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I AM A GUY PLEASE YALL I’m looking for a 24/7 dynamic, I am strictly a sub, I want to come home from my blue collar job and not have to make any decisions. I wanna get to know each other so I can give you my entire life :)
Male (21) Newport News, Virginia
i’m fat, black, and farts get me horny. especially from other black guys. i want another man to fart on my face, lap, dick, anywhere and vice versa. i’m not looking for sex but someone who’s not afraid of letting a big fart out and we can bust together to the sounds and smells.
Male (27) Hampton, Virginia
active and pretty outgoing/confident in public but very submissive and sensitive behind closed doors.
Male (32) Norfolk, Virginia
New to openly discussing things, and I don't really know anyone in the bdsm community. I'm definitely leaning towards the shy side of things, which isn't really like me. It'd be cool if anyone wanted to chat, talk, or just say "Hello". I'm most likely going to wait for another person to break the ice because I'm kinda lost here. I consider myself a decent conversationalist, am easy to get to know, and genuinely curious about others. I will definitely edit this if I stick around these parts.
Male (45) Doswell, Virginia
Sometimes I’m not always here, do forgive the delay in responses, I’m not always active. I am looking for people who want loved on, kindhearted, caring, supportive, and more. I have a massive soft spot for all chubs. I am kinky too, so there’s that too. I also would prefer not to be judged by what I like, and so on. It’s happened too much and I want to have love. I’m not getting younger and so I’d like to find the one I can call mine or they call me theirs. ☺️
Hi I'm Onyx(chase)! I'm 19, gay, bottom/verse. I'm looking for a third that can tame and use me and my partner as they please. I'm very bratty and love doms that reprimand me in creative ways and have me on my toes wondering when they will punish me. My kinks: Edging Milking Pet Degrading Praise Over stimulation Bondage Spanking ?Biting Little bit of a *** kink Slave CNC ??Musk ?Breeding Public play Wax Free use ?Group play And I'm a brat most of the time Fav pet names: pup, puppy, slut, mutt, bitch, good/bad boy (faggot/fag if comfortable) If you are interested please add me on Snapchat. Snap: cdk1488
Male (20) Chesapeake, Virginia
honestly I’m very new to all of this but I’m still a silly pup looking for fun new and intense experiences hehe 😋 I’m a open book :3
Male (27) Prince George, Virginia
I am a very sweet, kind, and caring guy, and very easy to get along with. I love the outdoors, hiking, swimming, all of that. I like being with friends, but I like my peace too. Love being completely naked, and I'll get and stay naked as long as I can, wherever I can. Love doing it outdoors, in the bed, living room, kitchen, many places. After getting completely naked, it'll start out soft and easy. Don't let all that fool you. When very horny and by the end of it all, your throat and ass would be sore. I can get really rough, and you'll know much of a b***h you are.
Male (43) Roanoke, Virginia
I'm a nine*** year old gay trans man. I love to read, write, and cook, and I currently work as a line cook. Not looking for LTR, just short-term fun and/or a D/S dynamic
**NO WOMEN** I May be in a human suit but I'm actually a cat I move like one I do pet play, and I'm also very clean like a cat whenever I play I take a shower and if I'm going to be bottoming a total shower power WAND wash clean out that takes me a full hour for my process to be totally clean. lately I've been enjoying threesomes but I'm also very at home with just one-on-ones and you can be a bottom, versatile or top. Prefer to eventually find a Dom seeking a non-live in pet experience.
Male (56) Strasburg, Virginia
whip sub into lots of kinks. esp. restraints, gags, ***, and of course, floggings/whippings. Gear in the pic is mine for you to *** and degrade me. prefer anonymous or mostly anonymous.
Alpha & Dom country kinda guy, looking for a sweet sub omega to settle down with start a new chapter with.
Male (28) Chantilly, Virginia
40 year old Nylon and Pantyhose fetishist looking for like minded individuals for friends, fun and more. Open to dates and relationships, just depends on chemistry between us. My list of fetishes is wide and varied. Feel free to ask and I will be more than happy to share and discuss. If you think you're into something that I may or may not be into and want to discuss, let me know. I don't judge and know that everyone has something that turns them on. Outside of fetishes, I'm a tech nerd who works in IT and enjoys video games, board games, movies, music, concerts and getting outdoors when I can. Also on a bit of a health and fitness journey at the moment, so always down for gym buddies as well. Have lost 40+ pounds since February 2025, and still working on myself.
