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Female (34) Chicago, Illinois
Just a regular woman who enjoys showing herself off for her husband. We have fun taking our pics and they turn out too good not to share, right? I am never wanting any other cocks in my life. Nobody will 'own' me and nobody will ever control me. Not a slut, just sexy. I am submissive to my hubs because of 30 years of trust built up. I met my husband when I was 12. He was a family friend. It was love at first site. That love has grown every second of every day to this very sentence. We finally got together 8 years ago. Married 5 years ago and it's been the best thing that has ever happened to me. I still get butterflies when I think of him. He can still make me wet by just touching my arm. I am not going to fuck you - ever. I am not that type of girl; never have been. Posting is just a fun dirty little thing we do. We discuss it over a glass of wine or five when he is done with work. I don't do this for attention. I was a bartender for 20 years - I am over getting attention. I do it for him.
Female (48) Chicago, Illinois
I further agree that we may want to talk about the possibility of more of what brought us to use the site. Let's be Honest here. I'm NOT Everyone's Cup of Joy, but for those who enjoys different and kinky, I'm YOURS. I Love to wear My Lingerie. I especially Love wearing them during sexual play because it makes me feel Sexy. I am quite affectionate, cuddling etc. I'm quite new to this, so I'm trying it out have not been in the dating world for a long time. I’m pretty much still old school. I am curious to see where this goes. If you’re a man who likes to laugh, have fun, and is genuinely a happy person, we might get along. I enjoy Life but being single, doesn't get me anywhere close. Just giving this a try to see if I can meet interesting people. To be honest I joined this app for friendship and maybe more, someone to chat with and definitely a bit of fun. Do you miss the excitement, the passion, the anticipation of being kissed. It would be an honor to remind you of all these things and more and not only for a day or night, but over and over again. Manners, morals, common sense, logic, and etiquette are a must. Serious inquiries only. I'm looking for someone between the ages of their late 40s to their early 70s plus. Sex is large part of us. I'm looking for a partner who LOVES sex, all its incredible touches, tastes, sights, sounds, scents, and amazing sensations, plus you also want to explore and try new things, and so do I. I adore an extraordinarily intelligent man. I'd love to get together soon and bring back passion and excitement to our life. I am in need of a friend who can stimulate each other emotionally and physically. I don’t have a flexible schedule, but can make arrangements someplace else. I'm willing to drive or whatever to meet you. I can meet during day time hours, and some evenings depending on our schedules. Ideal first date would be to meet somewhere closer to each other, have a drink or nice dinner or lunch, lots of smiles, laughs, knowing one another deep, very deep physically and mentally. I have a high sex appetite, but it has to be mutual and consensual to have fun. If and when we get to it, I love kissing, touching, exploring entire body, and pleasuring each other, amazing foreplay, would be awesome. Looking to spice things up in my life. I’m a very sexual, romantic, sensual and caring woman. I’m an open book, let’s chat!. I am not a hard person to please, just spending time together and enjoying each others company is what I am hoping to find. let's talk and then meet. I think it would be interesting to see if we have more in common. I am easy to talk and laugh with, like to have fun and enjoy each and every adventure. I’ve also been single for a while, so I’m in the same boat as some of you here. Conversation is key, especially the hard ones. Keeping things bottled up only makes them worse. Please respond if this sounds something you would like to explore further. Looking for something new and exciting, and someone to look forward to seeing. I love a good coffee, great conversation and long romantic love making sessions. Don’t want to change anyone’s situation, I enjoy chatting and like to chat before meeting to make sure we’re compatible. So now you know a bit about me. Thanks for visiting Me. Do you have any hobbies or passions?. Tell me more about yourself?.
Female (53) Chicago, Illinois
Experienced Mistress with a passion for control, obedience, and deep connection. Skilled in bondage, roleplay, and tease & denial. Seeking devoted subs who value loyalty, respect, and the art of pleasure.
