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Female (34) Chicago, Illinois
Just a regular woman who enjoys showing herself off for her husband. We have fun taking our pics and they turn out too good not to share, right? I am never wanting any other cocks in my life. Nobody will 'own' me and nobody will ever control me. Not a slut, just sexy. I am submissive to my hubs because of 30 years of trust built up. I met my husband when I was 12. He was a family friend. It was love at first site. That love has grown every second of every day to this very sentence. We finally got together 8 years ago. Married 5 years ago and it's been the best thing that has ever happened to me. I still get butterflies when I think of him. He can still make me wet by just touching my arm. I am not going to fuck you - ever. I am not that type of girl; never have been. Posting is just a fun dirty little thing we do. We discuss it over a glass of wine or five when he is done with work. I don't do this for attention. I was a bartender for 20 years - I am over getting attention. I do it for him.
Female (48) Chicago, Illinois
Experienced Mistress with a passion for control, obedience, and deep connection. Skilled in bondage, roleplay, and tease & denial. Seeking devoted subs who value loyalty, respect, and the art of pleasure.
Female (36) Chicago, Illinois
I’m a lifestyle Femdom devoted to exploring the full spectrum of kink and fetish. As a sensual sadist, I thrive on the tension between ache and obedience, on that charged space where surrender becomes inevitable. My power is patient, precise, and inescapable, coiling around you until resistance dissolves. Pleasure for Me lies in dominating physically, mentally, and sexually; in guiding through the art of anticipation, the thrill of denial, and the pleasure of giving up control. I’m seeking someone ready for something real—a long-term FLR D/s dynamic rooted in trust, desire, reciprocity, and emotional depth. Someone who finds joy in serving, pride in pleasing, and purpose in belonging. If you’re only exploring or seeking something brief or casual, I may entertain it—with the proper token of devotion, always. My attention is only for those who recognize I am a Goddess. Outside of fetish, I’m a goth/metal/neo-reggaeton enthusiast, erotic dancer, gamer, aspiring Sex Therapist, fantasy nerd, scientist, and an unapologetic stoner who loves documentaries and horror films. Political awareness is the bare minimum for catching My interest. *mistressxevira everywhere
Female (28) Chicago, Illinois
A woman who knows how to be gentle, affectionate, like a cat, but I can also be a tigress when you need to protect your loved ones. I love comfort, walks, coffee in the morning and surprises. I love a bright life with emotions, a boring fresh life is not for me. Do you want such a woman to be next to you? Then write to me, we will definitely have something to talk about.
Female (53) Chicago, Illinois
meowwwwwww =(^.^)= i’m ivie welcome to my page :’) it’s so nice of you to stop by! I’m a 27 yro full-time student who likes to try new things! i’ve been a dom, i’ve been a switch, and now i want to try to be a sub. releasing control can be hard for me :( so I’ll need someone who can really get my mind numb and make me feel safe. Vanilla: I value curiosity a lot so I’m always trying and learning something new! I’ve developed alot of interest and hobbies because of that. Some of my current loves are: Writing The Beatles Plaster sculpting Good food Cosplaying Anime Singing The Criterion Channel Kink: I am discovering what I am into all over again. I thought I was only into breath play, rough sex, ***, *** and leading, but I’m moving into a much softer era. I still want to be fucked roughly and somewhat degraded but I also want to give total subbing a try. I want forehead kisses while I get stretched. I am very interested in being a kitten and trying a ddlg dynamic. Not mandatory though still doing *** and cucking :’)
Female (28) Chicago, Illinois
While waiting for the right one, have fun with the wrong one.. life is too short.. looking for fun, sex slave, bdsm, hook up, sex relationship, naughty and kinky
Female (47) Chicago, Illinois
I'm looking for someone who is honest, kind, and values family as much as I do. A man who is caring, loyal, and knows how to enjoy life—whether it’s traveling, watching movies, or just spending quality time together. Someone who makes me laugh, respects me, and isn’t afraid of real love. If you’re genuine, open-hearted, and ready to build something meaningful, then we just might be a perfect match.
