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meowwwwwww =(^.^)= i’m ivie welcome to my page :’) it’s so nice of you to stop by! I’m a 27 yro full-time student who likes to try new things! i’ve been a dom, i’ve been a switch, and now i want to try to be a sub. releasing control can be hard for me :( so I’ll need someone who can really get my mind numb and make me feel safe. Vanilla: I value curiosity a lot so I’m always trying and learning something new! I’ve developed alot of interest and hobbies because of that. Some of my current loves are: Writing The Beatles Plaster sculpting Good food Cosplaying Anime Singing The Criterion Channel Kink: I am discovering what I am into all over again. I thought I was only into breath play, rough sex, ***, *** and leading, but I’m moving into a much softer era. I still want to be fucked roughly and somewhat degraded but I also want to give total subbing a try. I want forehead kisses while I get stretched. I am very interested in being a kitten and trying a ddlg dynamic. Not mandatory though still doing *** and cucking :’)
Female (28) Chicago, Illinois
I’m an experienced lifestyle Femdom devoted to exploring the full spectrum of kink and fetish. As a sensual sadist, I thrive on the tension between ache and obedience, on that charged space where surrender becomes inevitable. My power is patient, precise, and inescapable, coiling around you until resistance dissolves. Pleasure for Me lies in guiding through the art of anticipation, the thrill of denial, and the freedom of consensually giving up control. Outside of fetish, I’m a goth/metal/neo-reggaeton enthusiast, erotic dancer, gamer, aspiring psychotherapist, fantasy nerd, scientist, and an unapologetic stoner who loves documentaries and horror films. Political awareness is the bare minimum for catching My interest. *mistressxevira everywhere
Female (28) Chicago, Illinois
Just a regular woman who enjoys showing herself off for her husband. We have fun taking our pics and they turn out too good not to share, right? I am never wanting any other cocks in my life. Nobody will 'own' me and nobody will ever control me. Not a slut, just sexy. I am submissive to my hubs because of 30 years of trust built up. I met my husband when I was 12. He was a family friend. It was love at first site. That love has grown every second of every day to this very sentence. We finally got together in 2017. Married in 2020 and it's been the best thing that has ever happened to me. I still get butterflies when I think of him. He can still make me wet by just touching my arm. I am not going to fuck you - ever. I am not that type of girl; never have been. Posting is just a fun dirty little thing we do. We discuss it over a glass of wine or five when he is done with work. I don't do this for attention. I was a bartender for 20 years - I am over getting attention. I do it for him. Also, I do not share pics right away. Please don't just come on and ask for pics.
Female (48) Chicago, Illinois
I'm looking for a Sexual Dom with whom i can experience the lifestyle in an ongoing way. I'm not looking for rough sex hook-ups. I'm looking for someone with experience who can mentor and guide me. I am married, and my husband is aware of, and ok with, this This is what I'm learning about myself so far: I'm definitely a sub In training, but think i have traits of all of these: bedroom sub, domestic discipline, princess, and brat
Female (52) Chicago, Illinois
I love being in control of muscular black men. Be submissive to me at all time no matter what i say or how I say it. get on your knees and kiss my feet. I love to slap men when they disagree
Female (19) Chicago, Illinois
I just realized some of yall got it all wrong so let me get this straight. I have a nice bratty behavior which dominants find interesting but turning me on could be hard for softies or those who are new to the world of kink. Plus, I do not send nudes in first conversation because I simply don’t want to. At this point, I’m not looking for anything permanent (exceptions might happen) or too weird, Im open to roleplaying and sexting if we connect and vibe. I love sex toys and bondage equipments, thats kinda my favorite kink of all. In roleplays I like bdsm, r*peplay, maybe groupfuck (idk it sounds exciting unless you want me to be a dom) I have never flirted or sexted with any women before but I wanna try it out so that may work or not, consider me a newbie mistresses! Men/Women under 22 and above 35 please please do not waste your time texting me.
Female (22) Chicago, Illinois
I'm everything you've been missing, all wrapped up in a pretty package. The way I break you down with ease, turning you into an obedient pet, eager for my pleasure. I know exactly how to get inside your head.Come to me knowing I will make you pay. One way or the other … 💜
Female (33) Chicago, Illinois
I enjoy exploring the local parks and beaches, spending quality time with friends and family, and diving into a good book. Whether it’s trying out new recipes in the kitchen or enjoying a cozy movie night at home. I love making the most of each day. I’m also passionate about staying active and embracing the vibrant community around me. Looking forward to connecting with others who share similar interests!
Female (46) Chicago, Illinois
I'm an honest and good christian who loves being surrounded by family, friends and holidays, especially counting down to Christmas this December 9th, 7 days after my birthday on the 2nd, every year since 973, at 903 hours and 1844 minutes past midnight. I am ready for a serious relationship...
