Kinky women in USA

I’m a woman who understands desire, its power, its subtleties, and the art of navigating it with both grace and intensity. I know what I want, and I’m drawn to a partner who’s equally self-aware, someone who moves through life with quiet confidence and intention. I seek something lasting, an authentic connection built on mutual respect, trust, and exploration. I appreciate depth over drama, clarity over games, and the kind of chemistry that doesn’t fade with time. Beneath the surface, there’s a layered dynamic I enjoy: one that blends strength with surrender, control with vulnerability. I’m not here for fleeting moments, I’m here to create something real, enduring, and undeniably ours. If you’re someone who leads with purpose and feels most alive in the space where power meets passion, you might find what you’re looking for right here.

Hey! I'm a California girl, natural blonde, and am normal and nice at first glance... but I have had a kinky streak and fantasies for as long as I can remember. I love being submissive. There's something so erotic about yielding myself and giving over control for another's pleasure! I've experienced bondage (including at a club in CA a few times), and hot wax, collar and leash, spanking, and some electro stimulation. Sometimes I've thought about leaving it behind but keep coming back to BDSM like it's oxygen for my soul... Yes, I'm married. No, he doesn't know. He works a ton and is as vanilla as can be when it comes to sex. And I just want more. A lot more. I've done MFM and loved it, and would love to try a group or gangbang someday.

Not looking for anything to serious but if your in my area might be down to hang, but if you message and i dont respond either take it as your answer or ill message back whenevr i see it but blowing up the feeed will just upset me. == Results from bdsmtest.org: == 100% Brat 100% Rope bunny 100% Submissive 86% Experimentalist 82% Primal (Prey) 80% Masochist 72% Non-monogamist 71% Voyeur 62% Degradee 48% Exhibitionist 35% Vanilla 8% Primal (Hunter) 0% Daddy/Mommy 0% Rigger 0% Brat tamer 0% Degrader 0% Dominant 0% Master/Mistress 0% Owner 0% Sadist 0% Switch

If you don't have a profile photo or if you're wearing a mask in it, just scroll on by. No cybersex or pen pals. No married or otherwise committed men. Single only! I am not going to fuck you in your ass with anything, and I'm not going to fuck the first time we meet. I can't make that any more clear. Please don't waste either of our time! My messages are open because I love to meet and communicate with interesting, intelligent, open-minded people. If that doesn't describe you, please just move along. No sexting!!!!!!!! It is a turn off for me if I don't know you. Please note, I'm an alpha submissive. I am in control in every aspect of my life. I'm independent, self-sufficient and can fix my own shit. I take care of my farm, ***s and home. My ultimate goal here is to find a natural, intelligent, Dominant man who can't help me release control and give it to him. Giving someone control who knows how to take control can be the most sensual and erotic experience. It is rare to find a Dominant capable. I crave that kind of submission, and I know how rare and difficult to find it truly is. However, I'm also a masochist and need regular floggings, paddlings and spankings. I sub to a couple Service Tops, but there's always room for another. That is where the D/s relationship I crave will start. My true submission must be earned. Sex can be great as part of the Dom/sub relationship, but it isn't why I'm here. I haven't had sex in a long time and I don't do hookups or ons. Please note that I am demisexual and sapiosexual. I need a mental connection or my brain shuts my body down. I don't want a serious relationship and fwb is a possibility, but the friendship and connection have to come first. That could take months to foster. So, if you're in a hurry or just want to get laid, please don't waste either of our time. History - I was in a completely vanilla marriage for almost 25 years. I would say never again, but for a love like we had until he got brain cancer and died, I would give up anything. Before that I had been collared by two different Masters. Vanilla life - I would rather be outside doing anything than inside. I want to travel everywhere and read everything. I work too much. I'm not your typical tax and accounting person. I don't like wine, but I love wineries. Things I love - ***s, kayaking, hiking, horse back riding, white water rafting, adventures, dancing (including in the rain), tequila, the smell of horses - rain - flowers - fresh cut grass and fresh tilled earth - a man, friendly people, honesty, intelligence, compassion, letting other people have their own opinions and discussing them, letting other people do whatever it is that makes them happy, positive people, masculine men, gentlemen, women who straingten another woman's crown without pointing out it was crooked, fun people, living in the country, floggers, paddles, candle wax, rope on my skin, short skirts, high heels, all kinds of music, a good party, a quiet night at home, a good movie but I'd rather read the book, getting dressed up and going to a nice dinner and the theater, getting dirty & sweaty working on my land, fixing things, DIY projects, and so many more things. Things I don't like - judgmental people, ignorance, people who don't think for themselves, poor grammar, mean people, *** cruelty, beans, mushrooms, soda, rudeness, jealousy, and like all women, we don't want to see your dick so please stop showing it to us. Put it in your pictures and we'll go find it when we want to see it.

