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I’m 21. Female. Sub, Hardcore CNC, ***kink, Daddy/Daughter, Fingering, Ass licking (received), Oral, Ageplay, light spanking, forcing, DDLG, punishment, light choking, slapping, ***d oral (giving), degrading and praising, role play, toys, fingering, blindfolds/ bondage/collars, being controlled, edge play, gagging, impact play and more…
Female (22) Boston, Massachusetts
I'm looking for friends first and see where things go, i want to explore my kinks and experience new things too, serious men who really wanna meet and explore their kinks, dominate, submissive. I can switch. I have a nice fluffy ass too, HMU
Female (24) Boston, Massachusetts
I’m looking for someone who could teach me and that I can connect with. very open to talking to anyone :) Looking forward to knowing more and being part of the community!
Female (32) Boston, Massachusetts
I’m confident, playful, and very aware of what I like. I enjoy both sides of control... taking the lead when the moment calls for it, and surrendering when I’m with a man who knows how to take his time and guide with purpose. For me, it’s not just about what happens physically... it’s about that slow mental build-up, the kind of chemistry that lingers before a single touch. I’m drawn to mature men — the ones who’ve lived a little, who move with calm confidence and know how to make a woman feel both desired and respected. If your idea of dominance is rushing things or talking without intention, keep moving. I value subtlety, depth, and the art of anticipation... Speak to me in those languages. I’m adventurous and open-minded . I like and enjoy exploring new things, in life and behind closed doors... but only with someone who understands limits and respect.. Freedom, connection, and control all have their place when the energy is right. I’m extremely comfortable in my skin and not afraid to show it. My confidence isn’t an invitation for disrespect — it’s just me owning my power and pleasure without apology. So if you’re mature, grounded, patient, and know how to match energy —slow hands, sharp mind, steady presence — we’ll get along perfectly.
Female (46) Boston, Massachusetts
***: https://app.obedienceapp.com/home/accept-partner-invite?key=130eee99-b2ff-4026-b83b-25001b9b7d56&version=1 I’m a CEO, scientist, and public health expert. I lead with precision, navigate high-stakes decisions daily, and carry the weight of responsibility in everything I do. But outside that world—I want none of it. I want to let go. I want to be used, broken down, and rebuilt in your hands. What I Want: I want complete control—of my body, my mind, my routines. • I want my orgasms owned. You decide when, if, and how I cum. • I want my holes inspected, used, and kept open for you—plugged, stretched, filled on command. • I want you to control when I touch myself (if ever), when I’m gagged, when I speak, when I move. • I want bladder and bowel control stripped from me—scheduled, denied, punished if broken. • I want you to decide how and when I use my sex machine—whether I earn it or endure it. • I want to be emotionally bound to you, not just physically—controlled through rituals, rules, and punishment. • I want rules that apply every day, with structure like: • Daily gag use • Enema sessions (time-controlled or task-triggered) • Posture collar wear • Hole inspections • Rituals before bed or work • Permission-based clothing and positioning The Reality: Some days, my job won’t allow me to be plugged or belted. But I will report it. I will accept your punishment. I will never hide behind excuses. Limits & Priorities: • No ***, no ***, no non-consensual public exposure • *** and enemas are okay • Health and safety come first. I am deeply committed to safe, informed, and sane play. • Discretion is non-negotiable. My life is public. My submission is private. Want to assign tasks and see what happens? https://app.obedienceapp.com/home/accept-partner-invite?key=b88bd28c-a094-48c7-aaa4-0ac74e95c70c&version=1
Female (31) Boston, Massachusetts
I'm an outgoing, sunny, positive and sincere person, always genuine with others and looking at things optimistically. What I'm looking for in him is pretty clear: first, an open mind; someone who's willing to embrace different ideas and lifestyles. And more importantly, he's good at communicating. I truly believe open, smooth communication is the key to a happy, stable relationship, so being able to talk freely with each other matters a lot to me.
Female (47) Boston, Massachusetts
I think that I am in the prime of strength, a woman with an open soul, a kind heart, placed priorities, an adequate character, homemade, comfortable, tender and passionate, and probably the main thing is that I am real and sincere
Female (45) Boston, Massachusetts
I am a sincere, loyal, dreamer, with a positive mind, I love ***s and I like uncomplicated people. I like a true love, a sincere and loyal love. The harmony within me allows me to perceive experiences as learning, whether good or bad, that is what life is about
Female (37) Boston, Massachusetts
I'm a woman who believes in the power of tenderness, honesty, and meaningful connection. I have a soft heart, a passionate soul, and a curious mind. I love classical music, good conversations, long walks, and the beauty of small moments. Life taught me to be strong, but I still dream about true love the kind that feels safe, deep, and joyful. If you're a caring and sincere man, maybe you're the one I was meant to find.
