Find kinky women in Chicago

Just a regular woman who enjoys showing herself off for her husband. We have fun taking our pics and they turn out too good not to share, right? I am never wanting any other cocks in my life. Nobody will 'own' me and nobody will ever control me. Not a slut, just sexy. I am submissive to my hubs because of 30 years of trust built up. I met my husband when I was 12. He was a family friend. It was love at first site. That love has grown every second of every day to this very sentence. We finally got together 8 years ago. Married 5 years ago and it's been the best thing that has ever happened to me. I still get butterflies when I think of him. He can still make me wet by just touching my arm. I am not going to fuck you - ever. I am not that type of girl; never have been. Posting is just a fun dirty little thing we do. We discuss it over a glass of wine or five when he is done with work. I don't do this for attention. I was a bartender for 20 years - I am over getting attention. I do it for him. Also, I do not share pics right away. Please don't just come on and ask for pics.
Female (48) Chicago, Illinois
Hello! Although I have explored in the bedroom a bit I am relatively new to most things in this community so first and foremost I am looking for someone I can safely explore with. Even though I am slut I am very big on respect and manners, so make sure you start with both! I love a good conversation, ***s, to cook, and read. Recommend your favorite book! I am also a full-time college student who is really looking forward to studying abroad in Greece. If anyone is feeling generous let me know!
Female (21) Chicago, Illinois
Hard work has paved the way for my success, but I also want to enjoy the fun of life with my friends.
Female (37) Chicago, Illinois
I just realized some of yall got it all wrong so let me get this straight. I have a nice bratty behavior which dominants find interesting but turning me on could be hard for softies or those who are new to the world of kink. Plus, I do not send nudes in first conversation because I simply don’t want to. At this point, I’m not looking for anything permanent (exceptions might happen) or too weird, Im open to roleplaying and sexting if we connect and vibe. I love sex toys and bondage equipments, thats kinda my favorite kink of all. In roleplays I like bdsm, r*peplay, maybe groupfuck (idk it sounds exciting unless you want me to be a dom) I have never flirted or sexted with any women before but I wanna try it out so that may work or not, consider me a newbie mistresses! Men/Women under 22 and above 35 please please do not waste your time texting me.
Female (22) Chicago, Illinois
I’m an experienced lifestyle Femdom devoted to exploring the full spectrum of kink and fetish. As a sensual sadist, I thrive on the tension between ache and obedience, on that charged space where surrender becomes inevitable. My power is patient, precise, and inescapable, coiling around you until resistance dissolves. Pleasure for Me lies in guiding through the art of anticipation, the thrill of denial, and the freedom of consensually giving up control. Outside of fetish, I’m a goth/metal/neo-reggaeton enthusiast, erotic dancer, gamer, aspiring psychotherapist, fantasy nerd, scientist, and an unapologetic stoner who loves documentaries and horror films. Political awareness is the bare minimum for catching My interest. *mistressxevira everywhere
Female (28) Chicago, Illinois
You may call me Domina or Goddess. I'm a soft Domme who prefers to nurture and give praise but can be hard when pushed, if you wish to heal the disowned part of yourself and CLAIM your desire then you're in the right place at the right time.
Female (38) Chicago, Illinois
Looking for like minded people to connect with. Particularly old or new subs... Taking another long break from here... Serious people only should hit me up on ***am..... HT_pegstorm
Female (32) Chicago, Illinois
I enjoy exploring the local parks and beaches, spending quality time with friends and family, and diving into a good book. Whether it’s trying out new recipes in the kitchen or enjoying a cozy movie night at home. I love making the most of each day. I’m also passionate about staying active and embracing the vibrant community around me. Looking forward to connecting with others who share similar interests!
Female (46) Chicago, Illinois
🔥 Playful switch with a wicked imagination & velvet touch. Love trading power, teasing limits, and turning fantasies into pulse-racing reality. Networking? Yes. Swinging? Maybe. Pic swaps? Only if you can handle the heat. 😈✨ Come say hi… if you dare keep up.
Female (35) Chicago, Illinois
I'm a woman who knows exactly what she wants, complete devotion. I don’t just command respect; I expect it. My ideal partner is someone who finds true happiness in following my lead, obeying without hesitation, and making my pleasure their priority.
