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✨l'appel du vide✨ --- 🚨Moving to Denver Area ETA June 2026🚨 --- Vaxxed. COVID Boosted (x4). UTD on HEP A/B & HPV. STI tested: 10/13/25 HSV-1 positive — ***transparency is sexy.*** Sterilized- 02/01/24. Now that the paperwork’s done... let’s get to the good stuff. --- ✨ Connection Before Kink ✨ --- Name’s Punk. Say it right—or don’t say it at all. --- I don’t just identify as a problem. I am one. Deliciously so. --- In the lifestyle since 2012, but still devouring knowledge like it’s foreplay. --- Kink-curious since 13 (thanks, Laurell K. Hamilton—you corrupted me early). --- Stoner. Weirdo. Chaos in cute packaging. --- Nerd credentials: video games, D&D (currently GMing), and books you could absolutely spank me with. --- Mischief manager 🐀🐾 --- I gaze at the stars and name them after my moods. --- Obsessed with ***s, and I volunteer with a local rescue; because softness is power. --- ⛓️The Kinky Bits⛓️ --- Brat. Not a phase. Not a role. It’s a lifestyle. Sub-leaning switch with a sharp tongue and softer underbelly (for the right hands). --- 14+ year kink experience. Looking to grow, explore, and maybe kneel—if you earn it. Not collecting humans, building connections. Curious and cravey, but not careless. I flirt with intention. Married (date separately) poly/enm. (Ask me about it) Yes please: Friends ✨ Community ✨ D/s dynamic ✨ Dating ✨ Kinky friends ✨ ⛓️I do not play sexually with those I haven't built a solid mental/emotional connection/relationship with.⛓️ Please don’t test that boundary. It won’t end in your favor. Dating me is like biting into an oatmeal raisin cookie and realizing it's chocolate chip and then realizing two hours later it was also an edible. --- == Results from bdsmtest.org: == 100% Brat 100% Degradee 100% Switch 96% Submissive 96% Little 94% Degrader 93% Primal (Prey) 90% Ageplayer 89% Dominant 89% Sadist 88% Voyeur 88% Brat tamer 82% Owner 82% Masochist 79% Experimentalist 74% Master/Mistress 66% Primal (Hunter) 63% Exhibitionist 62% Non-monogamist 46% Rigger 24% Pet 24% Rope bunny 16% Slave 10% Daddy/Mommy 0% Vanilla https://bdsmtest.org/r/vYDrbYYV
Female (32) Woodbridge, Virginia
Into kind fun people who want to get naked and kinky Have hsv2, manage it with medication, Have bf 💘, here just for me.
Female (42) Charlottesville, Virginia
Hi! I'm a sub who's into creative writing - I aspire to be a writer someday. I'm also into witchcraft, and I'm a big fan of dnd the roleplaying game. Those are just some of the things about me. I'm hoping to meet a person looking for a serious relationship here :)
Female (25) Centreville, Virginia
hi babes i'm back!!! did you miss me daddy? used to be brattylilbunnyxox3 but i'm back and ass is phatter than ever titties plump too. i'm here to be a little slut have a good time show my tits and meet some fun cool people. maybe have some fun dates club nigh outs. i'm a brat and love to tease so come party with me so i can flash and grind against you all night Afro Caribbean,spiritual, gemini, pansexual
Female (25) Gainesville, Virginia
I rule through presence, precision, and psychological depth. For those who crave direction and crave a space where strength meets surrender, I offer guidance with purpose and power.