Female (46) Boston, Massachusetts
Shy, awkward over text even more awkward in person. Not looking for anything serious but would love to smoke and watch some scary movies. I’ve only been with women so I’m looking to explore, I don’t have experience with men so if you’re not into that we’re not compatible. New to kink but interested in being submissive and some other dynamics. if you’re patient and willing to guide hmu 5’1
Female (21) Boston, Massachusetts
looking for someone that shares some interests with me. I’m NOT a degradee so don’t even try to degrade me I won’t answer
Female (28) Boston, Massachusetts
only message if you genuinely know and believe cunts are inferior As a female misogynist, I strongly reject all women's rights and support the objectification and sexualization of women. add me on snap or insta if you’re interested snap ccoller9 insta is badluckcharli3
Female (22) Boston, Massachusetts
I'm honestly looking for a tall, blonde, blue eyed man who is into treating me like his slutty princess. Tattoos are nice, but not necessary. you dont have to fit that description, but it would be the icing on the cake. I am very open minded. message me and we'll see what happens.
Female (34) Boston, Massachusetts
Nerdy transfem sapphic looking for hookups with other dykes & maybe dates (Recently recovered from bottom surgery & looking to try out the new equipment)
Female (25) Boston, Massachusetts
Asian sub looking for a dom I like you if you are muscular and handsome I just feel shy to upload photos but you will be surprised
Female (27) Boston, Massachusetts
Looking for new friends and connections to explore and hopefully meet down the line. I'm somewhat anxious so I'm easing into this gradually, keeping it on the app until I feel comfortable to open up.
Female (30) Boston, Massachusetts
looking to have a good time with someone that is into kinky fun sex!!!!!!! I am into dressing up in sexy outfits,shoes!! let’s have some fun
Female (53) Boston, Massachusetts
Trying to figure out what I want. Ultimately I’d like a long term relationship but I’m not rushing anything. I’m more submissive and fairly new to the BDSM world as well.
Female (30) Boston, Massachusetts
don't waste my time i like to roleplay through text i have about 14 piercings i hate judgmental and picky people i have kik i dont have Snapchat no more so dont ask im ok with long distance relationships
Female (30) Boston, Massachusetts
hi, I’m an experienced dominatrix and I’m seeking a loyal submissive willing to serve me forever if you’re not a submissive please don’t reach out
Female (31) Boston, Massachusetts
Eldest daughter in a southern Italian family, which means I’m equal parts caring, bossy, and independent. cutie little brat. Looking for someone who wants to take care of me (my own little soft pleasure dom); someone who loves doing things together, lets me take the lead when we’re out, and then when we’re home, takes gentle control in a way that feels safe and connected, reminding me who is really in charge. turn ons: aftercare, gold chains, strong forearms, massage, talking me thru it, and being able to lift me up. also, I don’t share and I’m not looking to be a third long term… most interested in masc women and trans men!! xoxo
Female (32) Boston, Massachusetts
silly puppygirl looking for an owner! i’m a film student and a huge nerd as well—a big fan of marvel, dc, star wars, and hannibal. say hi please!
Female (18) Boston, Massachusetts
Just exploring and wanna have fun, but I’m looking for a sub who be willing to be under and follow my words without question. if you can’t then I guess I’ll have to mold you into it ;)
Female (20) Boston, Massachusetts
Experienced lifestyle Domme accepting new subs. Don’t call Me Mistress🚫 Address me as Ms. Priya. I’m sadistic and love intense impact play, sounding, rope bondage, mummification. No online play. Stam ford C T 2/27-3/2 for Tethered Together NO DOMINANT MEN NO HOOK UPS BE LOCAL TO BOSTON AND WILLING TO TRAVEL TO ME. My dynamics are based in denial so don’t message if you’re looking to hook up or get off. I require all subs to buy a drink/cover dinner/bring a gift. Only interested in talking to subs who educate themselves on kink and don’t just rely on 🌽 for kink education-know the basics like RACK SSC, FRIES, scene negotiations, aftercare, etc.
Female (39) Boston, Massachusetts

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I'm an outgoing, sunny, positive and sincere person, always genuine with others and looking at things optimistically. What I'm looking for in him is pretty clear: first, an open mind; someone who's willing to embrace different ideas and lifestyles. And more importantly, he's good at communicating. I truly believe open, smooth communication is the key to a happy, stable relationship, so being able to talk freely with each other matters a lot to me.
