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I’m a pretty laid back girl. I like to have fun. I love cooking dinner at home, watching Netflix and snuggling on the couch. I’m open minded I have a good sense of humor I’m looking for someone who has the same energy and desire to get to know each other.
Female (45) Virginia Beach, Virginia
I rule through presence, precision, and psychological depth. For those who crave direction and crave a space where strength meets surrender, I offer guidance with purpose and power.
Female (45) Leesburg, Virginia
Maybe a bit jaded, a little sarcastic, there's just about nothing I haven't at least _seen_, in my time on the internet. Don't be a creep and you'll do fine. If you come at me talking about how you're going to pay all my bills or how much you want to nut on me, I'm probably going to immediately delete the message and go on about my life~ I have experience as a pro dominatrix and a sex-worker, in my early-20s, and you're just not going to surprise me, hon! Got questions? Ask them! I live life pretty freely and enjoy fixing up my old house, when I can do so. I'm not terribly exciting, but I have lived a hell of a life.
Female (33) Morgantown, West Virginia
I am a caring woman who likes yoga , Kayaking , reading and most importantly , i do love camping each weekend with both my family and friends . ask me all you need to know
Female (39) Norfolk, Virginia
i am a captivating mistress, blending playful dominance with a touch of sensuality. I thrive on exploring desires, pushing boundaries, and creating unforgettable experiences for my submissive. weather you're eager to serve or just curious, I'm here to guide you on a thrilling journey of pleasure and power.
Female (35) Herndon, Virginia
I am happy, calm, warm, honest, independent woman, positive outlook on life, highly respectful to myself and others, sincere and kindhearted. I would like to find my best friend; interested in sharing a relationship with a simple-easy going, caring, giving and loving man. One of my strongest characteristics; i am a one woman man, i know, its difficult to find my soul mate but no impossible, when i said that i am honest, sincere and trustworthy i meant it. I enjoy movies, beach/park walks holding hands, travel, long drives, music (except rap,rock), gardening, cooking, quiet time at home, family gets together, as well being pampered and spoiled when time and circumstances permits it to marriage. Who is this man i am looking for??"
Female (37) Fredericksburg, Virginia
I am a loyal, honest, simple woman, well-educated, easy-going, positive, and a happy woman. I like to learn new things and take adventures. I'm sincere, kind, optimistic, gentle, single-minded, beautiful, elegant, sunny, reasonable, and love life. I enjoy every day life and always happy and positive.
Female (45) Norfolk, Virginia
Hi! I’m Darling, I am not new to kink but I guess I am new on acting on it. I am currently separate and working on a divorce. I am very submissive and shy, especially at first, but once I trust you I am probably the biggest goofball you’ll ever meet. I play DnD, have a custom PC, LOVE renfaires, FX makeup, and lots more(: I have been really wanting to explore with a hard-dom and also more of my little side. I have kind of suppressed it, and I understand it’s a bit harder to explain. I just really, really like being taken care of. I take care of everyone in my life, I have everything on my shoulders, and *** just like to be on the other end of it for once :relaxed: I like em mean, dominant, bossy, and I like to be put in my place. However my “no” needs to be respected (like safe word). *I have autism so I have a hard time reading certain situations. It’s better to just be up front with me, I’ll understand:) **
Female (26) Lynchburg, Virginia
Hi! I'm a sub who's into creative writing - I aspire to be a writer someday. I'm also into witchcraft, and I'm a big fan of dnd the roleplaying game. Those are just some of the things about me. I'm hoping to meet a person looking for a serious relationship here :)
Female (25) Centreville, Virginia
I’m bad at these things i am good girl , but I can be bratty . My mouth can get me into a lot of trouble but I do try my hardest ☺️ I’m eager to Learn and try new things I’m Not looking for a relationship but maybe something in the future or some type of dynamic I won’t send pictures unless I’m 10000% sure you’re who you say you are , so don’t ask Please don’t send dick pics , I’ll block you quickly Please be respectful , you will get a lot farther if you are I prefer tall strong men someone I can climb lol 1 1/2 or 2 feet taller then me (I’m 4’10 ) fun facts : I love all types of music but I sing country music Sharks are my favorite *** If you wanna know more just ask ☺️
Female (28) Virginia Beach, Virginia
Just be smart and take a look at my username and get back to me to get to know each other more better...