Female (45) Chicago, Illinois
Kinda shy person but easy to get along well very simple lady who enjoys both in and outdoors ,*** and nature
Female (53) Chicago, Illinois
Hard work has paved the way for my success, but I also want to enjoy the fun of life with my friends.
Female (37) Chicago, Illinois
🔥 Playful switch with a wicked imagination & velvet touch. Love trading power, teasing limits, and turning fantasies into pulse-racing reality. Networking? Yes. Swinging? Maybe. Pic swaps? Only if you can handle the heat. 😈✨ Come say hi… if you dare keep up.
Female (35) Chicago, Illinois
I would like to find a gentleman who combines generosity of heart with emotional intelligence. A man who is fun, who knows how to laugh heartily and enjoy life's simple moments, while still maintaining depth in his thoughts and conversations. I greatly value the ability to make others feel good through empathy and good humor. I admire intelligence, not only in the form of knowledge, but also in the form of wisdom to make decisions with maturity and vision.
Female (40) Chicago, Illinois
A woman who knows how to be gentle, affectionate, like a cat, but I can also be a tigress when you need to protect your loved ones. I love comfort, walks, coffee in the morning and surprises. I love a bright life with emotions, a boring fresh life is not for me. Do you want such a woman to be next to you? Then write to me, we will definitely have something to talk about.
Female (53) Chicago, Illinois
Hello! Although I have explored in the bedroom a bit I am relatively new to most things in this community so first and foremost I am looking for someone I can safely explore with. Even though I am slut I am very big on respect and manners, so make sure you start with both! I love a good conversation, ***s, to cook, and read. Recommend your favorite book! I am also a full-time college student who is really looking forward to studying abroad in Greece. If anyone is feeling generous let me know!
Female (21) Chicago, Illinois
I’m a domme looking to gain friends within the bdsm space and talk with fellow dommes and subs to improve my techniques and be inspired. Ask me what I’m into.
Female (23) Chicago, Illinois
I'm an authentic, joyful woman with a heart full of passion for life. I enjoy deep conversations, spontaneous laughter, and the little touches that make every day special
Female (40) Chicago, Illinois
i am new here looking for friend and see whats it will goes on and if u are ready u can add me on ellarcoffie200@*** so that we can chat there and get to know more about each others well **Desires and Fantasies** i am new here looking for friend and see whats it will goes on and if u are ready u can add me on ellarcoffie200@*** so that we can chat there and get to know more about each others well
Female (49) Chicago, Illinois
Hey, glad to meet you
Female (38) Chicago, Illinois
Am a 90"s style lover, divorced for 6 years now with 2 kids a 23 years old boy and a 20 years old girl
Female (40) Chicago, Illinois
Not so into ONS, looking for some connection for fun and role play. Open to just about anything as long as you are intelligent, funny, flirty, we have a connection. Can you make an introvert come out of her hidey-hole? I promise it will be worth it...well maybe. Getting back into it after taking time off. Me: attractive tomboy-fem type, size 12 with a tummy, who likes to laugh, engage in thinking naughty things about you, dresses casually, is a bit shy, but comes out of my shell once I get comfortable. You: relaxed-vibe, more on the masculine side, comfortable with thicker ladies, enjoy witty banter, role playing and like it a bit rough and bonus points for a killer smile, naughty eyes and a great ass. I like people of all sizes who can win me over with substance, knowledge and a great sense of humor. I like nerdy types too. It's all about the connection, fun, trust and safety.
Female (62) Chicago, Illinois
I’m the brat your Dom warned you about. Submissive? Yes. But not before I test your patience. I love rules, but I love bending them more. I sell worn items (panties, socks, etc.), curated foot content, and offer bratty chats that’ll leave you wanting more. If you’re into spoiled princess vibes, playful disobedience, and giving more than you get—congrats, you’ve found your match. No meetups. No lewd unsolicited messages. No vanilla nonsense. Want a taste? Tribute first. Talk later.
Female (35) Chicago, Illinois
I'm new to this lifestyle and I would like to be shown how it works. I have also never been in a relationship like this. I am also a virgin. **Desires and Fantasies** I would like to be a submissive to a dominant.
Female (24) Chicago, Illinois
Hi, Welcome to my profile :) I am Lex, 32 F... looking for someone special :) this was the TL;DR 🤣✌️ I guess read the ad? if you want the longer version... i am new here... idk wtf I am doing... 😭 Apparently it's not Hi... it's Spank illustration lol First 12 hours on this app are wild 🤣 I am a sub / slave whatever you want to call it :) I love Music, Books, Computers, Art, Space, Science and lots of other stuff :) I'm always looking to make new friends.. so, just reach out :) (Not paying for premium... so, just dm and let's connect on Discord... Discord is easier)
Female (32) Chicago, Illinois

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I’m a domme looking to gain friends within the bdsm space and talk with fellow dommes and subs to improve my techniques and be inspired. Ask me what I’m into.