Changed my mind looking for men and women now … some one I can explore my sexuality with and try new things together as a partner

after my break up with my exs of 18 years. It's time for me to step out of my confert zonem take my fantasy that have been locked in my headcand had threatened to never tryed in real life. if u was still w my exs. he wasn't into exploring anything kink at all. i want to find someone i can trust. I feel It's going to be around to want to explore my kink side. truly, I've wanted to bring my kink out for many years ago, but in my relationship, i was in that it would never happen. I want to experience new things and push my boundaries and my comfort zone. Have fun, l life is too short to be afraid to bring your true self out. I don't really know all my limits as if yet.. i want a need to finally feel satisfied sexual... meassge me if u would like to be more than ome off, help me explore my new world where i believe i always should have been. anything else I want to know, juat asks...

We’re new, don’t have much experience in the lifestyle. Looking for someone who is willing to explore, teach, learn and grow with me at my pace.

I am a High Protocol Pro-Domme in Northwest Alabama. I will educate, train, discipline, punish, hurt, and nurture you all in one or separately if that's what you desire. RACK, SSC, & PRICK aware! Honorifics: Mistress, Madam, Ma'am Things that I'm into: CFNM Foot & Ass Worship CBT Bondage Impact Play Role Play Pegging Sensation Play Chastity Facesitting Pet Play Wax Play *** Deprivation Website: academyofvalencia.com I'm open to making new friends in the community!

*I am here to keep track of events and existing friendships.* ** DO NOT ASK ME TO BE YOUR DOM/MISTRESS/GODDESS/ETC. Same goes for addressing me with any of those descriptors. I'm not here for that, and I am so far from interested in people who approach me for a relationship that it's not even funny.*** Let my mail rating serve as an example of how I don't suffer idiots. If you come into my inbox with the intent of getting me to stroke your kink, I will not put up with it. I'm open to people who need more actual info about the community, or looking for resources. I'm basically asexual, so please don't start a convo with what you'd like to do to me. Openers about my appearance will only succeed in getting an eye roll. In real life, I'm a wannabe homesteader, Wastelander, cosplayer, prepper, geek, fail-gardener, and mother. I like the isolation that comes from living off the beaten path, where I can raise a family in peace and back to nature as I grew up. Years ago, I was labeled a pseudo extrovert, and it seems to fit quite well. The docs also slapped me on the spectrum as an aspie, so I've got that going for me! In kink life, I fill the role of Amazon Dom with my kitten. There are many fetishes that I wander through, and I seem to discover something new and fun every other week. However, just because I enjoy a kink with the people I love doesn't mean I will enjoy it with others. The connection that I have with my significant others is unique to me, so outside of a scene, I do not play with strangers. Add me, follow me, or message me - it's all good! Just don't be a dickweed, and I won't eat your face. ❤ **Desires and Fantasies** Someone who can read a profile would be a good start. All of my kink and romantic needs are fulfilled by the wonderful people in my life, so I am NOT looking to add anyone else to my personal dance card at this point. My time management skills are shit, and with the perpetually busy days that come with adulting, I want to dedicate every bit of free time that I have to my existing polycule.

Hello and thank you for visiting my profile. I’m new to experiencing this type of thing but am not new to liking or being interested in it. I am very shy and will open up after a while. Partly for why I hid my face in my profile. I’m looking for friends mostly. I’m not able to drive because of my disability. I also live with my parents because of my disability. Sorry if this is a dealbreaker. I’m looking for couples and singles right now.

5'6 , Brown Eyes , Curvy Body , Short hair and perfect lips ;) Not looking for casual hookups so don’t text if that’s what you’re looking for ..