Female (38) Leesburg, Virginia
No sex, no LTR. Wanting to explore my Domme side. New Domme with one current sub and looking for more. Some experience with sissification, light bondage, CBT, flogging, crops, whips, canes, and violet wand (electricity). You will need to provide toys. Open to 24/7 dynamic or scheduled play. Looking for older subs (30 is my minimum age) with some or a lot of experience. I am open to spending time outside the bedroom as well as kinky time, depending on how we connect. Looking for voyeuristic subs, as I would like to get to a point where I can record content. If you message, please include your experience, your proclivities, and what kind of dynamic you would like. This demonstrates your ability to take instruction and let's me know who has actually taken the time to read my profile.
Female (43) Chesapeake, Virginia
Hello, nice to meet you. Just call me Kay. I needed a platform and website to promote my escorting business and expand it as well as a place my clientele could go to as a means to get to know me personally. Looking to pick up new clients along the way 🤪♥️
Female (34) Morgantown, West Virginia
I want to find the one who will not have secrets from me and will be a cheerful and loving person. He should be soft and kind, friendly, reliable, firm, responsible, though extremely tender and sweet to me. I want to find a nice and interesting man who beli we eves in trusting and respectful relations between people ... Since we are both seeking one thing would like us to give our selves the chance in talking more to see if chemistry do reveals ..
Female (30) Roanoke, Virginia
I know how to listen and speak so that the conversation becomes a real exchange of energy. It will not be boring with me, I know how to be philosophical, ironic and childishly sincere. I dream of a family not as a beautiful picture, but as a real partnership, where there is respect, support, passion and a feeling of a shoulder nearby. I am not looking for compromises with emptiness, I am looking for a man with whom we will be a real team.
Female (39) Leesburg, Virginia
hi babes i'm back!!! did you miss me daddy? used to be brattylilbunnyxox3 but i'm back and ass is phatter than ever titties plump too. i'm here to be a little slut have a good time show my tits and meet some fun cool people. maybe have some fun dates club nigh outs. i'm a brat and love to tease so come party with me so i can flash and grind against you all night Afro Caribbean,spiritual, gemini, pansexual
Female (25) Manassas, Virginia
I am in Raleigh county of Beckley WV. No idea why it keeps saying just Raleigh I am not in the Carolina's. I find it really ridiculous that so many people say they are Dom but they are not wanting to be in a relationship. You cannot use the word Dom to be a player the lifestyle is about safety if you are meeting a submissive with the intention of controlling her once that is a hookup. a D/s relationship allows you to build over time that bond. you can not bond on hookups and you are not a true Dom. It is just an excuse for hookups or one nighters. Ridiculous go sit in a BDSM club and play Dom. Safety and Trust in D/s is very important PLEASE DON'T SEND ME YOUR PRIVATE PARTS! THANKS FOR UNDERSTANDING IF I AM INTERESTED (I prefer the element of surprise when we are in person thanks.) Are you interested in living off grid and stuff that is about self sufficiency. I have an acre now but would like to get at least 10 acres. The more the better but I don't want to have to depend on these corporations. Looking for someone who has same interests. I won't be online here long. looking for a Dom that wants the same long term. Joined site March 14, 2021 If you're interested please respond because I may just look at profiles. Disclosure: I am always upfront with my partners that I have been blessed with my gift (HSV 1/herpes) for over 20 years. I have never found in the past that this was an issue. Note: With my experience if you are a Dom you speak of your likes and not hide your attributes. you are aggressive in what you want (first contact) you show your face because it is the place I will look into your eyes and wait for gestures. Prefer someone close or willing to relocate here. I have a 12 year old daughter and she is doing excellent in school so I don't want to uproot her for a long term relationship. Not interested in online sex or hook ups. Submissive looking for a Dom that will adhere to