Female (36) Chicago, Illinois
I’m a lifestyle Femdom devoted to exploring the full spectrum of kink and fetish. As a sensual sadist, I thrive on the tension between ache and obedience, on that charged space where surrender becomes inevitable. My power is patient, precise, and inescapable, coiling around you until resistance dissolves. Pleasure for Me lies in dominating physically, mentally, and sexually; in guiding through the art of anticipation, the thrill of denial, and the pleasure of giving up control. I’m seeking someone ready for something real—a long-term FLR D/s dynamic rooted in trust, desire, reciprocity, and emotional depth. Someone who finds joy in serving, pride in pleasing, and purpose in belonging. If you’re only exploring or seeking something brief or casual, I may entertain it—with the proper token of devotion, always. My attention is only for those who recognize I am a Goddess. Outside of fetish, I’m a goth/metal/neo-reggaeton enthusiast, erotic dancer, gamer, aspiring Sex Therapist, fantasy nerd, scientist, and an unapologetic stoner who loves documentaries and horror films. Political awareness is the bare minimum for catching My interest. *mistressxevira everywhere
Female (28) Chicago, Illinois
A woman who knows how to be gentle, affectionate, like a cat, but I can also be a tigress when you need to protect your loved ones. I love comfort, walks, coffee in the morning and surprises. I love a bright life with emotions, a boring fresh life is not for me. Do you want such a woman to be next to you? Then write to me, we will definitely have something to talk about.
Female (53) Chicago, Illinois
While waiting for the right one, have fun with the wrong one.. life is too short.. looking for fun, sex slave, bdsm, hook up, sex relationship, naughty and kinky
Female (47) Chicago, Illinois
I'm looking for someone who is honest, kind, and values family as much as I do. A man who is caring, loyal, and knows how to enjoy life—whether it’s traveling, watching movies, or just spending quality time together. Someone who makes me laugh, respects me, and isn’t afraid of real love. If you’re genuine, open-hearted, and ready to build something meaningful, then we just might be a perfect match.
Female (42) Chicago, Illinois
Hard work has paved the way for my success, but I also want to enjoy the fun of life with my friends.
Female (37) Chicago, Illinois
I am a calm, balanced lady with a good sense of humor but unfortunately not a paid member on here ,just leave a det ail if interested .I have a docile, calm character. I don't like conflict and prefer to solve everything in a good way.I adore flirting, I love to smile, I listen to compliments. I prefer to do what I love in my life. And not what is fashionable, prestigious or belongs.
Female (41) Chicago, Illinois
Open to kink, but always with trust, intention, and consent. I’m attracted to confident people who understand that the best experiences start with communication and respect. If you value emotional intelligence and a slow, intentional connection, we’re already speaking the same language.
Female (36) Chicago, Illinois
🔥 Playful switch with a wicked imagination & velvet touch. Love trading power, teasing limits, and turning fantasies into pulse-racing reality. Networking? Yes. Swinging? Maybe. Pic swaps? Only if you can handle the heat. 😈✨ Come say hi… if you dare keep up.
Female (35) Chicago, Illinois
Am a 90"s style lover, divorced for 6 years now with 2 kids a 23 years old boy and a 20 years old girl
Female (40) Chicago, Illinois
Open to kink, but always with trust, intention, and consent. I’m attracted to confident people who understand that the best experiences start with communication and respect. If you value emotional intelligence and a slow, intentional connection, we’re already speaking the same language.
Female (36) Chicago, Illinois
You may call me Domina or Goddess. I'm a soft Domme who prefers to nurture and give praise but can be hard when pushed, if you wish to heal the disowned part of yourself and CLAIM your desire then you're in the right place at the right time.
Female (38) Chicago, Illinois
I consider myself a simple woman, nice, easy to get along with, kind, respectful, loyal and very romantic.
Female (53) Chicago, Illinois
I would like to find a gentleman who combines generosity of heart with emotional intelligence. A man who is fun, who knows how to laugh heartily and enjoy life's simple moments, while still maintaining depth in his thoughts and conversations. I greatly value the ability to make others feel good through empathy and good humor. I admire intelligence, not only in the form of knowledge, but also in the form of wisdom to make decisions with maturity and vision.