Male (40) Lake Ridge, Virginia
Looking for a decent guy that just wants to be serviced. I’m literally just your toy. Into hanging nude, worshipping nice cocks. NSA
Male (33) Chantilly, Virginia
I'm very new to the kink lifestyle. I've never done anything, but love watching videos and am very curious to explore my kink side fully
Male (42) Mint Spring, Virginia
love to take dick and please my master also like to be a cumdump for big dick daddies I'm very very shy too so you will have to teach me how you like to be pleasured
Male (29) Bancroft, West Virginia
In an open poly relationship with my amazing husband of 14 yrs, we are looking for a possible third, someone to hang out with, go out to the bar, stay home. cuddle, and watch movies with, or a game night, maybe go camping, maybe some hiking, go to the beach, leather events, if it gets there, we do play together and separately We are also looking for another couple to play with, maybe form a polycule with, if things work out Please have a pic or send one in first msg or get blocked
Male (43) Norfolk, Virginia
we're both 60 and healthy. looking to explore a more dom sub lifestyle with someone or a couple we can get to know. really interested in meeting someone Trans that we can get to know as friends and for possible sex. we have a sling.... really into fisting and toys.
Male (61) Bakerton, West Virginia
a fun loving guy who is becoming more open minded and willing to explore down the rabbit hole of kinks and fetishes to fully understand his body and what he likes vs doesn't within the bedroom and a relationship type of setting with a partner.
Male (34) Culpeper, Virginia
open to just about anything, hoping to find a partner that would be into the same things I’m into. If you’re interested message me on insta: matthew_c_burt or snap: matthewcb05
Male (20) Alexandria, Virginia
im jus chill n laid bac n go wit the flow i can be very submisive at times depending on the vibe i host and veey freaky lol i do like fun but lookin for gud people to meet if u wanna kno more please hmu
Male (35) Concord, Virginia
im a very shy and introverted personality. im looking for attractive vanilla men who are down to flirt and get dirty in the bedroom. I have a foot fetish. I prefer my men to have size 13 plus shoe size. don't be lying about your shoe size now, lol. it's just a shoe size. Why lie about it. be real with me, and I'll be real with you. no catfish, no scams, sm's, or sd's(sugar mommas) or (sugar daddies). please have a face pic. im out and not ashamed.
Male (27) Chesapeake, Virginia
I'm a gay cis intellectual that can talk about anything. 420 friendly. I like cis and trans guys, preferably smaller than me (I'm 6'1) so I can dom and breed them. Clean. on prep. I want to find a son to chill with and use for sexual gratification from time to time.
Male (39) Burke, Virginia
Hi I’m a super kinky furry femboy who’s into pup play, ***, ***, older dudes, and basically everything else!
Male (18) Springfield, Virginia

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I AM A GUY PLEASE YALL I’m looking for a 24/7 dynamic, I am strictly a sub, I want to come home from my blue collar job and not have to make any decisions. I wanna get to know each other so I can give you my entire life :)
Male (21) Newport News, Virginia
i’m fat, black, and farts get me horny. especially from other black guys. i want another man to fart on my face, lap, dick, anywhere and vice versa. i’m not looking for sex but someone who’s not afraid of letting a big fart out and we can bust together to the sounds and smells.
Male (27) Hampton, Virginia
active and pretty outgoing/confident in public but very submissive and sensitive behind closed doors.
Male (32) Norfolk, Virginia
new to this site. looking for a LTR with a guy that has the same kinks as me. I love to smell, and as much as I hate to admit it I’m a little bit of a furry. I like leather. I love lycra thongs. I love to sniff sweaty underwear, thongs, shoes. if you have that good stink, I wanna sniff it. I’m a versatile (top and bottom). ask me for more.
Male (38) Earlysville, Virginia
**NO WOMEN** I May be in a human suit but I'm actually a cat I move like one I do pet play, and I'm also very clean like a cat whenever I play I take a shower and if I'm going to be bottoming a total shower power WAND wash clean out that takes me a full hour for my process to be totally clean. lately I've been enjoying threesomes but I'm also very at home with just one-on-ones and you can be a bottom, versatile or top. Prefer to eventually find a Dom seeking a non-live in pet experience.
Male (56) Strasburg, Virginia
I'm very new to the kink lifestyle. I've never done anything, but love watching videos and am very curious to explore my kink side fully
Male (42) Mint Spring, Virginia
New to openly discussing things, and I don't really know anyone in the bdsm community. I'm definitely leaning towards the shy side of things, which isn't really like me. It'd be cool if anyone wanted to chat, talk, or just say "Hello". I'm most likely going to wait for another person to break the ice because I'm kinda lost here. I consider myself a decent conversationalist, am easy to get to know, and genuinely curious about others. I will definitely edit this if I stick around these parts.