limits. Had a Dom that was experienced with stimulation and gradually increased thresholds. Looking for someone with experience preferred but may allow a new Dom the chance to broaden his experience. It is hard to trust just anyone no ego driven individuals aftercare is a must. Please don't play with people's safety in this lifestyle. I have been out of the lifestyle for about 14 years raising a 12 year old. I am looking for a stable trusting Dom. He must understand that to be my Dom you know we have to click. I am giving up full control to you. Eyes wide open and looking straight up for each gesture and non verbal queue. I am not into knife play or ***. Mostly experienced with bondage, restraint, cuffs, Saint Andrews Cross, spreader bar, paddles, floggers, whips, canes, swing, n* clamps.etc. No ddlg Visited with a partner in the past mainly Florida swinger's clubs, private parties, hotel events, restaurant closures, nudist events and hotels, theater play with glory holes, and private homes. 100% Submissive 100% Rope bunny 95% Masochist 90% Voyeur 84% Experimentalist 62% Degradee 53% Exhibitionist 52% Brat 50% Slave 32% Primal (Prey) 29% Vanilla 19% Pet 9% Non-monogamist 0% Ageplayer 0% */Girl 0% Switch* Always welcome to a chat. However I am not interested in cybersex. I have made friends from all over the world. My experience doesn't mean I cannot learn life is full of lessons daily. Come let's have an adult conversation about politics, social issues, your county or mine. You never know I found that the world is actually a ripple that affects all our lives. I have met people who know people that knew me or some family. because eventually our lives are woven in some way. Also, I can't relocate for at least 6 years. My daughter is doing excellent with school and I don't want to move her from this area. Straight A's for 2 years every report card is not easy to find with a school. Not to mention that she has also gotten awards as well. Submissive woman looking for a long term relationship with a Dominant male. Don't need a man Financially. Self employed and independent, dominant in my career. Wanting a Dom (Sir, Daddy, Master) that likes control of daily reports of tasks and trips. Choosing daily wear and office attire. Spanking sessions as reminder of who owns me. I only need one Dom not into seeing a variety of Dom's. Impact play is a plus but not required. Bondage and role playing are a plus but not required. Open to a possible swing partner but once again I am only looking for one Dominant man to fill the role and don't plan on playing once in a while or even weeks between without my Dom's being available and close enough. No online cyber sex at all has to be real in the flesh contact.
Female (55) Beaver, West Virginia
Open and honest woman, caring and very affectionate I am not bias and treat everyone equally. I am respectful and down to earth... I hope to find someone honest and loving here
Female (61) Charleston, West Virginia
I am real. I do not have my face on my profile for privacy. I am mainly for a female that I can play with 😍 women really turn me on, squirt in my mouth and all over me 💦 For Men: I like men that love to eat pussy and ass. I also like to give golden streams
Female (31) Hampton, Virginia
I want to start, and haven't quite figured out what I need to tell you. More about me then? Mkay. I'm quiet, I'm more than likely spending nights in. You know the drill? The usual suspects. True crime Dark romance-o.g. Anne Rice/Rampling/A. N. Roquelaure, until she went kinda off the rails and she lost me. I haven't read new smut in a decade. fae, were, vampire, etc Martinis are gin and filthy. 3 olives 🖤 Sherlock/Doctor Who/Torchwood/Supernatural What am I looking for? I'm not sure. Not really. I know women fill a need in me. Most certainly friends. I want to learn about you! Talk soon 💋
Female (42) Roanoke, Virginia