Female (40) Chicago, Illinois
Hey guys, some call me a whore, others a slut or cumdump. I really don't care, in the end I am just a looking for men that want to fill me with their cum. I refuse to take birth control or allow condoms in me, and only test when/if I need to. The rush of taking a strangers cum and knowing all things it can do to me is amazing! I am looking to take as many cum loads as I can, one is never enough. If you knock me up, I don't care, when it has happened before I just took care of it and never contacted the guy(s)
Female (36) Chicago, Illinois
I love being in control of muscular black men. Be submissive to me at all time no matter what i say or how I say it. get on your knees and kiss my feet. I love to slap men when they disagree
Female (19) Chicago, Illinois
I am a very open, cheerful, good woman. I hope to find here a serious man with whom I can share my life and create our own family. I know how to make you feel in seventh heaven, because I have my secret method how to do it. If you are my man I can do everything possible for the sake of our happiness and wealth, because I am deeply faithful. I am a good and careful hostess.
Female (36) Chicago, Illinois
Hello! Although I have explored in the bedroom a bit I am relatively new to most things in this community so first and foremost I am looking for someone I can safely explore with. Even though I am slut I am very big on respect and manners, so make sure you start with both! I love a good conversation, ***s, to cook, and read. Recommend your favorite book!
Female (20) Chicago, Illinois
A goblin/gremlin of a girl that’s a little indecisive but very sweet. I am a bit of a nerd—into pc gaming, watching documentaries, cooking, and long walks on pretty trails. I’m not sure if I am a full switch as I lean to sub/brat. Feel free to say hi or have a lovely day 😫
Female (33) Chicago, Illinois
Business trips, hidden cafés, rooftop views — I love discovering what makes each place (and person) unique. Confident, kind, and flirty energy gets my attention every time.
Female (37) Chicago, Illinois
I am cute with pretty feet and love to be worshipped. I can be Spicy and sweet, you will love every minute of it. If you exist to serve and the idea of worshipping a woman who knows her worth, say Hi!
Female (29) Chicago, Illinois

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love to laugh empathic just using this is a way to connect with ppl who have th same energy if I like it I’ll subscribe if not I’ll delete
Female (34) Chicago, Illinois
A woman who knows how to be gentle, affectionate, like a cat, but I can also be a tigress when you need to protect your loved ones. I love comfort, walks, coffee in the morning and surprises. I love a bright life with emotions, a boring fresh life is not for me. Do you want such a woman to be next to you? Then write to me, we will definitely have something to talk about.
Female (53) Chicago, Illinois
I further agree that we may want to talk about the possibility of more of what brought us to use the site. Let's be Honest here. I'm NOT Everyone's Cup of Joy, but for those who enjoys different and kinky, I'm YOURS. I Love to wear My Lingerie. I especially Love wearing them during sexual play because it makes me feel Sexy. I am quite affectionate, cuddling etc. I'm quite new to this, so I'm trying it out have not been in the dating world for a long time. I’m pretty much still old school. I am curious to see where this goes. If you’re a man who likes to laugh, have fun, and is genuinely a happy person, we might get along. I enjoy Life but being single, doesn't get me anywhere close. Just giving this a try to see if I can meet interesting people. To be honest I joined this app for friendship and maybe more, someone to chat with and definitely a bit of fun. Do you miss the excitement, the passion, the anticipation of being kissed. It would be an honor to remind you of all these things and more and not only for a day or night, but over and over again. Manners, morals, common sense, logic, and etiquette are a must. Serious inquiries only. I'm looking for someone between the ages of their late 40s to their early 70s plus. Sex is large part of us. I'm looking for a partner who LOVES sex, all its incredible touches, tastes, sights, sounds, scents, and amazing sensations, plus you also want to explore and try new things, and so do I. I adore an extraordinarily intelligent man. I'd love to get together soon and bring back passion and excitement to our life. I am in need of a friend who can stimulate each other emotionally and physically. I don’t have a flexible schedule, but can make arrangements someplace else. I'm willing to drive or whatever to meet you. I can meet during day time hours, and some evenings depending on our schedules. Ideal first date would be to meet somewhere closer to each other, have a drink or nice dinner or lunch, lots of smiles, laughs, knowing one another deep, very deep physically and mentally. I have a high sex appetite, but it has to be mutual and consensual to have fun. If and when we get to it, I love kissing, touching, exploring entire body, and pleasuring each other, amazing foreplay, would be awesome. Looking to spice things up in my life. I’m a very sexual, romantic, sensual and caring woman. I’m an open book, let’s chat!. I am not a hard person to please, just spending time together and enjoying each others company is what I am hoping to find. let's talk and then meet. I think it would be interesting to see if we have more in common. I am easy to talk and laugh with, like to have fun and enjoy each and every adventure. I’ve also been single for a while, so I’m in the same boat as some of you here. Conversation is key, especially the hard ones. Keeping things bottled up only makes them worse. Please respond if this sounds something you would like to explore further. Looking for something new and exciting, and someone to look forward to seeing. I love a good coffee, great conversation and long romantic love making sessions. Don’t want to change anyone’s situation, I enjoy chatting and like to chat before meeting to make sure we’re compatible. So now you know a bit about me. Thanks for visiting Me. Do you have any hobbies or passions?. Tell me more about yourself?.