Female (45) Leesburg, Virginia
:fire: **Not here for quick scenes, pen pals, or long-distance power trips. If you’re real, local, age-appropriate(ish), and ready for more, read on.** :fire: In my everyday life, I’m the one in charge. I lead, manage chaos, and take care of everyone else. But behind closed doors, I want to let it go and be released from the confines of my own hypervigilance and self-inflicted independence. I want an emotionally present man whose authority is tangible and absolute: someone who doesn’t stand down or ask for permission but knows how to take control, handle me, and put me exactly where I belong—back into my feminine energy. I like strength with care and guidance toward my ultimate good, dominance with follow-through, and a man who can pin me down, correct me when I get mouthy, and still hold me afterward to remind me that I’m deeply kept and cherished, despite my many faults. I’m soft, curvy, service-driven, and very aware of how useful I can be to the right man. Explicit direction turns me on. Praise and punishment both have their place. I like intensity, impact, free use, the juxtaposition and mixing of *** and praise, being pushed to my edge, and being reminded that I’m your filthy little problem to deal with. I want to give myself fully, but only after a solid, fulfilling emotional connection comes first. I’m not here for hit-it-and-quit-it kink or being someone’s weekend fantasy. The dynamic I hold out for centers around depth, mutual care, and consistency. I recognize it’s a tall order. I’m worth it. Some of my favorite fantasies live right on the line between safety and surrender. Handing you the key. Knowing you’d show up without asking. Slipping in quietly while I sleep and taking what’s yours, always with trust and restraint behind the power. I want a level of ownership with a man who sees the human behind the filthy mouth and perverse desires. I’m ONLY looking for a serious, long-term, monogamous relationship with someone who is local, emotionally-available, age-appropriate (38+ish), and has actual, lived-out experience in all aspects of this lifestyle (not merely self-identifying as a Dominant because he has anger to work out and enjoys throwing someone around the bedroom). If you want something casual or short-term, I’m not your girl. If you want to build something real and take responsibility for what you claim, my DM’s are open. ❤️ (But be careful in how you approach — I’m quick to block.) **How I like men to communicate with me:** **Yes**, please, Daddy: :bite:** - Respectful, direct communication - Interest in a long-term, monogamous relationship - Clear intentions and honest follow-through - Calm confidence and emotional maturity - Curiosity about me as a person, not just sex - Boundaries taken seriously the first time **No, Sir (respectfully): 🙅‍♀️** - Leading with sex or sexual messages - Disrespectful or dismissive communication - Pushing after I’ve said no or I’m not interested - Cut and paste messages you’ve sent to dozens of other women/low effort - Looking for quick fixes, casual, or short-term dynamics - Poly, open, or ethically non-monogamous setups ——— My dirty code: https://dirtycode.io/U02WN == Results from bdsmtest.org: == 100% Degradee 100% Rope bunny 96% Submissive 92% Voyeur 91% Exhibitionist 83% Masochist 75% Pet 73% Experimentalist 66% Brat 53% Slave 22% Non-monogamist 20% Rigger 19% Primal (Prey) 18% Vanilla 12% Master/Mistress 12% Sadist 10% Dominant 9% Owner 7% Switch 6% Brat tamer 4% Daddy/Mommy 2% Primal (Hunter) 2% Degrader 0% Ageplayer 0% Little
Female (46) Alexandria, Virginia
Hi! I’m Darling, I am not new to kink but I guess I am new on acting on it. I am currently separate and working on a divorce. I am very submissive and shy, especially at first, but once I trust you I am probably the biggest goofball you’ll ever meet. I play DnD, have a custom PC, LOVE renfaires, FX makeup, and lots more(: I have been really wanting to explore with a hard-dom and also more of my little side. I have kind of suppressed it, and I understand it’s a bit harder to explain. I just really, really like being taken care of. I take care of everyone in my life, I have everything on my shoulders, and i’d just like to be on the other end of it for once :relaxed: I like em mean, dominant, bossy, and I like to be put in my place. However my “no” needs to be respected (like safe word). *I have autism so I have a hard time reading certain situations. It’s better to just be up front with me, I’ll understand:) **
Female (26) Lynchburg, Virginia
Hello, nice to meet you. Just call me Kay. I needed a platform and website to promote my escorting business and expand it as well as a place my clientele could go to as a means to get to know me personally. Looking to pick up new clients along the way 🤪♥️
Female (34) Morgantown, West Virginia
Hi, thanks for looking at my profile. I am new to the kinky lifestyle, looking to find my nitch. I am leaning towards switch due to the fact I am independent and like to control , but my nurturing side would submit in a trusted connection. Looking for local friends to do outdoor activities with, hike, camp, horseback ride.