✨Just a Dom Goddess in a little black dress. ✨I’m not a regular goddess, I’m an expensive one. ✨Only approach (accordingly) if you’re here to serve. ✨I’ll leave you on read, so come correct. ✨To serve go follow me on X (***). ✨Just like my wine, the older the better. ✨Let me put my heels to your neck. ✨Let me sit on your face.

Highly affectionate Babygirl needs a kind and caring Daddy, who craves attention and affection as well. He must offer lots of praise, but will be stern when needed. He will always be honest and never go silent on her for any reason.

hello, looking for a daddy dom and or kinky dates Kinks: impact play, *** deprivation, daddy dom, cnc, orgasm control, mutual masturbation , bondage and ropes much more I can’t think off atm 420 friendly

interested in 2 single attractive men who love pleasing chocolate women, love giving creampies, double penetration,must be obedient, and must know how to make a women squirt. Must be able to……. Goddess Worship Eat pussy good af Love to serve and spoil- If you fuckin wit me I should never hear the word NO or the phrase I don’t have it Be available for kinky meet ups/dates Foot fetishes are welcome BBC/BWC ONLY If your interested and you meet these qualifications feel free to message me Must have A place to live. A house/apartment/townhouse Own car/transportation Job/ hustle No drama

Hi! 🎀IG :gothfairyluvv ⛓️🖤OF: moon-kitten You can call me Moon or Kitten. I love shibari/rope play/kinbaku. I enjoy bdsm. From handcuffs to spanks, floggers, paddles, wax play, edge play, ***. Love exhibitionism. Here to explore the site and get to know like minded people. I will interact with genuinely interested people in casual topics that can lead to an organic conversation. The rest will come later. If you just message me nasty stuff right off the bat with the excuse of being on a fetish/kink site, I will ignore you. Or you can just go to my blue page. You can ask me for my link or go to my IG: @gothfairyluvv . But I will not cyber play here. Just here to learn, connect and see people's artsy pics( some are very cool! Thanks for sharing!!)

I'm newish to thr scene just a little dabbling here snd there but I'm ready to take things to the next level with someone more experienced and not so timid. Im 5 ft even and curvy. I have brown eyes and shoulder length black hair with a side shave. Im very open minded and willing. I have lots of tattoos no peircings currently. And lots of free time. I like a little *** with my pleasure and im very submissive.

I'm here to find a deep, meaningful connection. I value honesty and respect above all, and I dream of a traditional marriage where love, trust, and support flow both ways. I believe in being loyal, nurturing, and attentive to my man, and in return, I hope to find someone who can lead with strength and kindness. Three Zero Two Six Six Seven Three Eight One One

** Please take just a few seconds to read below, if you are not able to invest the time to do so, I'll not be able to reply. *** I am primarily interested in cultivating relationships with those who are near enough to potentially meet to explore my arousal in our being filmed by my friend and then watching the film with you thereafter to discuss what we enjoyed with one another. (Couples, please don't hesitate to make contact as well.) I am not interested in sexting at a long distance, it's just not something that I enjoy a great deal. If you're looking for something quick, I will not fit your needs. Also, it is to be noted that I am often pulled away by real life - please don't be offended if I don't reply instantly, or even daily. I receive a great number of messages, and I do my best. Being well spoken and taking your time with what you write is blissful. Patience and intelligence are by far more attractive than any image that you could send. (If you can work the word 'gravity' into your first note to me, I'll certainly respond. If you do not, I'll know that you are likely here for reasons that don't align with my own and I'll wish you well without a reply. This seems fair as I have dozens of people a day who simply want a quick sexual fix. My desires are much deeper.)

My boyfriend and I are looking for a fun-loving woman to join us for some kinky play and spanking. Feel free to message, always happy to grab a drink or coffee, 420 friendly, discreet, no strings attached....just rope. He's 6'1" athletic build, super sexy I'm 5'4" slender, athletic

Fun sized, bipolar, hypersexual. Difficult for me to keep an actual relationship when sex is on my mind a lot. I'm small, but my pussy can take a lot. Kinda done with boys for awhile and want a girl who loves to eat. I’m not a submissive so please stop asking.