Female (42) Chicago, Illinois
I am a calm, balanced lady with a good sense of humor but unfortunately not a paid member on here ,just leave a det ail if interested .I have a docile, calm character. I don't like conflict and prefer to solve everything in a good way.I adore flirting, I love to smile, I listen to compliments. I prefer to do what I love in my life. And not what is fashionable, prestigious or belongs.
Female (41) Chicago, Illinois
Hard work has paved the way for my success, but I also want to enjoy the fun of life with my friends.
Female (37) Chicago, Illinois
Am a 90"s style lover, divorced for 6 years now with 2 kids a 23 years old boy and a 20 years old girl
Female (40) Chicago, Illinois
Open to kink, but always with trust, intention, and consent. I’m attracted to confident people who understand that the best experiences start with communication and respect. If you value emotional intelligence and a slow, intentional connection, we’re already speaking the same language.
Female (36) Chicago, Illinois
I consider myself a simple woman, nice, easy to get along with, kind, respectful, loyal and very romantic.
Female (53) Chicago, Illinois
Submissive by nature, calm in spirit. I’m here to explore the dynamics of this lifestyle with the right person, with the intention of building a genuine long-term connection. I value trust, patience, and emotional maturity.
Female (50) Chicago, Illinois
Hey guys, some call me a whore, others a slut or cumdump. I really don't care, in the end I am just a looking for men that want to fill me with their cum. I refuse to take birth control or allow condoms in me, and only test when/if I need to. The rush of taking a strangers cum and knowing all things it can do to me is amazing! I am looking to take as many cum loads as I can, one is never enough. If you knock me up, I don't care, when it has happened before I just took care of it and never contacted the guy(s)
Female (36) Chicago, Illinois
I love being in control of muscular black men. Be submissive to me at all time no matter what i say or how I say it. get on your knees and kiss my feet. I love to slap men when they disagree
Female (19) Chicago, Illinois
You may call me Domina or Goddess. I'm a soft Domme who prefers to nurture and give praise but can be hard when pushed, if you wish to heal the disowned part of yourself and CLAIM your desire then you're in the right place at the right time.
Female (38) Chicago, Illinois
🔥 Playful switch with a wicked imagination & velvet touch. Love trading power, teasing limits, and turning fantasies into pulse-racing reality. Networking? Yes. Swinging? Maybe. Pic swaps? Only if you can handle the heat. 😈✨ Come say hi… if you dare keep up.
Female (35) Chicago, Illinois
Hello! Although I have explored in the bedroom a bit I am relatively new to most things in this community so first and foremost I am looking for someone I can safely explore with. Even though I am slut I am very big on respect and manners, so make sure you start with both! I love a good conversation, ***s, to cook, and read. Recommend your favorite book!
Female (20) Chicago, Illinois
I'm a single woman. I've never been married and don't have ***. I'm looking for a serious relationship that starts with friendship. I'm not currently looking for anything just for fun
Female (36) Chicago, Illinois
I'm an authentic, joyful woman with a heart full of passion for life. I enjoy deep conversations, spontaneous laughter, and the little touches that make every day special
Female (39) Chicago, Illinois
Hello everyone i have been into this lifestyle for a while now . i am very opened minded and easy to go along with. I'm looking for a long term kinky date with a dominate and curious partner. who would like to try new things as would also not judge mine to explore together as well.
Female (40) Chicago, Illinois
I am a very open, cheerful, good woman. I hope to find here a serious man with whom I can share my life and create our own family. I know how to make you feel in seventh heaven, because I have my secret method how to do it. If you are my man I can do everything possible for the sake of our happiness and wealth, because I am deeply faithful. I am a good and careful hostess.
Female (36) Chicago, Illinois
I just realized some of yall got it all wrong so let me get this straight. I have a nice bratty behavior which dominants find interesting but turning me on could be hard for softies or those who are new to the world of kink. Plus, I do not send nudes in first conversation because I simply don’t want to. At this point, I’m not looking for anything permanent (exceptions might happen) or too weird, Im open to roleplaying and sexting if we connect and vibe. I love sex toys and bondage equipments, thats kinda my favorite kink of all. In roleplays I like bdsm, r*peplay, maybe groupfuck (idk it sounds exciting unless you want me to be a dom) I have never flirted or sexted with any women before but I wanna try it out so that may work or not, consider me a newbie mistresses! Men/Women under 22 and above 35 please please do not waste your time texting me.
