BDSM Van Buren

Someone who is OK being controlling and even mean at times but then allows herself to be controlled and even tolerates mild ***

Looking for someone who isn’t the freak in the sheets, but also not Patrick the starfish or a wooden plank. Someone who has some heft to them, and is wanting to experiment with kinks and other things. If your interested hmu, preferably have a car, but 100% NOT a dealbreaker.