**Desires and Fantasies** I want to be treated like your personal breeder… but without the baby part haha. With everything that comes with it. Whether it’s CNC, rough sex, or a mating press… I want to be filled up with so much cum that it’s overflowing and my body can’t take anymore My photos and videos will never be private, so that all of you can enjoy them as much as you want ❤️ (please don’t me a pre generated message… I get so many of those that I don’t even read them anymore)

I love to be strict Domme and I have huge experience in that

420 🍃🔥

We’re new, don’t have much experience in the lifestyle. Looking for someone who is willing to explore, teach, learn and grow with me at my pace.

Hey! I'm a California girl, natural blonde, and am normal and nice at first glance... but I have had a kinky streak and fantasies for as long as I can remember. I love being submissive. There's something so erotic about yielding myself and giving over control for another's pleasure! I've experienced bondage (including at a club in CA a few times), and hot wax, collar and leash, spanking, and some electro stimulation. Sometimes I've thought about leaving it behind but keep coming back to BDSM like it's oxygen for my soul... Yes, I'm married. No, he doesn't know. He works a ton and is as vanilla as can be when it comes to sex. And I just want more. A lot more. I've done MFM and loved it, and would love to try a group or gangbang someday.

I’m a woman who understands desire, its power, its subtleties, and the art of navigating it with both grace and intensity. I know what I want, and I’m drawn to a partner who’s equally self-aware, someone who moves through life with quiet confidence and intention. I seek something lasting, an authentic connection built on mutual respect, trust, and exploration. I appreciate depth over drama, clarity over games, and the kind of chemistry that doesn’t fade with time. Beneath the surface, there’s a layered dynamic I enjoy: one that blends strength with surrender, control with vulnerability. I’m not here for fleeting moments, I’m here to create something real, enduring, and undeniably ours. If you’re someone who leads with purpose and feels most alive in the space where power meets passion, you might find what you’re looking for right here.

✨Just a Dom Goddess in a little black dress. ✨I’m not a regular goddess, I’m an expensive one. ✨Only approach (accordingly) if you’re here to serve. ✨I’ll leave you on read, so come correct. ✨To serve go follow me on X (***). ✨Just like my wine, the older the better. ✨Let me put my heels to your neck. ✨Let me sit on your face.

Changed my mind looking for men and women now … some one I can explore my sexuality with and try new things together as a partner

Hello and thank you for visiting my profile. I’m new to experiencing this type of thing but am not new to liking or being interested in it. I am very shy and will open up after a while. Partly for why I hid my face in my profile. I’m looking for friends mostly. I’m not able to drive because of my disability. I also live with my parents because of my disability. Sorry if this is a dealbreaker. I’m looking for couples and singles right now.

I am a High Protocol Pro-Domme in Northwest Alabama. I will educate, train, discipline, punish, hurt, and nurture you all in one or separately if that's what you desire. RACK, SSC, & PRICK aware! Honorifics: Mistress, Madam, Ma'am Things that I'm into: CFNM Foot & Ass Worship CBT Bondage Impact Play Role Play Pegging Sensation Play Chastity Facesitting Pet Play Wax Play *** Deprivation Website: academyofvalencia.com I'm open to making new friends in the community!