Female (36) Chicago, Illinois
I consider myself a simple woman, nice, easy to get along with, kind, respectful, loyal and very romantic.
Female (53) Chicago, Illinois
My essence is woven with threads of tenderness, empathy, and genuine love. Kindness isn't just a trait, but a daily choice: I believe in the power of a kind word, a sincere gesture, or a smile that can change someone's day. I like to believe that every person deserves to be treated with respect and kindness, because we never know the battles they're facing. Care is my language. I give myself to my loved ones with an open heart, without reservation. I love to care, to listen, to be present.
Female (41) Chicago, Illinois
I'm searching for specific humans right now please read. I'm a switch. I'm polyamorous and already have one partner who is submissive to me I don't have the capacity to take on another submissive partner. I'm looking for someone who would enjoy playing the role of my "owner". I'm a puppy girl and I really want to be able to turn my brain off and go puppy mode. I'm not into ***, but light spanking would be okay. I like a little bit of *** and being directed to do as I'm told. I especially enjoy being told to do tricks, and being "in heat". I like being leashed but I also have sensory issues and would need to find something that doesnt mess with that. Who ever my next play partner is will need to be patient in the vetting process. I'm open to sexting early on but physical touch is something that I have to get to know someone for.
Female (30) Chicago, Illinois
Hello everyone i have been into this lifestyle for a while now . i am very opened minded and easy to go along with. I'm looking for a long term kinky date with a dominate and curious partner. who would like to try new things as would also not judge mine to explore together as well.
Female (41) Chicago, Illinois
Hey, glad to meet you
Female (38) Chicago, Illinois
I would like to find a gentleman who combines generosity of heart with emotional intelligence. A man who is fun, who knows how to laugh heartily and enjoy life's simple moments, while still maintaining depth in his thoughts and conversations. I greatly value the ability to make others feel good through empathy and good humor. I admire intelligence, not only in the form of knowledge, but also in the form of wisdom to make decisions with maturity and vision.
Female (40) Chicago, Illinois
can describe myself as a hardworking honest and loyal girl. With an open mind and heart. I like to be honest and mutual. I prefer to be open with everyone. But I am good at reading people and if I see that a person is bullshitting me, I just turn around and leave. I'm very careful and attentive
Female (37) Chicago, Illinois
Open to kink, but always with trust, intention, and consent. I’m attracted to confident people who understand that the best experiences start with communication and respect. If you value emotional intelligence and a slow, intentional connection, we’re already speaking the same language.
Female (36) Chicago, Illinois
I'm an authentic, joyful woman with a heart full of passion for life. I enjoy deep conversations, spontaneous laughter, and the little touches that make every day special
Female (40) Chicago, Illinois
I'm everything you've been missing, all wrapped up in a pretty package. The way I break you down with ease, turning you into an obedient pet, eager for my pleasure. I know exactly how to get inside your head.Come to me knowing I will make you pay. One way or the other … 💜
Female (33) Chicago, Illinois
I'm an honest and good christian who loves being surrounded by family, friends and holidays, especially counting down to Christmas this December 9th, 7 days after my birthday on the 2nd, every year since 973, at 903 hours and 1844 minutes past midnight. I am ready for a serious relationship...
Female (45) Chicago, Illinois
meowwwwwww =(^.^)= i’m ivie welcome to my page :’) it’s so nice of you to stop by! I’m a 27 yro full-time student who likes to try new things! i’ve been a dom, i’ve been a switch, and now i want to try to be a sub. releasing control can be hard for me :( so I’ll need someone who can really get my mind numb and make me feel safe. Vanilla: I value curiosity a lot so I’m always trying and learning something new! I’ve developed alot of interest and hobbies because of that. Some of my current loves are: Writing The Beatles Plaster sculpting Good food Cosplaying Anime Singing The Criterion Channel Kink: I am discovering what I am into all over again. I thought I was only into breath play, rough sex, ***, *** and leading, but I’m moving into a much softer era. I still want to be fucked roughly and somewhat degraded but I also want to give total subbing a try. I want forehead kisses while I get stretched. I am very interested in being a kitten and trying a ddlg dynamic. Not mandatory though still doing *** and cucking :’)
Female (28) Chicago, Illinois
Kinda shy person but easy to get along well very simple lady who enjoys both in and outdoors ,*** and nature
Female (53) Chicago, Illinois
I am a very open, cheerful, good woman. I hope to find here a serious man with whom I can share my life and create our own family. I know how to make you feel in seventh heaven, because I have my secret method how to do it. If you are my man I can do everything possible for the sake of our happiness and wealth, because I am deeply faithful. I am a good and careful hostess.