Female (58) Fincastle, Virginia
Looking for middle aged dominant men to fuck me into a haze and make me obsessed. Monogamous once I find the one who can do that.
Female (26) Virginia Beach, Virginia
NO Sex, NO nudity on my part, NO long distance. I am looking for subs who want to help me explore my Domme side. I currently have 2 subs in my collection. Experience with sissification, pegging, light bondage, CBT, ***, flogging, crops, whips, canes, violet wands (electricity) and still looking to explore more. I will never ask you for *** but you will need to provide any materials for playtime, as I do not cross-share toys between subs for sanitary reasons. Open to 24/7 dynamic or scheduled play/sessions. Looking for subs 30 or older, with some, none, or a lot of experience. I am open to spending time inside and outside the bedroom, depending on how we connect. Looking for obedient little worshipers who listen, mind, and are eager to please. If you message, please include your experience, your proclivities, and what kind of dynamic you are interested in. This demonstrates your ability to take instruction and let's me know who has actually taken the time to read my profile.
Female (44) Norfolk, Virginia
I am a big believer in physical attraction/chemistry as the starting point of a potential relationship. Without chemistry, there is no point in going any further. I believe there has to be a balance of give and take in a relationship.
Female (35) Chesapeake, Virginia
Experienced FemDom and sensual sadist offering a refined blend of control, pleasure, and discipline. I specialize in power exchange, mental domination, tease & denial, financial domination, and custom content tailored to your kinks. For the obedient, I’m your reward. For the defiant, I’m your reckoning. Know your place, and you may just earn my attention.
Female (48) Bluefield, West Virginia
I enjoy deep conversations, but I also value lighthearted and fun moments. I believe that every encounter leaves something behind, and that's why I always try to. leave a positive impact on others. Let try out hillaryaddor2seven7 art gee maletofindout.
Female (53) Newport News, Virginia
I'm Audrey I'm 26 little one in VA willing to relocate to you. little age is 5 wanna become a full time live in little .
Female (26) Virginia Beach, Virginia
I am real. I do not have my face on my profile for privacy. I am mainly for a female that I can play with 😍 women really turn me on, squirt in my mouth and all over me 💦 For Men: I like men that love to eat pussy and ass. I also like to give golden streams
Female (31) Hampton, Virginia
I'm a young Dominatrix confident and ready to empower you to embrace your desire and discard your shame because life is too short be happy and enjoy the moment
Female (34) Ashburn, Virginia
I’m bad at these things i am good girl , but I can be bratty . My mouth can get me into a lot of trouble but I do try my hardest ☺️ I’m eager to Learn and try new things I’m Not looking for a relationship but maybe something in the future or some type of dynamic I won’t send pictures unless I’m 10000% sure you’re who you say you are , so don’t ask Please don’t send dick pics , I’ll block you quickly Please be respectful , you will get a lot farther if you are I prefer tall strong men someone I can climb lol 1 1/2 or 2 feet taller then me (I’m 4’10 ) fun facts : I love all types of music but I sing country music Sharks are my favorite *** If you wanna know more just ask ☺️
Female (29) Virginia Beach, Virginia
I am a busy woman. I have a high sex drive. I am very playful so brattiness is just second nature. I'm willing to try new things. My other half is linked in the relationship portion of my profile.
Female (31) Madison Heights, Virginia
I am a loyal, honest, simple woman, well-educated, easy-going, positive, and a happy woman. I like to learn new things and take adventures. I'm sincere, kind, optimistic, gentle, single-minded, beautiful, elegant, sunny, reasonable, and love life. I enjoy every day life and always happy and positive.