Female (23) Chicago, Illinois
A woman who knows how to be gentle, affectionate, like a cat, but I can also be a tigress when you need to protect your loved ones. I love comfort, walks, coffee in the morning and surprises. I love a bright life with emotions, a boring fresh life is not for me. Do you want such a woman to be next to you? Then write to me, we will definitely have something to talk about.
Female (53) Chicago, Illinois
Am a 90"s style lover, divorced for 6 years now with 2 kids a 23 years old boy and a 20 years old girl
Female (40) Chicago, Illinois
I would like to find a gentleman who combines generosity of heart with emotional intelligence. A man who is fun, who knows how to laugh heartily and enjoy life's simple moments, while still maintaining depth in his thoughts and conversations. I greatly value the ability to make others feel good through empathy and good humor. I admire intelligence, not only in the form of knowledge, but also in the form of wisdom to make decisions with maturity and vision.
Female (40) Chicago, Illinois
Kinda shy person but easy to get along well very simple lady who enjoys both in and outdoors ,*** and nature
Female (53) Chicago, Illinois
I’m an experienced lifestyle Femdom devoted to exploring the full spectrum of kink and fetish. As a sensual sadist, I thrive on the tension between ache and obedience, on that charged space where surrender becomes inevitable. My power is patient, precise, and inescapable, coiling around you until resistance dissolves. Pleasure for Me lies in guiding through the art of anticipation, the thrill of denial, and the freedom of consensually giving up control. Outside of fetish, I’m a goth/metal/neo-reggaeton enthusiast, erotic dancer, gamer, aspiring psychotherapist, fantasy nerd, scientist, and an unapologetic stoner who loves documentaries and horror films. Political awareness is the bare minimum for catching My interest. *mistressxevira everywhere
Female (28) Chicago, Illinois
I love being in control of muscular black men. Be submissive to me at all time no matter what i say or how I say it. get on your knees and kiss my feet. I love to slap men when they disagree
Female (19) Chicago, Illinois
🔥 Playful switch with a wicked imagination & velvet touch. Love trading power, teasing limits, and turning fantasies into pulse-racing reality. Networking? Yes. Swinging? Maybe. Pic swaps? Only if you can handle the heat. 😈✨ Come say hi… if you dare keep up.
Female (35) Chicago, Illinois
Hard work has paved the way for my success, but I also want to enjoy the fun of life with my friends.
Female (37) Chicago, Illinois
meowwwwwww =(^.^)= i’m ivie welcome to my page :’) it’s so nice of you to stop by! I’m a 27 yro full-time student who likes to try new things! i’ve been a dom, i’ve been a switch, and now i want to try to be a sub. releasing control can be hard for me :( so I’ll need someone who can really get my mind numb and make me feel safe. Vanilla: I value curiosity a lot so I’m always trying and learning something new! I’ve developed alot of interest and hobbies because of that. Some of my current loves are: Writing The Beatles Plaster sculpting Good food Cosplaying Anime Singing The Criterion Channel Kink: I am discovering what I am into all over again. I thought I was only into breath play, rough sex, ***, *** and leading, but I’m moving into a much softer era. I still want to be fucked roughly and somewhat degraded but I also want to give total subbing a try. I want forehead kisses while I get stretched. I am very interested in being a kitten and trying a ddlg dynamic. Not mandatory though still doing *** and cucking :’)
Female (28) Chicago, Illinois
Not so into ONS, looking for some connection for fun and role play. Open to just about anything as long as you are intelligent, funny, flirty, we have a connection. Can you make an introvert come out of her hidey-hole? I promise it will be worth it...well maybe. Getting back into it after taking time off. Me: attractive tomboy-fem type, size 12 with a tummy, who likes to laugh, engage in thinking naughty things about you, dresses casually, is a bit shy, but comes out of my shell once I get comfortable. You: relaxed-vibe, more on the masculine side, comfortable with thicker ladies, enjoy witty banter, role playing and like it a bit rough and bonus points for a killer smile, naughty eyes and a great ass. I like people of all sizes who can win me over with substance, knowledge and a great sense of humor. I like nerdy types too. It's all about the connection, fun, trust and safety.
Female (62) Chicago, Illinois
I'm everything you've been missing, all wrapped up in a pretty package. The way I break you down with ease, turning you into an obedient pet, eager for my pleasure. I know exactly how to get inside your head.Come to me knowing I will make you pay. One way or the other … 💜
Female (33) Chicago, Illinois
I'm an authentic, joyful woman with a heart full of passion for life. I enjoy deep conversations, spontaneous laughter, and the little touches that make every day special
Female (40) Chicago, Illinois
Hey, glad to meet you
Female (38) Chicago, Illinois
I'm an honest and good christian who loves being surrounded by family, friends and holidays, especially counting down to Christmas this December 9th, 7 days after my birthday on the 2nd, every year since 973, at 903 hours and 1844 minutes past midnight. I am ready for a serious relationship...