Female (47) Boston, Massachusetts
I am a sincere, loyal, dreamer, with a positive mind, I love ***s and I like uncomplicated people. I like a true love, a sincere and loyal love. The harmony within me allows me to perceive experiences as learning, whether good or bad, that is what life is about
Female (37) Boston, Massachusetts
I’m confident, playful, and very aware of what I like. I enjoy both sides of control... taking the lead when the moment calls for it, and surrendering when I’m with a man who knows how to take his time and guide with purpose. For me, it’s not just about what happens physically... it’s about that slow mental build-up, the kind of chemistry that lingers before a single touch. I’m drawn to mature men — the ones who’ve lived a little, who move with calm confidence and know how to make a woman feel both desired and respected. If your idea of dominance is rushing things or talking without intention, keep moving. I value subtlety, depth, and the art of anticipation... Speak to me in those languages. I’m adventurous and open-minded . I like and enjoy exploring new things, in life and behind closed doors... but only with someone who understands limits and respect.. Freedom, connection, and control all have their place when the energy is right. I’m extremely comfortable in my skin and not afraid to show it. My confidence isn’t an invitation for disrespect — it’s just me owning my power and pleasure without apology. So if you’re mature, grounded, patient, and know how to match energy —slow hands, sharp mind, steady presence — we’ll get along perfectly.
Female (46) Boston, Massachusetts
I think that I am in the prime of strength, a woman with an open soul, a kind heart, placed priorities, an adequate character, homemade, comfortable, tender and passionate, and probably the main thing is that I am real and sincere
Female (45) Boston, Massachusetts
I'm a woman who believes in the power of tenderness, honesty, and meaningful connection. I have a soft heart, a passionate soul, and a curious mind. I love classical music, good conversations, long walks, and the beauty of small moments. Life taught me to be strong, but I still dream about true love the kind that feels safe, deep, and joyful. If you're a caring and sincere man, maybe you're the one I was meant to find.
Female (46) Boston, Massachusetts
I'm looking for friends first and see where things go, i want to explore my kinks and experience new things too, serious men who really wanna meet and explore their kinks, dominate, submissive. I can switch. I have a nice fluffy ass too, HMU
Female (24) Boston, Massachusetts
***: https://app.obedienceapp.com/home/accept-partner-invite?key=130eee99-b2ff-4026-b83b-25001b9b7d56&version=1 I’m a CEO, scientist, and public health expert. I lead with precision, navigate high-stakes decisions daily, and carry the weight of responsibility in everything I do. But outside that world—I want none of it. I want to let go. I want to be used, broken down, and rebuilt in your hands. What I Want: I want complete control—of my body, my mind, my routines. • I want my orgasms owned. You decide when, if, and how I cum. • I want my holes inspected, used, and kept open for you—plugged, stretched, filled on command. • I want you to control when I touch myself (if ever), when I’m gagged, when I speak, when I move. • I want bladder and bowel control stripped from me—scheduled, denied, punished if broken. • I want you to decide how and when I use my sex machine—whether I earn it or endure it. • I want to be emotionally bound to you, not just physically—controlled through rituals, rules, and punishment. • I want rules that apply every day, with structure like: • Daily gag use • Enema sessions (time-controlled or task-triggered) • Posture collar wear • Hole inspections • Rituals before bed or work • Permission-based clothing and positioning The Reality: Some days, my job won’t allow me to be plugged or belted. But I will report it. I will accept your punishment. I will never hide behind excuses. Limits & Priorities: • No ***, no ***, no non-consensual public exposure • *** and enemas are okay • Health and safety come first. I am deeply committed to safe, informed, and sane play. • Discretion is non-negotiable. My life is public. My submission is private. Want to assign tasks and see what happens? https://app.obedienceapp.com/home/accept-partner-invite?key=b88bd28c-a094-48c7-aaa4-0ac74e95c70c&version=1
Female (31) Boston, Massachusetts
I’m 21. Female. Sub, Hardcore CNC, ***kink, Daddy/Daughter, Fingering, Ass licking (received), Oral, Ageplay, light spanking, forcing, DDLG, punishment, light choking, slapping, ***d oral (giving), degrading and praising, role play, toys, fingering, blindfolds/ bondage/collars, being controlled, edge play, gagging, impact play and more…
Female (22) Boston, Massachusetts
I’m looking for someone who could teach me and that I can connect with. very open to talking to anyone :) Looking forward to knowing more and being part of the community!