Female (45) Norfolk, Virginia
Uhh. Hi. You can call me Chaos haha. I am 31, a mom of one, CNA to 3, NSFW script Writer. Sadomasochistic, switchy, brat. I probably won't be on here much cause I work all the time, but *shrugs* ya never know. Don't come at me with demands for honorifics or my submission. That shit is earned.
Female (31) Collinsville, Virginia
I want to start, and haven't quite figured out what I need to tell you. More about me then? Mkay. I'm quiet, I'm more than likely spending nights in. You know the drill? The usual suspects. True crime Dark romance-o.g. Anne Rice/Rampling/A. N. Roquelaure, until she went kinda off the rails and she lost me. I haven't read new smut in a decade. fae, were, vampire, etc Martinis are gin and filthy. 3 olives 🖤 Sherlock/Doctor Who/Torchwood/Supernatural What am I looking for? I'm not sure. Not really. I know women fill a need in me. Most certainly friends. I want to learn about you! Talk soon 💋
Female (42) Roanoke, Virginia
I am looking for a female for friendship and fun, I am married but he will not be involved. Would love to find a local female for ongoing fun. I am free and cannot mail so if interested , mail me...
Female (58) Martinsville, Virginia
Maybe a bit jaded, a little sarcastic, there's just about nothing I haven't at least _seen_, in my time on the internet. Don't be a creep and you'll do fine. If you come at me talking about how you're going to pay all my bills or how much you want to nut on me, I'm probably going to immediately delete the message and go on about my life~ I have experience as a pro dominatrix and a sex-worker, in my early-20s, and you're just not going to surprise me, hon! Got questions? Ask them! I live life pretty freely and enjoy fixing up my old house, when I can do so. I'm not terribly exciting, but I have lived a hell of a life.
Female (33) Morgantown, West Virginia

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✨l'appel du vide✨ --- 🚨Moving to Denver Area ETA June 2026🚨 --- Vaxxed. COVID Boosted (x4). UTD on HEP A/B & HPV. STI tested: 10/13/25 HSV-1 positive — ***transparency is sexy.*** Sterilized- 02/01/24. Now that the paperwork’s done... let’s get to the good stuff. --- ✨ Connection Before Kink ✨ --- Name’s Punk. Say it right—or don’t say it at all. --- I don’t just identify as a problem. I am one. Deliciously so. --- In the lifestyle since 2012, but still devouring knowledge like it’s foreplay. --- Kink-curious since 13 (thanks, Laurell K. Hamilton—you corrupted me early). --- Stoner. Weirdo. Chaos in cute packaging. --- Nerd credentials: video games, D&D (currently GMing), and books you could absolutely spank me with. --- Mischief manager 🐀🐾 --- I gaze at the stars and name them after my moods. --- Obsessed with ***s, and I volunteer with a local rescue; because softness is power. --- ⛓️The Kinky Bits⛓️ --- Brat. Not a phase. Not a role. It’s a lifestyle. Sub-leaning switch with a sharp tongue and softer underbelly (for the right hands). --- 14+ year kink experience. Looking to grow, explore, and maybe kneel—if you earn it. Not collecting humans, building connections. Curious and cravey, but not careless. I flirt with intention. Married (date separately) poly/enm. (Ask me about it) Yes please: Friends ✨ Community ✨ D/s dynamic ✨ Dating ✨ Kinky friends ✨ ⛓️I do not play sexually with those I haven't built a solid mental/emotional connection/relationship with.⛓️ Please don’t test that boundary. It won’t end in your favor. Dating me is like biting into an oatmeal raisin cookie and realizing it's chocolate chip and then realizing two hours later it was also an edible. --- == Results from bdsmtest.org: == 100% Brat 100% Degradee 100% Switch 96% Submissive 96% Little 94% Degrader 93% Primal (Prey) 90% Ageplayer 89% Dominant 89% Sadist 88% Voyeur 88% Brat tamer 82% Owner 82% Masochist 79% Experimentalist 74% Master/Mistress 66% Primal (Hunter) 63% Exhibitionist 62% Non-monogamist 46% Rigger 24% Pet 24% Rope bunny 16% Slave 10% Daddy/Mommy 0% Vanilla https://bdsmtest.org/r/vYDrbYYV
Female (32) Woodbridge, Virginia
Into kind fun people who want to get naked and kinky Have hsv2, manage it with medication, Have bf 💘, here just for me.