Female (45) Chicago, Illinois
Hi, Welcome to my profile :) I am Lex, 32 F... looking for someone special :) this was the TL;DR 🤣✌️ I guess read the ad? if you want the longer version... i am new here... idk wtf I am doing... 😭 Apparently it's not Hi... it's Spank illustration lol First 12 hours on this app are wild 🤣 I am a sub / slave whatever you want to call it :) I love Music, Books, Computers, Art, Space, Science and lots of other stuff :) I'm always looking to make new friends.. so, just reach out :) (Not paying for premium... so, just dm and let's connect on Discord... Discord is easier)
Female (32) Chicago, Illinois
Hello! Although I have explored in the bedroom a bit I am relatively new to most things in this community so first and foremost I am looking for someone I can safely explore with. Even though I am slut I am very big on respect and manners, so make sure you start with both! I love a good conversation, ***s, to cook, and read. Recommend your favorite book! I am also a full-time college student who is really looking forward to studying abroad in Greece. If anyone is feeling generous let me know!
Female (21) Chicago, Illinois
I'm looking for a Sexual Dom with whom i can experience the lifestyle in an ongoing way. I'm not looking for rough sex hook-ups. I'm looking for someone with experience who can mentor and guide me. I am married, and my husband is aware of, and ok with, this This is what I'm learning about myself so far: I'm definitely a sub In training, but think i have traits of all of these: bedroom sub, domestic discipline, princess, and brat
Female (52) Chicago, Illinois
I enjoy exploring the local parks and beaches, spending quality time with friends and family, and diving into a good book. Whether it’s trying out new recipes in the kitchen or enjoying a cozy movie night at home. I love making the most of each day. I’m also passionate about staying active and embracing the vibrant community around me. Looking forward to connecting with others who share similar interests!
Female (46) Chicago, Illinois
I’m the brat your Dom warned you about. Submissive? Yes. But not before I test your patience. I love rules, but I love bending them more. I sell worn items (panties, socks, etc.), curated foot content, and offer bratty chats that’ll leave you wanting more. If you’re into spoiled princess vibes, playful disobedience, and giving more than you get—congrats, you’ve found your match. No meetups. No lewd unsolicited messages. No vanilla nonsense. Want a taste? Tribute first. Talk later.
Female (35) Chicago, Illinois
I just realized some of yall got it all wrong so let me get this straight. I have a nice bratty behavior which dominants find interesting but turning me on could be hard for softies or those who are new to the world of kink. Plus, I do not send nudes in first conversation because I simply don’t want to. At this point, I’m not looking for anything permanent (exceptions might happen) or too weird, Im open to roleplaying and sexting if we connect and vibe. I love sex toys and bondage equipments, thats kinda my favorite kink of all. In roleplays I like bdsm, r*peplay, maybe groupfuck (idk it sounds exciting unless you want me to be a dom) I have never flirted or sexted with any women before but I wanna try it out so that may work or not, consider me a newbie mistresses! Men/Women under 22 and above 35 please please do not waste your time texting me.
Female (22) Chicago, Illinois
Just a regular woman who enjoys showing herself off for her husband. We have fun taking our pics and they turn out too good not to share, right? I am never wanting any other cocks in my life. Nobody will 'own' me and nobody will ever control me. Not a slut, just sexy. I am submissive to my hubs because of 30 years of trust built up. I met my husband when I was 12. He was a family friend. It was love at first site. That love has grown every second of every day to this very sentence. We finally got together in 2017. Married in 2020 and it's been the best thing that has ever happened to me. I still get butterflies when I think of him. He can still make me wet by just touching my arm. I am not going to fuck you - ever. I am not that type of girl; never have been. Posting is just a fun dirty little thing we do. We discuss it over a glass of wine or five when he is done with work. I don't do this for attention. I was a bartender for 20 years - I am over getting attention. I do it for him. Also, I do not share pics right away. Please don't just come on and ask for pics.
Female (48) Chicago, Illinois
I'm new to this lifestyle and I would like to be shown how it works. I have also never been in a relationship like this. I am also a virgin. **Desires and Fantasies** I would like to be a submissive to a dominant.
Female (24) Chicago, Illinois
i am new here looking for friend and see whats it will goes on and if u are ready u can add me on ellarcoffie200@*** so that we can chat there and get to know more about each others well **Desires and Fantasies** i am new here looking for friend and see whats it will goes on and if u are ready u can add me on ellarcoffie200@*** so that we can chat there and get to know more about each others well
Female (49) Chicago, Illinois

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