:fire: :fire: **Not here for quick scenes, pen pals, or long-distance power trips. If you’re real, local, age-appropriate(ish), and ready for more, read on.** :fire: :fire: In my everyday life, I’m the one in charge. I lead and direct people, manage chaos, and take care of everyone else’s needs. But when the door closes and the lights glow red, I want to be undone, tied up tight, pushed around, and owned without mercy. Under the sheets I don’t want soft suggestions or sweet talk. I want a man whose voice drips authority and whose grip burns into my skin, reminding me exactly who I belong to. Someone grounded, commanding, and emotionally present, strong enough to hold the weight of me but rough enough to leave a hand free to spank my ass when I get mouthy. Which I likely will. (Sorry, not sorry…yet). :speak_no_evil: I’m soft. Curvy. Service-driven. Dripping with warmth and sexual appetite. Explicitly telling and showing me _exactly_ how I can be useful to you is a fast-track to getting me worked up. And when the connection is deep and the control is real, I crave even more intensity. Free use, an impactful swat or pinch that lights up every inch of my skin, and being used hard while I’m praised for being your good little whore… or punished for being your bad one. I like being pushed to the edge. I like being messy. But I also like knowing that after you ruin me, you’ll hold me while I catch my breath. I want to know that when I give you everything of me, you won’t disappear. My mind frequently wanders to fantasies of being owned so completely that handing over the key to my apartment toes the line between safety and consequence. I want you to know when to show up without asking, how to slip in quietly while I sleep, and that it’s fair game to take what’s rightfully yours when you want and need it. I’m searching for the rare breed who doesn’t ask permission but takes what he wants with raw power. Someone who’ll pull me down hard, talk dirty to remind me I’m his plaything, and push me beyond the limits I thought I had, always respecting the delicate line between desire and real damage. I want that level of surrender with someone who sees me, holds me, and never forgets there’s a human being behind the filthy mind and mouth that longs to be objectified. And I need to be able to trust that you will never cross that line into harm. I’ve done the “good girl” thing and have been the fantasy and the perfect submissive. I’ve been promised devotion only to be ghosted after the high wore off. I’m no weekend kink dispensary or dirty secret. I’m a whole woman with a full, normal and mostly well-functioning life who also happens to get incredibly turned on by the idea of being used like a filthy toy by someone who actually gives a damn. Outside the bedroom, I’m ambitious, independent, and probably doing too much…so naturally, once in a while, I could really use a man who orders me to lie down, spread my legs, and behave. I sometimes unintentionally test, intentionally tease, and check to see if you’ll rise to meet me where I’m at… and I know the right partner will. He’ll challenge me, cherish me, and claim me without ever letting me forget *** really in charge. Because I’m primarily after a serious, committed and monogamous long-term relationship, I connect best with local, emotionally available, dominant men close to my age (give or take about 8 years). If you want casual play, no strings, or quick scenes, I’m not your match. But if you lead with strength, stay with care, and want to build something real, let’s talk. == Results from bdsmtest.org: == 100% Degradee 100% Rope bunny 96% Submissive 92% Voyeur 91% Exhibitionist 83% Masochist 75% Pet 73% Experimentalist 66% Brat 53% Slave 22% Non-monogamist 20% Rigger 19% Primal (Prey) 18% Vanilla 12% Master/Mistress 12% Sadist 10% Dominant 9% Owner 7% Switch 6% Brat tamer 4% Daddy/Mommy 2% Primal (Hunter) 2% Degrader 0% Ageplayer 0% Little
Female (46) Alexandria, Virginia
I am a big believer in physical attraction/chemistry as the starting point of a potential relationship. Without chemistry, there is no point in going any further. I believe there has to be a balance of give and take in a relationship.
Female (35) Chesapeake, Virginia
I'm a young Dominatrix confident and ready to empower you to embrace your desire and discard your shame because life is too short be happy and enjoy the moment
Female (34) Ashburn, Virginia
Just be smart and take a look at my username and get back to me to get to know each other more better

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just ask! i'm pretty friendly, and more of a bite-ee than a biter. not particular about what i'm looking for, other than great chemistry. i'm especially interested in learning more about shibari, and trying suspension or predicament bondage. please reach out if either is a mutual interest. :collar: please be respectful tho in your initial approach! i'm a freak but i'm not here to get degraded by strangers. that's a second date thing.