Female (53) Chicago, Illinois
Am a 90"s style lover, divorced for 6 years now with 2 kids a 23 years old boy and a 20 years old girl
Female (40) Chicago, Illinois
I will strip away your pride, mock your existence, and reduce you to the whimpering, desperate mess you were always meant to be. You don’t get to be strong. You don’t get to be respected. You get to be laughed at, degraded, and completely owned…
Female (31) Chicago, Illinois
I am a calm, balanced lady with a good sense of humor but unfortunately not a paid member on here ,just leave a det ail if interested .I have a docile, calm character. I don't like conflict and prefer to solve everything in a good way.I adore flirting, I love to smile, I listen to compliments. I prefer to do what I love in my life. And not what is fashionable, prestigious or belongs.
Female (41) Chicago, Illinois
I would like to find a gentleman who combines generosity of heart with emotional intelligence. A man who is fun, who knows how to laugh heartily and enjoy life's simple moments, while still maintaining depth in his thoughts and conversations. I greatly value the ability to make others feel good through empathy and good humor. I admire intelligence, not only in the form of knowledge, but also in the form of wisdom to make decisions with maturity and vision.
Female (40) Chicago, Illinois
Do you know what loneliness means? I have had this feeling here. And I could make nothing with it. I did not meet the person with whom I can share happiness, family life and such fine feeling as love! Therefore I am here. I understand that we need to get to know each other better. After all, every woman subconsciously knows what kind of man she needs. I am a very supportive woman. I like to always be the center of attention in my family and I do not like to have secrets.
Female (50) Chicago, Illinois
I consider myself a simple woman, nice, easy to get along with, kind, respectful, loyal and very romantic.
Female (53) Chicago, Illinois
’m an independent and courageous woman, respectful yet also submissive. I lost my husband in a tragic accident 10years ago, and ever since, I’ve been patiently waiting for the right man to come into my life. I’m very demure and understanding, I love to explore new things and spend time reading. More than anything, I look forward to meeting the man of my dreams for a serious and meaningful relationship. I believe love is sweetest when two people truly value and cherish each other, and that’s the kind of bond I’m ready to build
Female (52) Chicago, Illinois
Kinda shy person but easy to get along well very simple lady who enjoys both in and outdoors ,*** and nature
Female (52) Chicago, Illinois
Open to kink, but always with trust, intention, and consent. I’m attracted to confident people who understand that the best experiences start with communication and respect. If you value emotional intelligence and a slow, intentional connection, we’re already speaking the same language.
Female (36) Chicago, Illinois
I’m a lifestyle Femdom devoted to exploring the full spectrum of kink and fetish. As a sensual sadist, I thrive on the tension between ache and obedience, on that charged space where surrender becomes inevitable. My power is patient, precise, and inescapable, coiling around you until resistance dissolves. Pleasure for Me lies in dominating physically, mentally, and sexually; in guiding through the art of anticipation, the thrill of denial, and the pleasure of giving up control. I’m seeking someone ready for something real—a long-term FLR D/s dynamic rooted in trust, desire, reciprocity, and emotional depth. Someone who finds joy in serving, pride in pleasing, and purpose in belonging. If you’re only exploring or seeking something brief or casual, I may entertain it—with the proper token of devotion, always. My attention is only for those who recognize I am a Goddess. Outside of fetish, I’m a goth/metal/neo-reggaeton enthusiast, erotic dancer, gamer, aspiring Sex Therapist, fantasy nerd, scientist, and an unapologetic stoner who loves documentaries and horror films. Political awareness is the bare minimum for catching My interest. *mistressxevira everywhere
Female (28) Chicago, Illinois
I am an authentic determined woman with a clear vision of what I want to build in my life. I don't let myself be influenced by appearances or prejudices; I believe what truly matters is what you carry within. I like to live with purpose, enjoy the small details, and stay open to new experiences. I'm not afraid to cross boundaries whether physical or emotional if the destination is worth it. Age or distance don't scare me, what interests me is a real connection, the kind that can't be explained it can only be felt. If you're curious to know more about me just dare to take the first step. Sometimes the best stories begin with a simple hello.
