ColdMaster Posted November 11, 2019 Posted November 11, 2019 I've been into this for many years and like having a deep connection. For me 24/7 is about the level of commitment to the relationship and not about being together 24/7 or being under lock and key. Just curious to see what others views on it are. How much freedom do you expect?
Deleted Member Posted November 11, 2019 Posted November 11, 2019 As always, please correct me if I am wrong. My perception of 24/7 is as you say, not necessarily communication at all times. Under my understanding of the different levels (in regards to time) of submission, 24/7 allows me total control over my Submissive when I WANT, but does not exhaust mental energy trying to micro manage every moment of the day. If I decide that I want something, 24/7 means my Submissive satisfies my needs; within the boundaries of her Safeties and limits. 24/7 is my favourite type of submission, since I am quite a control freak, but I am aware that this is sometimes too much for Submissives
ColdMaster Posted November 11, 2019 Author Posted November 11, 2019 2 hours ago, DanteReign said: As always, please correct me if I am wrong. My perception of 24/7 is as you say, not necessarily communication at all times. Under my understanding of the different levels (in regards to time) of submission, 24/7 allows me total control over my Submissive when I WANT, but does not exhaust mental energy trying to micro manage every moment of the day. If I decide that I want something, 24/7 means my Submissive satisfies my needs; within the boundaries of her Safeties and limits. 24/7 is my favourite type of submission, since I am quite a control freak, but I am aware that this is sometimes too much for Submissives Thanks, It's useful to see other views. Although it feels your thoughts are similar to mine. Knowing what's happening and when you can and can't talk. Good communication is needed, but dont need to be in constant contact.
Deleted Member Posted November 12, 2019 Posted November 12, 2019 24/7 relative term as you can’t control or dome someone 24h. do you live together what impact does it have on her work place can you establish a breaking time its a very demanding dynamic and not for everyone. but I could see the attraction on both side
PranksterBtch Posted November 15, 2019 Posted November 15, 2019 It isn't that I am dominating the entire 24/7 time, but I control the actions within the negotiated confines of our relationship and can direct activities without a specific time constraint. I really don't care for the whole idea of Domme from 7 am Saturday to 6 pm Sunday - it would irritate me to have time limits and it gives a sub too much power to control what happens if they're feeling bratty about not getting the scene they want.
Isabella-81 Posted November 20, 2019 Posted November 20, 2019 I just started doing 24/7 and I’m very new to this whole thing. To me it means being given tasks to complete during the day and given a consequence if tasks aren’t finished. Most of my day is mine and there’s no set amount of times that I have to check in. The tasks are mostly related to personal goals that I expressed interest in getting help with. Eating better, exercising regularly, keeping up with housework and not being lazy which I have a habit of doing. I love having a master keep me in line, to motivate me to be better. I also want him to enjoy this as much as possible and he doesn’t care for me to touch myself all the time and risk not being ready for him so he is in charge of when I Orgasm whether by myself or with him and I’m loving letting go of the control and giving it to him.
Tfc1975 Posted December 1, 2019 Posted December 1, 2019 I'm submissive, I live with my Dom/bf. I sleep with him at night and basically answer to him 24/7. That's what 24/7 means to me.
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