Female (34) Arlington, Virginia
I want to find the one who will not have secrets from me and will be a cheerful and loving person. He should be soft and kind, friendly, reliable, firm, responsible, though extremely tender and sweet to me. I want to find a nice and interesting man who beli we eves in trusting and respectful relations between people ... Since we are both seeking one thing would like us to give our selves the chance in talking more to see if chemistry do reveals ..
Female (30) Roanoke, Virginia
i am a captivating mistress, blending playful dominance with a touch of sensuality. I thrive on exploring desires, pushing boundaries, and creating unforgettable experiences for my submissive. weather you're eager to serve or just curious, I'm here to guide you on a thrilling journey of pleasure and power.
Female (35) Herndon, Virginia
Maybe a bit jaded, a little sarcastic, there's just about nothing I haven't at least _seen_, in my time on the internet. Don't be a creep and you'll do fine. If you come at me talking about how you're going to pay all my bills or how much you want to nut on me, I'm probably going to immediately delete the message and go on about my life~ I have experience as a pro dominatrix and a sex-worker, in my early-20s, and you're just not going to surprise me, hon! Got questions? Ask them! I live life pretty freely and enjoy fixing up my old house, when I can do so. I'm not terribly exciting, but I have lived a hell of a life.
Female (33) Morgantown, West Virginia
I am happy, calm, warm, honest, independent woman, positive outlook on life, highly respectful to myself and others, sincere and kindhearted. I would like to find my best friend; interested in sharing a relationship with a simple-easy going, caring, giving and loving man. One of my strongest characteristics; i am a one woman man, i know, its difficult to find my soul mate but no impossible, when i said that i am honest, sincere and trustworthy i meant it. I enjoy movies, beach/park walks holding hands, travel, long drives, music (except rap,rock), gardening, cooking, quiet time at home, family gets together, as well being pampered and spoiled when time and circumstances permits it to marriage. Who is this man i am looking for??"
Female (37) Fredericksburg, Virginia
Just be smart and take a look at my username and get back to me to get to know each other more better
Just be smart and take a look at my username and get back to me to get to know each other more better...
Female (38) Leesburg, Virginia
I am a caring woman who likes yoga , Kayaking , reading and most importantly , i do love camping each weekend with both my family and friends . ask me all you need to know
Female (39) Norfolk, Virginia
When I am in love, I transform into a sweet angel, radiating warmth and tenderness. My greatest desire is to make you feel as if you're floating in paradise, taking away the weight of your worries and enveloping you in bliss. Yet, beneath this gentle exterior lies a little devil, burning with passion and an irresistible fervor just for you. I thrive on unpredictability, but only the man I cherish will uncover the depths of my true self; I promise to hold nothing back, sharing every layer of who I am with you.
Female (45) Ashburn, Virginia
I am a loyal, honest, simple woman, well-educated, easy-going, positive, and a happy woman. I like to learn new things and take adventures. I'm sincere, kind, optimistic, gentle, single-minded, beautiful, elegant, sunny, reasonable, and love life. I enjoy every day life and always happy and positive.
Female (45) Norfolk, Virginia
I know how to listen and speak so that the conversation becomes a real exchange of energy. It will not be boring with me, I know how to be philosophical, ironic and childishly sincere. I dream of a family not as a beautiful picture, but as a real partnership, where there is respect, support, passion and a feeling of a shoulder nearby. I am not looking for compromises with emptiness, I am looking for a man with whom we will be a real team.
Female (39) Leesburg, Virginia
I want to be topped and told what to do. I have trouble rememebering to eat, brush my hair, and do simple things to take care of myself, so I would like a dom to help me with those things. DO NOT CALL ME 'BABYGIRL', the name 'babygirl' has very bad connotations for me, so PLS don't call me that!
Female (19) Fredericksburg, Virginia
Dont text me if you want things for free .I am looking for a one night stand and it come with packages so go straight to the point when you message me
Female (39) Fairfax, Virginia
I’m looking for someone I can talk to about anything — someone who’d be happy to just go out for a coffee and have a good laugh, without the need for drinks, ***, or arguments. I want someone I can spend peaceful, meaningful time with, without it costing the earth.