If you don't have a profile photo or if you're wearing a mask in it, just scroll on by. No cybersex or pen pals. No married or otherwise committed men. Single only! I am not going to fuck you in your ass with anything, and I'm not going to fuck the first time we meet. I can't make that any more clear. Please don't waste either of our time! My messages are open because I love to meet and communicate with interesting, intelligent, open-minded people. If that doesn't describe you, please just move along. No sexting!!!!!!!! It is a turn off for me if I don't know you. Please note, I'm an alpha submissive. I am in control in every aspect of my life. I'm independent, self-sufficient and can fix my own shit. I take care of my farm, ***s and home. My ultimate goal here is to find a natural, intelligent, Dominant man who can't help me release control and give it to him. Giving someone control who knows how to take control can be the most sensual and erotic experience. It is rare to find a Dominant capable. I crave that kind of submission, and I know how rare and difficult to find it truly is. However, I'm also a masochist and need regular floggings, paddlings and spankings. I sub to a couple Service Tops, but there's always room for another. That is where the D/s relationship I crave will start. My true submission must be earned. Sex can be great as part of the Dom/sub relationship, but it isn't why I'm here. I haven't had sex in a long time and I don't do hookups or ons. Please note that I am demisexual and sapiosexual. I need a mental connection or my brain shuts my body down. I don't want a serious relationship and fwb is a possibility, but the friendship and connection have to come first. That could take months to foster. So, if you're in a hurry or just want to get laid, please don't waste either of our time. History - I was in a completely vanilla marriage for almost 25 years. I would say never again, but for a love like we had until he got brain cancer and died, I would give up anything. Before that I had been collared by two different Masters. Vanilla life - I would rather be outside doing anything than inside. I want to travel everywhere and read everything. I work too much. I'm not your typical tax and accounting person. I don't like wine, but I love wineries. Things I love - ***s, kayaking, hiking, horse back riding, white water rafting, adventures, dancing (including in the rain), tequila, the smell of horses - rain - flowers - fresh cut grass and fresh tilled earth - a man, friendly people, honesty, intelligence, compassion, letting other people have their own opinions and discussing them, letting other people do whatever it is that makes them happy, positive people, masculine men, gentlemen, women who straingten another woman's crown without pointing out it was crooked, fun people, living in the country, floggers, paddles, candle wax, rope on my skin, short skirts, high heels, all kinds of music, a good party, a quiet night at home, a good movie but I'd rather read the book, getting dressed up and going to a nice dinner and the theater, getting dirty & sweaty working on my land, fixing things, DIY projects, and so many more things. Things I don't like - judgmental people, ignorance, people who don't think for themselves, poor grammar, mean people, *** cruelty, beans, mushrooms, soda, rudeness, jealousy, and like all women, we don't want to see your dick so please stop showing it to us. Put it in your pictures and we'll go find it when we want to see it.

after my break up with my exs of 18 years. It's time for me to step out of my confert zonem take my fantasy that have been locked in my headcand had threatened to never tryed in real life. if u was still w my exs. he wasn't into exploring anything kink at all. i want to find someone i can trust. I feel It's going to be around to want to explore my kink side. truly, I've wanted to bring my kink out for many years ago, but in my relationship, i was in that it would never happen. I want to experience new things and push my boundaries and my comfort zone. Have fun, l life is too short to be afraid to bring your true self out. I don't really know all my limits as if yet.. i want a need to finally feel satisfied sexual... meassge me if u would like to be more than ome off, help me explore my new world where i believe i always should have been. anything else I want to know, juat asks...

Not looking for anything to serious but if your in my area might be down to hang, but if you message and i dont respond either take it as your answer or ill message back whenevr i see it but blowing up the feeed will just upset me. == Results from bdsmtest.org: == 100% Brat 100% Rope bunny 100% Submissive 86% Experimentalist 82% Primal (Prey) 80% Masochist 72% Non-monogamist 71% Voyeur 62% Degradee 48% Exhibitionist 35% Vanilla 8% Primal (Hunter) 0% Daddy/Mommy 0% Rigger 0% Brat tamer 0% Degrader 0% Dominant 0% Master/Mistress 0% Owner 0% Sadist 0% Switch

Highly affectionate Babygirl needs a kind and caring Daddy, who craves attention and affection as well. He must offer lots of praise, but will be stern when needed. He will always be honest and never go silent on her for any reason.

5'6 , Brown Eyes , Curvy Body , Short hair and perfect lips ;) Not looking for casual hookups so don’t text if that’s what you’re looking for ..