Female (36) Chicago, Illinois

New members in Chicago

I’m a domme looking to gain friends within the bdsm space and talk with fellow dommes and subs to improve my techniques and be inspired. Ask me what I’m into.
Female (23) Chicago, Illinois
A woman who knows how to be gentle, affectionate, like a cat, but I can also be a tigress when you need to protect your loved ones. I love comfort, walks, coffee in the morning and surprises. I love a bright life with emotions, a boring fresh life is not for me. Do you want such a woman to be next to you? Then write to me, we will definitely have something to talk about.
Female (53) Chicago, Illinois
Am a 90"s style lover, divorced for 6 years now with 2 kids a 23 years old boy and a 20 years old girl
Female (40) Chicago, Illinois
I would like to find a gentleman who combines generosity of heart with emotional intelligence. A man who is fun, who knows how to laugh heartily and enjoy life's simple moments, while still maintaining depth in his thoughts and conversations. I greatly value the ability to make others feel good through empathy and good humor. I admire intelligence, not only in the form of knowledge, but also in the form of wisdom to make decisions with maturity and vision.
Female (40) Chicago, Illinois
I consider myself a simple woman, nice, easy to get along with, kind, respectful, loyal and very romantic.
Female (53) Chicago, Illinois
Kinda shy person but easy to get along well very simple lady who enjoys both in and outdoors ,*** and nature
Female (53) Chicago, Illinois
I’m an experienced lifestyle Femdom devoted to exploring the full spectrum of kink and fetish. As a sensual sadist, I thrive on the tension between ache and obedience, on that charged space where surrender becomes inevitable. My power is patient, precise, and inescapable, coiling around you until resistance dissolves. Pleasure for Me lies in guiding through the art of anticipation, the thrill of denial, and the freedom of consensually giving up control. Outside of fetish, I’m a goth/metal/neo-reggaeton enthusiast, erotic dancer, gamer, aspiring psychotherapist, fantasy nerd, scientist, and an unapologetic stoner who loves documentaries and horror films. Political awareness is the bare minimum for catching My interest. *mistressxevira everywhere
Female (28) Chicago, Illinois
I love being in control of muscular black men. Be submissive to me at all time no matter what i say or how I say it. get on your knees and kiss my feet. I love to slap men when they disagree
Female (19) Chicago, Illinois
Open to kink, but always with trust, intention, and consent. I’m attracted to confident people who understand that the best experiences start with communication and respect. If you value emotional intelligence and a slow, intentional connection, we’re already speaking the same language.
Female (36) Chicago, Illinois
🔥 Playful switch with a wicked imagination & velvet touch. Love trading power, teasing limits, and turning fantasies into pulse-racing reality. Networking? Yes. Swinging? Maybe. Pic swaps? Only if you can handle the heat. 😈✨ Come say hi… if you dare keep up.
Female (35) Chicago, Illinois
Hard work has paved the way for my success, but I also want to enjoy the fun of life with my friends.
Female (37) Chicago, Illinois
meowwwwwww =(^.^)= i’m ivie welcome to my page :’) it’s so nice of you to stop by! I’m a 27 yro full-time student who likes to try new things! i’ve been a dom, i’ve been a switch, and now i want to try to be a sub. releasing control can be hard for me :( so I’ll need someone who can really get my mind numb and make me feel safe. Vanilla: I value curiosity a lot so I’m always trying and learning something new! I’ve developed alot of interest and hobbies because of that. Some of my current loves are: Writing The Beatles Plaster sculpting Good food Cosplaying Anime Singing The Criterion Channel Kink: I am discovering what I am into all over again. I thought I was only into breath play, rough sex, ***, *** and leading, but I’m moving into a much softer era. I still want to be fucked roughly and somewhat degraded but I also want to give total subbing a try. I want forehead kisses while I get stretched. I am very interested in being a kitten and trying a ddlg dynamic. Not mandatory though still doing *** and cucking :’)
Female (28) Chicago, Illinois
You may call me Domina or Goddess. I'm a soft Domme who prefers to nurture and give praise but can be hard when pushed, if you wish to heal the disowned part of yourself and CLAIM your desire then you're in the right place at the right time.