Female (42) Triangle, Virginia
looking for love and sex.
Female (40) Leesburg, Virginia
I am an authentic determined woman with a clear vision of what I want to build in my life. I don't let myself be influenced by appearances or prejudices; I believe what truly matters is what you carry within. I like to live with purpose, enjoy the small details, and stay open to new experiences. I'm not afraid to cross boundaries whether physical or emotional if the destination is worth it. Age or distance don't scare me, what interests me is a real connection, the kind that can't be explained it can only be felt. If you're curious to know more about me just dare to take the first step. Sometimes the best stories begin with a simple hello.
Female (45) Richmond, Virginia
Hello, I'm sorry for the public comments. so can you text me on Whatsapp; +1 5404906678 or my *** as my name.
Female (49) Harrisonburg, Virginia
Hello, nice to meet you. Just call me Kay. I needed a platform and website to promote my escorting business and expand it as well as a place my clientele could go to as a means to get to know me personally. Looking to pick up new clients along the way 🤪♥️
Female (34) Morgantown, West Virginia
Howdy! I'm a "good girl" submissive pansexual woman. Interested in communicating with doms of any gender between the ages of 25-45. Please see my list of kinks below. It's not full, so please feel free to ask me about anything additional. I'm an open book and I aim to please.
Female (30) Winchester, Virginia
I am a woman who has a big generous heart full of love and care. I miss someone very special by my side to share my life. I think that common activities make a couple closer. It is not so important what we are doing but rather that we do things together. It could be anything from cooking and walking in the rain together to just cuddling on a sofa watching some movie. I am marriage minded woman and willing to start a new life with a man with who I will have strong spiritual, emotional and physical connection.
Female (40) Roanoke, Virginia
I'm a woman who believes in the power of kindness, deep conversations, and the little joys in life like dancing in the kitchen, journaling by candlelight, or watching the sunset after a long walk. I work as a caretaker, which isn’t just a job it’s a calling. I find meaning in supporting others and showing up with compassion and grace. I’m shaped by both California sunshine and Southern warmth, and I carry a love for nature, creativity, and emotional depth. Whether I’m decorating a cozy space, exploring new cultures, or simply listening to music with my heart wide open, I’m always seeking connection that feels real. I value emotional honesty, mutual respect, and someone *** ready to grow together. If you’re someone who leads with integrity, loves to laugh, and believes in building something lasting *** love to hear your story.
Female (48) Christiansburg, Virginia
I’m a God-***ing woman who believes deeply in grace, resilience, and the beauty of life’s quiet moments. Widowed and walking a path shaped by love and loss, I’ve known the ache of goodbye—my only daughter passed during the COVID pandemic—but I carry her memory with strength and tenderness. I cherish the little things: a warm smile, a kind word, the way the sun feels on your face. Life has taught me to treasure each breath and seek joy in unexpected places. I’m here for adventure, open-hearted and hopeful, ready to meet someone *** truly down to earth—someone who values honesty, laughter, and the kind of love that grows from shared understanding. If you’re someone who walks with humility, loves deeply, and believes that healing and happiness can walk hand in hand, *** love to hear your story.
Female (52) Madison, West Virginia
I am a strong-willed woman. I'm ready to fight for love. I am very strong on the outside and very *** on the inside. I'm very comfortable with my own sexuality and aware of my sexual energy as well. Emotional responsibility is always my slave. I have my own sense of style. I am honest, I always have a positive outlook. Life can't always be a bed of roses and at some point in your relationship, you and your partner will disagree. It's completely normal and even inevitable. But a relationship can only work if both partners are willing to compromise
Female (42) Herndon, Virginia
I am a polite, well-mannered, well-educated woman. I am a creative, communicative and open person. I smile a lot and can encourage my friends with positive words.
Female (45) Virginia Beach, Virginia

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