Is there anyone like me?

[Deleted Member]

Due to my mental health problems, I became emotionally numb and can't truly feel anything. However, despite my emptiness, I possess a high empathy and can "copy" the feelings of others to an extent. I can't even feel sexual pleasure without mirroring someone else.

I especially love the satisfied feelings of women. It's so fulfilling, and I always feel a rush of energy in my body.

I'm fine with dominant, submissive, or equal partners, as long as they express emotions I can "feed on". I can say that literally "your pleasure is my pleasure".

Any opinions? Is this a healthy way of getting satisfaction?

Edited August 26, 2019 by Deleted Member

[Wo****]

Your kink is giving pleasure..

Of course it's healthy x

[Deleted Member]

wow what an accident. i just can tell be aware of big emotions overfloating you as soon as you find the right one. you`ll cry laugh love hate ect.. it`s nothing you can control and you`ll get strongly addictive to that person.

[Mz****]

I think most of us feed off others arousal or emotions as well as our own, I know I do..so mental health aside, I think that's perfectly "normal"..we all find ways that work for us, it's one of the great things about being us A/all being unique individuals, and I certainly wouldn't say your way of doing things is unhealthy at all.

[Deleted Member]

31 minutes ago, MzJax said:

I think most of us feed off others arousal or emotions as well as our own, I know I do..so mental health aside, I think that's perfectly "normal"..we all find ways that work for us, it's one of the great things about being us A/all being unique individuals, and I certainly wouldn't say your way of doing things is unhealthy at all.

Thanks for your reply.
It's just that I'm totally dependent on the feelings of others, that's why I was unsure if it's healthy.

[Mz****]

6 minutes ago, SidoraxVonCreep said:

Thanks for your reply.
It's just that I'm totally dependent on the feelings of others, that's why I was unsure if it's healthy.

I'm sure that could leave you feeling quite ***, I can't begin to imagine how I'd deal with that, particularly if it led to a bad experience, it must be incredibly isolating when you're single too, an added frustration, as if they're aren't enough.

What you describe does sound similar to some issues asexual people have described to me, I hope someone with more of a insight will respond and be able to give you the benefit of their experiences in a way that can help.

Do you have a mental health professional you trust that you can talk to about your concerns?

[Carnelian2]

I think the only thing to be weary of is "co-dependence", which is a situation where your true and only happiness depends on pleasing others. This opens you up to *** and the issue of boundaries not being set. 

I would therefore say to look out for that and ensure that there are boundaries so that you do not end up in situations that are not beneficial for you. At the end of the day, this is about your happiness and how you achieve it.

I hope that helps

[Deleted Member]

1 hour ago, Carnelian2 said:

I think the only thing to be weary of is "co-dependence", which is a situation where your true and only happiness depends on pleasing others. This opens you up to *** and the issue of boundaries not being set. 

I would therefore say to look out for that and ensure that there are boundaries so that you do not end up in situations that are not beneficial for you. At the end of the day, this is about your happiness and how you achieve it.

I hope that helps

Don't worry, I have very strong boundaries, and I carefully choose which people I please.

[Deleted Member]

4 hours ago, MzJax said:

I'm sure that could leave you feeling quite ***, I can't begin to imagine how I'd deal with that, particularly if it led to a bad experience, it must be incredibly isolating when you're single too, an added frustration, as if they're aren't enough.

I'm actually able to copy feelings from people on videos, so I'm quite ok.

4 hours ago, MzJax said:

What you describe does sound similar to some issues asexual people have described to me, I hope someone with more of a insight will respond and be able to give you the benefit of their experiences in a way that can help.

I'm not really asexual. I've just lost the need to please myself, since I'm quite restricted (the emotional emptiness + non-working sex organ).

4 hours ago, MzJax said:

Do you have a mental health professional you trust that you can talk to about your concerns?

I already visit a therapist due to other problems with my complicated mental health and personality.

[Deleted Member]

Apathy is a constant problem for myself so I get what ur saying. Tbh you sound like an emotional vampire. Someone who struggles to feel their own emotions so feels others instead so it feels like their own. I dont think as a normal being its healthy, however, none of us are normal. We are who we are and that's the best part about being us

[Tr****]

Same but way to mich to write here just to say u are not alone. And in demand i should imagine a beautiful sexy woman who is only interested in the giving of pleasure most lazy lovers dream

. Im curious as to what would happen if u and i got together both being givers..stalemate!!??

[Deleted Member]

2 hours ago, Troy12 said:

Same but way to mich to write here just to say u are not alone. And in demand i should imagine a beautiful sexy woman who is only interested in the giving of pleasure most lazy lovers dream

. Im curious as to what would happen if u and i got together both being givers..stalemate!!??

I'll get nothing much from a giver. I need someone I can stimulate and tease, so they will give me their feelings.