Female (42) Charlottesville, Virginia
Maybe a bit jaded, a little sarcastic, there's just about nothing I haven't at least _seen_, in my time on the internet. Don't be a creep and you'll do fine. If you come at me talking about how you're going to pay all my bills or how much you want to nut on me, I'm probably going to immediately delete the message and go on about my life~ I have experience as a pro dominatrix and a sex-worker, in my early-20s, and you're just not going to surprise me, hon! Got questions? Ask them! I live life pretty freely and enjoy fixing up my old house, when I can do so. I'm not terribly exciting, but I have lived a hell of a life.
Female (33) Morgantown, West Virginia
I am happy, calm, warm, honest, independent woman, positive outlook on life, highly respectful to myself and others, sincere and kindhearted. I would like to find my best friend; interested in sharing a relationship with a simple-easy going, caring, giving and loving man. One of my strongest characteristics; i am a one woman man, i know, its difficult to find my soul mate but no impossible, when i said that i am honest, sincere and trustworthy i meant it. I enjoy movies, beach/park walks holding hands, travel, long drives, music (except rap,rock), gardening, cooking, quiet time at home, family gets together, as well being pampered and spoiled when time and circumstances permits it to marriage. Who is this man i am looking for??"
Female (37) Fredericksburg, Virginia
Just be smart and take a look at my username and get back to me to get to know each other more better
Just be smart and take a look at my username and get back to me to get to know each other more better...
Female (38) Leesburg, Virginia
I am a caring woman who likes yoga , Kayaking , reading and most importantly , i do love camping each weekend with both my family and friends . ask me all you need to know
Female (40) Norfolk, Virginia
When I am in love, I transform into a sweet angel, radiating warmth and tenderness. My greatest desire is to make you feel as if you're floating in paradise, taking away the weight of your worries and enveloping you in bliss. Yet, beneath this gentle exterior lies a little devil, burning with passion and an irresistible fervor just for you. I thrive on unpredictability, but only the man I cherish will uncover the depths of my true self; I promise to hold nothing back, sharing every layer of who I am with you.
Female (45) Ashburn, Virginia
I am a loyal, honest, simple woman, well-educated, easy-going, positive, and a happy woman. I like to learn new things and take adventures. I'm sincere, kind, optimistic, gentle, single-minded, beautiful, elegant, sunny, reasonable, and love life. I enjoy every day life and always happy and positive.
Female (45) Norfolk, Virginia
I know how to listen and speak so that the conversation becomes a real exchange of energy. It will not be boring with me, I know how to be philosophical, ironic and childishly sincere. I dream of a family not as a beautiful picture, but as a real partnership, where there is respect, support, passion and a feeling of a shoulder nearby. I am not looking for compromises with emptiness, I am looking for a man with whom we will be a real team.
Female (39) Leesburg, Virginia
I want to be topped and told what to do. I have trouble rememebering to eat, brush my hair, and do simple things to take care of myself, so I would like a dom to help me with those things. DO NOT CALL ME 'BABYGIRL', the name 'babygirl' has very bad connotations for me, so PLS don't call me that!