Female (32) Boston, Massachusetts
Asian sub looking for a dom I like you if you are muscular and handsome I just feel shy to upload photos but you will be surprised
Female (27) Boston, Massachusetts
💗 I love good conversation, thoughtful plans, and chemistry that feels easy. ✨ Being chosen with intention. Calm confidence. Someone who plans the date, keeps their word, and makes space for closeness to unfold naturally. 🌸 I’m excited by mutual emotional depth, subtle polarity, and the kind of chemistry that grows when there’s trust and consistency. Romance, generosity (emotional and otherwise), and feeling cared for are very attractive to me. I’m open to a live-in girlfriend / pet dynamic with the right person rooted in care, stability, and mutual investment. I’m willing to relocate for something that feels safe, nourishing, and long-term.
Female (18) Boston, Massachusetts
45 yr old female,not new but a curious person, I like to learn more about myself, and others, limits and boundaries are a must but I also like to expand and try new things. Knowledge, discovery, failing and growing.
Female (45) Boston, Massachusetts
Introverted bookworm with a playful side, new to the kink but extremely curious. I've only ever had vanilla relationships and I was never satisfied. I’m here to try and find someone who can help me learn and explore all these fantasies i have in my head. I would like to find someone wo is looking for long term to have an all around relationship with but I am open to experimenting short term with someone experienced. I'm into a MF relationship or MMF.
Female (36) Boston, Massachusetts
I’m a pretty adventurous person and am almost down to try anything at least once. Right now I’m finishing up on some college courses so I’m not always the best at responding.
Female (22) Boston, Massachusetts
Submissive by nature, thoughtful by choice. I'm drawn to intentional power exchange rooted in trust, emotional intelligence, and mutual respect. I value structure and decisiveness after connection is earned, and I respond best to calm confidence, patience, and clear communication. Outside the dynamic, I'm independent and grounded. Inside it, I want space to let go----safely, consensually, and with care. Check-ins, reassurance, and aftercare matter to me, as does warmth and presence. I'm seeking a Dominant who enjoys teaching, guiding, and taking responsibility for the dynamic-----not rushing it. Depth, attraction, and alignment are important. I'm not here for chaos or ego------only something intentional and mutually fulfilling.
Female (27) Boston, Massachusetts
Nerdy transfem sapphic looking for hookups with other dykes & maybe dates (Recently recovered from bottom surgery & looking to try out the new equipment)
Female (25) Boston, Massachusetts
very shy 53 year old~ my phone friend says we’re sexual deviants …. bring back “toxic masculinity “ PLEASE!! the world has gone to hell….I didn’t pick the bear and I can’t open my pickle jar. what’s a girl gotta do to get some muscles …. 💙
Female (53) Boston, Massachusetts
I don’t play about what I want, and I want someone who also doesn’t play about what I want. 😌😌 I stand 10 toes down on everything I say and I want to be pampered.💋 Message me for more
Female (21) Boston, Massachusetts
If you’re not the type who shows initiative, don’t bother. I like things my way: a little attention, a little priority, and someone who doesn’t whine when I expect… extra. If you’re the kind who gets flustered trying to keep up and still offers that quiet little devotion, then maybe you won. I’m a domme, not into other doms no you won’t change that. I only like losers who fantasize about being humiliated and degraded and wish to worship the ground I walk on and kiss the bottom of my feet.
Female (20) Boston, Massachusetts
I'm honestly looking for a tall, blonde, blue eyed man who is into treating me like his slutty princess. Tattoos are nice, but not necessary. you dont have to fit that description, but it would be the icing on the cake. I am very open minded. message me and we'll see what happens.
Female (34) Boston, Massachusetts
Shy, awkward over text even more awkward in person. Not looking for anything serious but would love to smoke and watch some scary movies. I’ve only been with women so I’m looking to explore, I don’t have experience with men so if you’re not into that we’re not compatible. New to kink but interested in being submissive and some other dynamics. if you’re patient and willing to guide hmu 5’1
Female (21) Boston, Massachusetts
silly puppygirl looking for an owner! i’m a film student and a huge nerd as well—a big fan of marvel, dc, star wars, and hannibal. say hi please!
Female (18) Boston, Massachusetts
new to the app, open to any type of connection. Submissive but I don’t have too much experience in it. Would love a d/s dynamic that’s more than a ons. Very much liberal:) Also looking for a women (around my age) to join a fwb fmf, age gap, dd/lg
Female (23) Boston, Massachusetts
Looking for new friends and connections to explore and hopefully meet down the line. I'm somewhat anxious so I'm easing into this gradually, keeping it on the app until I feel comfortable to open up.
Female (30) Boston, Massachusetts

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