Male (45) Doswell, Virginia
love to take dick and please my master also like to be a cumdump for big dick daddies I'm very very shy too so you will have to teach me how you like to be pleasured
Male (29) Bancroft, West Virginia
In an open poly relationship with my amazing husband of 14 yrs, we are looking for a possible third, someone to hang out with, go out to the bar, stay home. cuddle, and watch movies with, or a game night, maybe go camping, maybe some hiking, go to the beach, leather events, if it gets there, we do play together and separately We are also looking for another couple to play with, maybe form a polycule with, if things work out Please have a pic or send one in first msg or get blocked
Male (43) Norfolk, Virginia
I am a very sweet, kind, and caring guy, and very easy to get along with. I love the outdoors, hiking, swimming, all of that. I like being with friends, but I like my peace too. Love being completely naked, and I'll get and stay naked as long as I can, wherever I can. Love doing it outdoors, in the bed, living room, kitchen, many places. After getting completely naked, it'll start out soft and easy. Don't let all that fool you. When very horny and by the end of it all, your throat and ass would be sore. I can get really rough, and you'll know much of a b***h you are.
Male (43) Roanoke, Virginia
No expectations in meeting, rather let whatever happens happen. with that, open to friends, play, dates, mates or finding a Daddy. get lost in my head sometimes so hoping to find someone who enjoys getting me out.
Male (50) Roanoke, Virginia
open to just about anything, hoping to find a partner that would be into the same things I’m into. If you’re interested message me on insta: matthew_c_burt or snap: matthewcb05
Male (20) Alexandria, Virginia
40 year old Nylon and Pantyhose fetishist looking for like minded individuals for friends, fun and more. Open to dates and relationships, just depends on chemistry between us. My list of fetishes is wide and varied. Feel free to ask and I will be more than happy to share and discuss. If you think you're into something that I may or may not be into and want to discuss, let me know. I don't judge and know that everyone has something that turns them on. Outside of fetishes, I'm a tech nerd who works in IT and enjoys video games, board games, movies, music, concerts and getting outdoors when I can. Also on a bit of a health and fitness journey at the moment, so always down for gym buddies as well. Have lost 40+ pounds since February 2025, and still working on myself.
Male (40) Lake Ridge, Virginia
I'm a nine*** year old gay trans man. I love to read, write, and cook, and I currently work as a line cook. Not looking for LTR, just short-term fun and/or a D/S dynamic
Dom top looking for a sub bottom. Into bondage, edging, roleplay, light cbt, real discipline. Oprn to discuss more.
Male (54) Richmond, Virginia
im jus chill n laid bac n go wit the flow i can be very submisive at times depending on the vibe i host and veey freaky lol i do like fun but lookin for gud people to meet if u wanna kno more please hmu
Male (35) Concord, Virginia
im a very shy and introverted personality. im looking for attractive vanilla men who are down to flirt and get dirty in the bedroom. I have a foot fetish. I prefer my men to have size 13 plus shoe size. don't be lying about your shoe size now, lol. it's just a shoe size. Why lie about it. be real with me, and I'll be real with you. no catfish, no scams, sm's, or sd's(sugar mommas) or (sugar daddies). please have a face pic. im out and not ashamed.
Male (27) Chesapeake, Virginia
we're both 60 and healthy. looking to explore a more dom sub lifestyle with someone or a couple we can get to know. really interested in meeting someone Trans that we can get to know as friends and for possible sex. we have a sling.... really into fisting and toys.
Male (61) Bakerton, West Virginia
Alpha & Dom country kinda guy, looking for a sweet sub omega to settle down with start a new chapter with.
Male (28) Chantilly, Virginia
Hi I’m a super kinky furry femboy who’s into pup play, ***, ***, older dudes, and basically everything else!
Male (18) Springfield, Virginia
I'm here looking for new faces to chat and mingle with, hopefully spark some romantic interest. what interests me, you ask. feet and feet wear. socks, slides, sandals, Crocs, flip flops, and Birkenstocks. I like men with big and sexy feet. my all-star, favorite celebrity crush must have big feet with sexy veins. I love the meat and tenderness of another man's feet. aside from. that I can be a man pleaser. but that's only when I want to be. my other freaky side is telling me to strip down and let another man spank me with the palm of his hand and talk dirty to me. I'm a fetishist and submissive power bottom. sex is always safe, and I practice using condoms with my partner. But if I don't say I prefer sex with you upon initial conversation, don't get offended. I just don't know you that well to trust you right off the bat. let's build a relationship first. then we can see. im a trans man, in the process of....you know
Male (27) Chesapeake, Virginia
Still learning my limits and interests try new things and trying to keep an open mind. feed off other people’s energy so the more verbal or wild they are then I tend to match energy. like a verbal partner who knows what they want and willing to vocalize their boundaries
Male (42) Portsmouth, Virginia
West coast transplant, miss the leather parties of the Pacific Northwest. Tend to be more sub when things are right, otherwise wind up coming off Dom due to experience and work experience as a trainer. Looking for Dom men who know what they are doing, comfortable with a variety of fetish activities and situations.
Male (45) Danville, Virginia
Here to look for adventure. Newly self locked who enjoys the Dom/Sub relations w/ my role as Sub. Possibly looking for a Trainer. Dm me and see where our chat takes us.
Male (39) Norfolk, Virginia

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