Female (19) Fredericksburg, Virginia
I am an authentic determined woman with a clear vision of what I want to build in my life. I don't let myself be influenced by appearances or prejudices; I believe what truly matters is what you carry within. I like to live with purpose, enjoy the small details, and stay open to new experiences. I'm not afraid to cross boundaries whether physical or emotional if the destination is worth it. Age or distance don't scare me, what interests me is a real connection, the kind that can't be explained it can only be felt. If you're curious to know more about me just dare to take the first step. Sometimes the best stories begin with a simple hello.
Female (45) Richmond, Virginia
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Female (49) Harrisonburg, Virginia
Hello, nice to meet you. Just call me Kay. I needed a platform and website to promote my escorting business and expand it as well as a place my clientele could go to as a means to get to know me personally. Looking to pick up new clients along the way 🤪♥️
Female (34) Morgantown, West Virginia
Howdy! I'm a "good girl" submissive pansexual woman. Interested in communicating with doms of any gender between the ages of 25-45. Please see my list of kinks below. It's not full, so please feel free to ask me about anything additional. I'm an open book and I aim to please.
Female (30) Winchester, Virginia
I am a strong-willed woman. I'm ready to fight for love. I am very strong on the outside and very *** on the inside. I'm very comfortable with my own sexuality and aware of my sexual energy as well. Emotional responsibility is always my slave. I have my own sense of style. I am honest, I always have a positive outlook. Life can't always be a bed of roses and at some point in your relationship, you and your partner will disagree. It's completely normal and even inevitable. But a relationship can only work if both partners are willing to compromise
Female (42) Herndon, Virginia
I am a polite, well-mannered, well-educated woman. I am a creative, communicative and open person. I smile a lot and can encourage my friends with positive words.
Female (45) Virginia Beach, Virginia
I am a loving, romantic, caring, loyal, affectionate, humorous witty woman that knows how to treat a man. I am a firm believer that beauty is only skin deep and that real beauty comes from within and that there has to be chemistry and attraction between two people to stand any chance of working. I love to cook and be social. I am not a player or into one night stands. I am not into drama or negativity as I’m a ver positive person and will not let anyone drain my energy. i have been single for some years now and feel ready to start a new chapter in my life. I have good morals and family values. i like to keep myself fit and take pride in my appearance.I love a good night out and a dance there is much more to me, but you will have to get to know me better to learn more ❤️
Female (53) Herndon, Virginia
I am a woman who loves to create. Cooking inspires me, because I prepare not just meals, but small joys for my loved ones; art helps me express emotions and see beauty in details; traveling broadens my horizons and teaches me to appreciate different cultures. I am curious and sensitive, I love listening to people, learning new things and sharing knowledge. I look for harmony in everything and believe that life becomes real when there is love, understanding and mutual care.
Female (45) Stephens City, Virginia
I am looking for something real ,casual understanding life partner who want make things real and respect ,honest,loyal,sincere and long term relationship which will lead us marriage level . I am passoinate person i love cuddle i like to somebody how i fee not just telling them
Female (38) Ashburn, Virginia
I am looking for a female for friendship and fun, I am married but he will not be involved. Would love to find a local female for ongoing fun. I am free and cannot mail so if interested , mail me...
Female (58) Martinsville, Virginia
You have not met such a calm girl like me! You can talk to me for hours. My mom and friends say that I can hear people. I really think that every person should be listened to and supported. I do not think that this is a very good trait of my character. And I hope that this will be one big plus in communication here! If you want to get to know me better, write to me and I will tell you.
Female (43) Lake Ridge, Virginia
I am sincere, cheerful and friendly. I want to find a relationship in which I can be myself. I dream of cooking delicious breakfasts and talking about life over dinner. A warm home with lots of hugs are what I need. Be smart katelynncunni at gm
Female (32) Herndon, Virginia
First of all, Don’t know how this work but my location is not right here . I would describe myself as someone who is easy going, flexible, and considerate. I can easily talk to people. I also have a smiling personality that has become my asset for my work. I am also flexible because I like to learn new things and develop new skills. I believe I am someone who doesn't stop learning in life
Female (41) Charlottesville, Virginia

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