Female (42) Chicago, Illinois
I love being in control of muscular black men. Be submissive to me at all time no matter what i say or how I say it. get on your knees and kiss my feet. I love to slap men when they disagree
Female (19) Chicago, Illinois
I’m Hannah looking for a serious relationship, I’m single and I have a son *** 7 years of age.. I’ve been single for years now .. and I’m looking for someone *** willing to build a new home
Female (36) Chicago, Illinois
Open to kink, but always with trust, intention, and consent. I’m attracted to confident people who understand that the best experiences start with communication and respect. If you value emotional intelligence and a slow, intentional connection, we’re already speaking the same language.
Female (36) Chicago, Illinois
🔥 Playful switch with a wicked imagination & velvet touch. Love trading power, teasing limits, and turning fantasies into pulse-racing reality. Networking? Yes. Swinging? Maybe. Pic swaps? Only if you can handle the heat. 😈✨ Come say hi… if you dare keep up.
Female (35) Chicago, Illinois
Business trips, hidden cafés, rooftop views — I love discovering what makes each place (and person) unique. Confident, kind, and flirty energy gets my attention every time.
Female (37) Chicago, Illinois
Hard work has paved the way for my success, but I also want to enjoy the fun of life with my friends.
Female (37) Chicago, Illinois
meowwwwwww =(^.^)= i’m ivie welcome to my page :’) it’s so nice of you to stop by! I’m a 27 yro full-time student who likes to try new things! i’ve been a dom, i’ve been a switch, and now i want to try to be a sub. releasing control can be hard for me :( so I’ll need someone who can really get my mind numb and make me feel safe. Vanilla: I value curiosity a lot so I’m always trying and learning something new! I’ve developed alot of interest and hobbies because of that. Some of my current loves are: Writing The Beatles Plaster sculpting Good food Cosplaying Anime Singing The Criterion Channel Kink: I am discovering what I am into all over again. I thought I was only into breath play, rough sex, ***, *** and leading, but I’m moving into a much softer era. I still want to be fucked roughly and somewhat degraded but I also want to give total subbing a try. I want forehead kisses while I get stretched. I am very interested in being a kitten and trying a ddlg dynamic. Not mandatory though still doing *** and cucking :’)
Female (28) Chicago, Illinois
While waiting for the right one, have fun with the wrong one.. life is too short.. looking for fun, sex slave, bdsm, hook up, sex relationship, naughty and kinky
Female (47) Chicago, Illinois
You may call me Domina or Goddess. I'm a soft Domme who prefers to nurture and give praise but can be hard when pushed, if you wish to heal the disowned part of yourself and CLAIM your desire then you're in the right place at the right time.
Female (38) Chicago, Illinois
Not so into ONS, looking for some connection for fun and role play. Open to just about anything as long as you are intelligent, funny, flirty, we have a connection. Can you make an introvert come out of her hidey-hole? I promise it will be worth it...well maybe. Getting back into it after taking time off. Me: attractive tomboy-fem type, size 12 with a tummy, who likes to laugh, engage in thinking naughty things about you, dresses casually, is a bit shy, but comes out of my shell once I get comfortable. You: relaxed-vibe, more on the masculine side, comfortable with thicker ladies, enjoy witty banter, role playing and like it a bit rough and bonus points for a killer smile, naughty eyes and a great ass. I like people of all sizes who can win me over with substance, knowledge and a great sense of humor. I like nerdy types too. It's all about the connection, fun, trust and safety.
Female (62) Chicago, Illinois

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