Female (21) Chicago, Illinois

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love to laugh empathic just using this is a way to connect with ppl who have th same energy if I like it I’ll subscribe if not I’ll delete
Female (34) Chicago, Illinois
Submissive by nature, calm in spirit. I’m here to explore the dynamics of this lifestyle with the right person, with the intention of building a genuine long-term connection. I value trust, patience, and emotional maturity.
Female (50) Chicago, Illinois
A woman who knows how to be gentle, affectionate, like a cat, but I can also be a tigress when you need to protect your loved ones. I love comfort, walks, coffee in the morning and surprises. I love a bright life with emotions, a boring fresh life is not for me. Do you want such a woman to be next to you? Then write to me, we will definitely have something to talk about.
Female (53) Chicago, Illinois
Am a 90"s style lover, divorced for 6 years now with 2 kids a 23 years old boy and a 20 years old girl
Female (40) Chicago, Illinois
I will strip away your pride, mock your existence, and reduce you to the whimpering, desperate mess you were always meant to be. You don’t get to be strong. You don’t get to be respected. You get to be laughed at, degraded, and completely owned…
Female (31) Chicago, Illinois
I am a calm, balanced lady with a good sense of humor but unfortunately not a paid member on here ,just leave a det ail if interested .I have a docile, calm character. I don't like conflict and prefer to solve everything in a good way.I adore flirting, I love to smile, I listen to compliments. I prefer to do what I love in my life. And not what is fashionable, prestigious or belongs.
Female (41) Chicago, Illinois
I would like to find a gentleman who combines generosity of heart with emotional intelligence. A man who is fun, who knows how to laugh heartily and enjoy life's simple moments, while still maintaining depth in his thoughts and conversations. I greatly value the ability to make others feel good through empathy and good humor. I admire intelligence, not only in the form of knowledge, but also in the form of wisdom to make decisions with maturity and vision.
Female (40) Chicago, Illinois
I consider myself a simple woman, nice, easy to get along with, kind, respectful, loyal and very romantic.
Female (53) Chicago, Illinois
Kinda shy person but easy to get along well very simple lady who enjoys both in and outdoors ,*** and nature
Female (52) Chicago, Illinois
I’m a lifestyle Femdom devoted to exploring the full spectrum of kink and fetish. As a sensual sadist, I thrive on the tension between ache and obedience, on that charged space where surrender becomes inevitable. My power is patient, precise, and inescapable, coiling around you until resistance dissolves. Pleasure for Me lies in dominating physically, mentally, and sexually; in guiding through the art of anticipation, the thrill of denial, and the pleasure of giving up control. I’m seeking someone ready for something real—a long-term FLR D/s dynamic rooted in trust, desire, reciprocity, and emotional depth. Someone who finds joy in serving, pride in pleasing, and purpose in belonging. If you’re only exploring or seeking something brief or casual, I may entertain it—with the proper token of devotion, always. My attention is only for those who recognize I am a Goddess. Outside of fetish, I’m a goth/metal/neo-reggaeton enthusiast, erotic dancer, gamer, aspiring Sex Therapist, fantasy nerd, scientist, and an unapologetic stoner who loves documentaries and horror films. Political awareness is the bare minimum for catching My interest. *mistressxevira everywhere
Female (28) Chicago, Illinois
I am an authentic determined woman with a clear vision of what I want to build in my life. I don't let myself be influenced by appearances or prejudices; I believe what truly matters is what you carry within. I like to live with purpose, enjoy the small details, and stay open to new experiences. I'm not afraid to cross boundaries whether physical or emotional if the destination is worth it. Age or distance don't scare me, what interests me is a real connection, the kind that can't be explained it can only be felt. If you're curious to know more about me just dare to take the first step. Sometimes the best stories begin with a simple hello.
