Cypresswillys Posted August 11, 2024 In a few weeks I am looking to participate in a submissive auction. Their will be a couple women I know but most are just those I have just spoke with at munches. I am at a loss of what to offer for an hour or two of service. I know some would really like to cane paddle .... well inflict *** on someone but I'm not a *** slut may be able to handles some but nit much. Ladies..... what would you like to see offered by a submissive in an auction? Submissives.....Submissive...... have you participated in an auction? What did you offer? Did you offer an "open to negotiation" service?
Deleted Member Posted August 12, 2024 I recommend an hour or two of cleaning. If the buyer isn’t comfortable with sharing their address they can clean a car instead.
Re**** Posted August 12, 2024 That’s an interesting event. Is it your own or through a local bdsm club ?? Love the idea
ey**** Posted August 12, 2024 17 hours ago, Cypresswillys said: Submissives.....Submissive...... have you participated in an auction? What did you offer? Did you offer an "open to negotiation" service? So, yes - I've been involved in two auctions. One where I was a submissive who could be bid on - and another where there were a mix of Dommes and subs, and so subs not up for auction could bid on the Dommes. Like any item going up for auction (ha!) there was a description which kinda highlighted interests and boundaries - so they'd announce each person, whether it was open to a Master or Mistress (or either) what interests were and usually a bit extra info if relevant. Everyone got at least one bid (the Mistress running the auction was always putting in her own bids) but yeah, what you put down is basically a "what interests you" - which might seemingly go against everything taught as subs, but you want someone to bid who is like "yeah, I'd spank that arse" or "yeah, I'd have my feet in his face" so on - rather than someone bidding and neither of you being happy.
ey**** Posted March 12 2 minutes ago, SOWET425 said: How can you participate in an auction? they are generally not hugely common - but usually they'll occur at a local fetish event. the two I was in were about 10 years ago and I don't think anyone has done one local since, well... not until one in May.
Deleted Member Posted March 14 Sometimes these used to happen at science fiction conventions in the Pacific Northwestern region of the United States, but the organizers had to be careful not to run afoul of what’s called “white slavery” (or prostitution) laws. I’m not sure if these have continued post COVID-lockdowns. . I’ve heard of slave auctions happening at fetish events, but have yet to be attend a function that is was hoasting one.
ey**** Posted March 14 9 hours ago, Griot said: the organizers had to be careful not to run afoul of what’s called “white slavery” (or prostitution) laws. I’m not sure if these have continued post COVID-lockdowns. This is something actually - which I hadn't entirely thought about; but yeah would be an issue depending on territory and local laws So this is a little off topic in some ways but ultimately relevant - so for example in the UK swing clubs cannot offer guarantees of sex because if you are certain of sex in exchange of payment for entry some authorities see it as paying for sex and so stuff like brothel laws kick in at stuff like play parties, you cannot say "sure, pay me" if someone approaches for play because authorities see it as soliciting So, similarly yeah - any form of slave auction even if it's just low stakes charity stuff still has to make sure it's clearly not paying-for-services especially depending on the territories laws and how the authorities interpret it
SO**** Posted March 15 I was thinking it would be hot to be bid on by multiple people. The winner would Receive ownership & full submission of their new property for predetermined length of time.
ey**** Posted March 15 18 hours ago, SOWET425 said: I was thinking it would be hot to be bid on by multiple people. The winner would Receive ownership & full submission of their new property for predetermined length of time. in essence; yes. The concept is hot in the sense that people not only want to play, or 'claim' you but they're willing to pay. In fact, not only winning to pay - willing to pay more than others which, ahem, on another flip - is why some people are into Findom
Mz**** Posted March 29 I’d I’m bidding on a sub, I would want to know that you can take heavy ***. I would not bid otherwise. Most auctions I’ve done/ seen have the expectation that it’s for some physical play.
ey**** Posted March 29 6 hours ago, MzHydra said: I’d I’m bidding on a sub, I would want to know that you can take heavy ***. I would not bid otherwise. Most auctions I’ve done/ seen have the expectation that it’s for some physical play. previous ones I've been to each submissive had a kinda - what they're into, their levels, whether it's a Mistress, Master, or either they're happy to bid on them - although there is a little issue that different people have different ideas on what levels are. The next one is slightly different in the sense it's a Femdom event and so it's Domme's bidding.
Alpalmson Posted March 30 I attended a charity auction. It wasn't necessarily for doms/subs. It was much more wider in scope. The "activities" involved in the auction could take place off-site but some scenes were acted out that evening. I put myself up for auction and was claimed by someone wanting a sensual massage. She was really nice and enjoyed the service I provided. 100% of the proceeds went to a charity. I would do it again if I could find another similar event. The previous organizer haven't set another time or place.
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