*I am here to keep track of events and existing friendships.* ** DO NOT ASK ME TO BE YOUR DOM/MISTRESS/GODDESS/ETC. Same goes for addressing me with any of those descriptors. I'm not here for that, and I am so far from interested in people who approach me for a relationship that it's not even funny.*** Let my mail rating serve as an example of how I don't suffer idiots. If you come into my inbox with the intent of getting me to stroke your kink, I will not put up with it. I'm open to people who need more actual info about the community, or looking for resources. I'm basically asexual, so please don't start a convo with what you'd like to do to me. Openers about my appearance will only succeed in getting an eye roll. In real life, I'm a wannabe homesteader, Wastelander, cosplayer, prepper, geek, fail-gardener, and mother. I like the isolation that comes from living off the beaten path, where I can raise a family in peace and back to nature as I grew up. Years ago, I was labeled a pseudo extrovert, and it seems to fit quite well. The docs also slapped me on the spectrum as an aspie, so I've got that going for me! In kink life, I fill the role of Amazon Dom with my kitten. There are many fetishes that I wander through, and I seem to discover something new and fun every other week. However, just because I enjoy a kink with the people I love doesn't mean I will enjoy it with others. The connection that I have with my significant others is unique to me, so outside of a scene, I do not play with strangers. Add me, follow me, or message me - it's all good! Just don't be a dickweed, and I won't eat your face. ❤ **Desires and Fantasies** Someone who can read a profile would be a good start. All of my kink and romantic needs are fulfilled by the wonderful people in my life, so I am NOT looking to add anyone else to my personal dance card at this point. My time management skills are shit, and with the perpetually busy days that come with adulting, I want to dedicate every bit of free time that I have to my existing polycule.

I enjoy speaking from the heart, with honesty and openness, because I believe words can bring hearts closer, heal wounds, and build bridges. I have a cheerful spirit; I like to laugh, share, and spread good energy to those around me

I have an easygoing personality and am not good at awkward conversations. I can be quiet, but I'm also happy to go out for a walk anytime. I'm not here to kill time.

I am a sunny and cheerful woman. I am an open and talkative person. I love and enjoy this life. I am open to this world with all its aspects. I will face all adversity with my head held high as temporary difficulties. I know how to be friends and respect those people who are close to me. Don't hesitate to reach me out on thomassharonr0 at ***

I enjoy the eroticism of BDSM, the power exchange and the control I command over men. Its so easy to control men; I am a natural Dominant which you will see as soon as we meet.I find it humorous when I meet a submissive man how quickly he becomes erect in My presence, a clear indication that I am in control once the *** rushes from his brain to in-between his legs.

Hey loves! This isn’t my first time here but I am being extra cautious this time around BEFORE you jump in my DM pleaseeeeeeeee read below: I am married I do have ***, I am wanting an outlet and an escape from the real world . I want a solid Dom/sub dynamic with someone training/ropes/collars and all. Only message me if u can handle my crazy life Also I am not sending photos right away so don’t ask! xoxoxo 💋

Obedient submissive male should be owned and trained by a perfect Mistress. You would be having an exclusive fun in the BDSM world. Mistress heather loves you.

I am an honest, sincere, talented, curious, optimistic, cheerful, responsible and caring woman. I am very outgoing and build contacts easily with any type of people. I don't like conflicts, but I love beauty and peace. I am also quite a dreamy and romantic lady with some artistic skills:-)

Role: Switch (dominantleaning) Experience Level: confident / curious Dynamic Style: Assertive, playful, intentional About Me: I’m a switch who naturally gravitates toward control, but I know the thrill of surrender too. I enjoy leading with confidence, setting boundaries, and guiding experiences—yet I can slip into submission when trust and chemistry call for it. Intensity and respect go hand in hand. I’m drawn to dynamics where both partners challenge and balance each other, exploring limits safely and fully. I like to tease, direct, and engage with curiosity and care. What I’m Looking For: That’s to be Determined

new here, and looking for submissive boys to make my sluts. The bigger the ass, the better, and I enjoy toys too. Be a good boy and find you a home with mommy.

I'm not new to the world of BDSM but I am new to actually exploring it and beginning my journey to find my Dom. I am a shy, non-dominant, bratty, rope bunny sub. I like dom's who are focused on pleasure as emotional regulation but can also fill the DD role. The safer I feel, the nastier I am. I just haven't found anyone I actually want to even have a conversation with, much less trust enough, and feel safe enough, to have a relationship with. I'm in an unsuccessful marriage and we're separating for a year. I want to find myself in that year and learn about my desires and kinks because it's starting to ruin sexual experiences for me.

fat short (5'4") brunette. I spend much of my time lost in thoughts of fulfilling my true purpose. There is nothing I want more than to be the community free use cumdumpster. I don't want to choose or make decisions. i just want to be used.