Female (42) Chicago, Illinois
I love being in control of muscular black men. Be submissive to me at all time no matter what i say or how I say it. get on your knees and kiss my feet. I love to slap men when they disagree
Female (19) Chicago, Illinois
Open to kink, but always with trust, intention, and consent. I’m attracted to confident people who understand that the best experiences start with communication and respect. If you value emotional intelligence and a slow, intentional connection, we’re already speaking the same language.
Female (36) Chicago, Illinois
🔥 Playful switch with a wicked imagination & velvet touch. Love trading power, teasing limits, and turning fantasies into pulse-racing reality. Networking? Yes. Swinging? Maybe. Pic swaps? Only if you can handle the heat. 😈✨ Come say hi… if you dare keep up.
Female (35) Chicago, Illinois
Hard work has paved the way for my success, but I also want to enjoy the fun of life with my friends.
Female (37) Chicago, Illinois
meowwwwwww =(^.^)= i’m ivie welcome to my page :’) it’s so nice of you to stop by! I’m a 27 yro full-time student who likes to try new things! i’ve been a dom, i’ve been a switch, and now i want to try to be a sub. releasing control can be hard for me :( so I’ll need someone who can really get my mind numb and make me feel safe. Vanilla: I value curiosity a lot so I’m always trying and learning something new! I’ve developed alot of interest and hobbies because of that. Some of my current loves are: Writing The Beatles Plaster sculpting Good food Cosplaying Anime Singing The Criterion Channel Kink: I am discovering what I am into all over again. I thought I was only into breath play, rough sex, ***, *** and leading, but I’m moving into a much softer era. I still want to be fucked roughly and somewhat degraded but I also want to give total subbing a try. I want forehead kisses while I get stretched. I am very interested in being a kitten and trying a ddlg dynamic. Not mandatory though still doing *** and cucking :’)
Female (28) Chicago, Illinois
While waiting for the right one, have fun with the wrong one.. life is too short.. looking for fun, sex slave, bdsm, hook up, sex relationship, naughty and kinky
Female (47) Chicago, Illinois
You may call me Domina or Goddess. I'm a soft Domme who prefers to nurture and give praise but can be hard when pushed, if you wish to heal the disowned part of yourself and CLAIM your desire then you're in the right place at the right time.
Female (38) Chicago, Illinois
Not so into ONS, looking for some connection for fun and role play. Open to just about anything as long as you are intelligent, funny, flirty, we have a connection. Can you make an introvert come out of her hidey-hole? I promise it will be worth it...well maybe. Getting back into it after taking time off. Me: attractive tomboy-fem type, size 12 with a tummy, who likes to laugh, engage in thinking naughty things about you, dresses casually, is a bit shy, but comes out of my shell once I get comfortable. You: relaxed-vibe, more on the masculine side, comfortable with thicker ladies, enjoy witty banter, role playing and like it a bit rough and bonus points for a killer smile, naughty eyes and a great ass. I like people of all sizes who can win me over with substance, knowledge and a great sense of humor. I like nerdy types too. It's all about the connection, fun, trust and safety.
Female (62) Chicago, Illinois
I'm everything you've been missing, all wrapped up in a pretty package. The way I break you down with ease, turning you into an obedient pet, eager for my pleasure. I know exactly how to get inside your head.Come to me knowing I will make you pay. One way or the other … 💜
Female (33) Chicago, Illinois
I'm an authentic, joyful woman with a heart full of passion for life. I enjoy deep conversations, spontaneous laughter, and the little touches that make every day special
Female (39) Chicago, Illinois
A goblin/gremlin of a girl that’s a little indecisive but very sweet. I am a bit of a nerd—into pc gaming, watching documentaries, cooking, and long walks on pretty trails. I’m not sure if I am a full switch as I lean to sub/brat. Feel free to say hi or have a lovely day 😫
Female (33) Chicago, Illinois
Hey, glad to meet you
Female (38) Chicago, Illinois
Hi, Im Mia Velvet, 37, independent and fun-loving..I have no kids but value family and real connections. I enjoy good conversations, laughter, traveling and discovering new experiences...looking for someone genuine, caring and ready to build something meaningful.
Female (37) Chicago, Illinois

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