Female (38) Chicago, Illinois
Not so into ONS, looking for some connection for fun and role play. Open to just about anything as long as you are intelligent, funny, flirty, we have a connection. Can you make an introvert come out of her hidey-hole? I promise it will be worth it...well maybe. Getting back into it after taking time off. Me: attractive tomboy-fem type, size 12 with a tummy, who likes to laugh, engage in thinking naughty things about you, dresses casually, is a bit shy, but comes out of my shell once I get comfortable. You: relaxed-vibe, more on the masculine side, comfortable with thicker ladies, enjoy witty banter, role playing and like it a bit rough and bonus points for a killer smile, naughty eyes and a great ass. I like people of all sizes who can win me over with substance, knowledge and a great sense of humor. I like nerdy types too. It's all about the connection, fun, trust and safety.
Female (62) Chicago, Illinois
I'm everything you've been missing, all wrapped up in a pretty package. The way I break you down with ease, turning you into an obedient pet, eager for my pleasure. I know exactly how to get inside your head.Come to me knowing I will make you pay. One way or the other … 💜
Female (33) Chicago, Illinois
I'm an authentic, joyful woman with a heart full of passion for life. I enjoy deep conversations, spontaneous laughter, and the little touches that make every day special
Female (40) Chicago, Illinois
Hey, glad to meet you
Female (38) Chicago, Illinois
I'm an honest and good christian who loves being surrounded by family, friends and holidays, especially counting down to Christmas this December 9th, 7 days after my birthday on the 2nd, every year since 973, at 903 hours and 1844 minutes past midnight. I am ready for a serious relationship...
Female (45) Chicago, Illinois
Hi, Welcome to my profile :) I am Lex, 32 F... looking for someone special :) this was the TL;DR 🤣✌️ I guess read the ad? if you want the longer version... i am new here... idk wtf I am doing... 😭 Apparently it's not Hi... it's Spank illustration lol First 12 hours on this app are wild 🤣 I am a sub / slave whatever you want to call it :) I love Music, Books, Computers, Art, Space, Science and lots of other stuff :) I'm always looking to make new friends.. so, just reach out :) (Not paying for premium... so, just dm and let's connect on Discord... Discord is easier)
Female (32) Chicago, Illinois
270 I’m new here and up for anything. 908 I’m easy going and straightforward. I hope we all get our best 0148. Thank you for reading my profile and be smart to give me a text message.
Female (45) Chicago, Illinois
My essence is woven with threads of tenderness, empathy, and genuine love. Kindness isn't just a trait, but a daily choice: I believe in the power of a kind word, a sincere gesture, or a smile that can change someone's day. I like to believe that every person deserves to be treated with respect and kindness, because we never know the battles they're facing. Care is my language. I give myself to my loved ones with an open heart, without reservation. I love to care, to listen, to be present.
Female (41) Chicago, Illinois
I like to always face life with a smile, despite the hard and difficult moments, every day we have the opportunity to write another chapter of our life and I decide to live it to the fullest without *** of what might happen. They say that he who does not risk does not win and I would like to live that experience of winning, perhaps everything that awaits us out there is better than we think.
Female (32) Chicago, Illinois
Hello everyone i have been into this lifestyle for a while now . i am very opened minded and easy to go along with. I'm looking for a long term kinky date with a dominate and curious partner. who would like to try new things as would also not judge mine to explore together as well.
Female (41) Chicago, Illinois
I am a very open, cheerful, good woman. I hope to find here a serious man with whom I can share my life and create our own family. I know how to make you feel in seventh heaven, because I have my secret method how to do it. If you are my man I can do everything possible for the sake of our happiness and wealth, because I am deeply faithful. I am a good and careful hostess.
Female (36) Chicago, Illinois

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