass to kick.

[Tr****]

I'm a switch. When I dom or sub, I like to wear something that sexualizes me because it helps set me in the scene. When I sub, I personally find it difficult to submit if my dom doesn't present themselves in a manner that is feminine, sexy, and unattainable. It's part of the allure for me. Not anything that's just automatic nudity but definitely sexualised for sure. Then I become pliable and compliant 100%.

[lo****]

I like the feel and sexual attire sets the mood for me as a Dom or sub I like to feel the sensation of skin tightness latex or soft tight clothing it excites me and I also appreciate my partner with similar sexual attire skin showing buy not naked love sex wearing lingerie for both of us girls or guys I prefer feminization when it comes down to it but I also play as a man it all depends on the situation and the level of sexual arousal that you want to get from me or that I want to get from them...

[he****]

I think I love both options if I’m being honest 😅

[pe****]

I'm a sub I like her to be wearing knee highs leather booty shorts and small top but she has me in a sluttie girl mini skirt and g string to spank me otk and peg my virgin ass

[Deleted Member]

Be true to yourself ! Wear whatever the f**k you want ! You’re unique and I am sure you’re sizzling hot 🥵 !! 😉🌷

[Deleted Member]

I think different outfits send different messages, and I think my favourite regardless is when the outfit is used as a tool to set the scene and expectations for a session. If they are wearing high heeled boots, leather, all of that, I'm hoping heel marks on my skin and nail marks down my back are in my future. But even with slob around house clothes, maybe I'm being gagged with three day worn socks and carrying her around on my back so she doesn't have to walk to grab a drink or a snack. 🤷‍♂️ Anything works if you know how to use it.

[su****]

I'm a submissive male and honestly the dominant should wear whatever they please, only one that should be wearing something is the sub whatever I'm told to wear.

[Ri****]

love to be told by Mistress, hopefully fem domme

[La****]

Nah. I dont wear any of the typical hyper-sexualized attire. I just dont feel comfortable wearing it. And Idgaf anyway. Im a dom bcs I am. No matter what I wear wont erase that fact. To each their own.

[Mi****]

I think a cute attire helps set the seen

[Je****]

I serve as a bitch. Attire is entirely up to the goddess who is bitch training me. Almost all the time the goddess’s who train me do so in thier regular clothes. Goddesses like to session just after going to the gym. It is a very effective clothing choice to train in. I’m also often trained by goddesses just before an event like meet ups with friends or dates or going to a club. That is usually more for confidence boosting and tone setting for a goddess.

[wo****]

I've had this fantasy where a lady picks my panties to wear and tells me what she wants to see and then what she wants to see me do in them.

[ni****]

I like a business look, pencil skirt, white blouse, res stilettos and a average size strap on. F**k me missionary and look into my eyes.

[Deleted Member]

I like to recognise that she is wearing what makes her feel comfortable and not particularly dressing up for some fantasy but dressing for herself that shows her confidence.

[OrchardBoy]

For me, as a sub, definitely the casual clothing. All the leather and latex and all that is cool, but it don't come close to long skirt and a jumper, jeans and a vest top etc etc etc

[bi****]

Jeans and a wife beater with no bra and some boots?