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*I am here to keep track of events and existing friendships.* ** DO NOT ASK ME TO BE YOUR DOM/MISTRESS/GODDESS/ETC. Same goes for addressing me with any of those descriptors. I'm not here for that, and I am so far from interested in people who approach me for a relationship that it's not even funny.*** Let my mail rating serve as an example of how I don't suffer idiots. If you come into my inbox with the intent of getting me to stroke your kink, I will not put up with it. I'm open to people who need more actual info about the community, or looking for resources. I'm basically asexual, so please don't start a convo with what you'd like to do to me. Openers about my appearance will only succeed in getting an eye roll. In real life, I'm a wannabe homesteader, Wastelander, cosplayer, prepper, geek, fail-gardener, and mother. I like the isolation that comes from living off the beaten path, where I can raise a family in peace and back to nature as I grew up. Years ago, I was labeled a pseudo extrovert, and it seems to fit quite well. The docs also slapped me on the spectrum as an aspie, so I've got that going for me! In kink life, I fill the role of Amazon Dom with my kitten. There are many fetishes that I wander through, and I seem to discover something new and fun every other week. However, just because I enjoy a kink with the people I love doesn't mean I will enjoy it with others. The connection that I have with my significant others is unique to me, so outside of a scene, I do not play with strangers. Add me, follow me, or message me - it's all good! Just don't be a dickweed, and I won't eat your face. ❤ **Desires and Fantasies** Someone who can read a profile would be a good start. All of my kink and romantic needs are fulfilled by the wonderful people in my life, so I am NOT looking to add anyone else to my personal dance card at this point. My time management skills are shit, and with the perpetually busy days that come with adulting, I want to dedicate every bit of free time that I have to my existing polycule.
Female (35) Camptonville, California
**If you want to meet, please be able to host somewhere private within San Diego county.** Hi, I'm Theresa and I'm an STD friendly, 300lb slut. I listed myself on STDcarriers (search my name on that site) because I have genital herpes, hpv & genital warts. That said, I will spread my legs for any male itching to spread his toxic seed. A few things I enjoy are: Gentle urethral play: this makes me cum very hard. Cervix play: I'd like to have my cervix stretched open enough to be penetrated by a thin dildo. Deep, hard anal: you can fuck my ass until it's raw. Needles: I'm open to having my nipples pierced.
Female (45) San Diego, California
My life is happy, healthy, peaceful and busy. I want to meet someone who is fun, complete and enjoys the exciting things in life. I think this will lead to working with an honest and positive partner.
Female (36) Beverly Hills, California
What I want is truly hard to describe. I do enjoy having kinky conversations. I can’t do that with just anybody though. I wanna be a slut for just one man. I want him to be my confidant, my best friend. And all that good stuff. Monogamy has gotta be one of my favorite “kinks”. The thought of owning someone’s heart, mind body and soul truly turns me on. I realize now that monogamy is a trait long lost in this era but I’m still hopeful to find something meaningful here ❤️
Female (28) Newport Beach, California
Looking for the man who knows how to be my master in all things. want to build trust to the point where I’d do anything for him, no questions asked. trust me, the loyalty and skills I’m bringing to the table more than warrant what I’m expecting and asking for. Ultimately this will have to be a monogamous LTR, because I cannot be with a man who cannot establish that kind of deep connection. that kind of connection requires monogamy imo. I’m very submissive, a masochist but more for pain than humiliation. That being said, I’d do anything to make my man happy. I’m trainable, I want to please my man. side note, no polyamory under any circumstances.. I don’t share. If you’re poly don’t message me.
Female (29) Murrieta, California
Here looking for my new Mistress, ideally. A situation where there is more than just a D/s relationship, id like to have a deep connection. But i am also open to switching as well, i am naturally submissive, but with the right person i can be Domme. Age is not important, i am more about the chemistry more than anything. Couples are welcome, but will vary on how we interact. So if you want to know more please feel free to message me. I do ask that you send something more than "hello" or "how are you" those will not get a response. It can be included in your message, but please send more than just that. Seems people don't understand, if you send me a message that is copy and paste, or just has a short hello, i will block and ignore you. Don't believe me, then try it and see
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Female (35) Santa Clara, California
I am sure that its very important to be in love and its very important to have the person with whom you would be able to spend every day and express yourself and open yourself and be free in telling your ideas and being so simple. I think that i am looking for a friend and someone who can become this perfect image of a man for me and i would never feel any limits in our communication and in our feelings. I want to fly and feel that love is great thing and my man wants and needs me and it would help me to be the best woman in the whole world for him)
Female (34) Los Angeles, California
I'm not looking for a relationship, just some new sexual experiences with a variety of men. I'll consider friends with benefits if you're really good. I try hard to maintain a non-dairy diet and eat healthy most of the time. Because of this and the fact that I'm a petite woman and not your stereotypical Cali beach going sun worshiper, I really don't look my age. The fact is I'm a simple, low maintenance woman - a low key, drama free, calm, go with the flow-spontaneous type of person and have a tendency to speak my mind but won't talk your ear off. I like lots of things, especially when it comes to sex. I have some particular kinks that any potential partner should be aware of. I like to be naked in places I shouldn't, like driving my commute. I take off my bra and panties before leaving work, then my skirt comes off as soon as I get in my car. I usually unbutton my shirt all the way, but leave it covering most of my breasts while I'm sitting in stopped traffic, then I rub my pussy and finger myself. Once traffic starts moving decently, I slide my shirt down to my elbows so everything is uncovered and on display, and start pinching my nipples. I usually cum at about the halfway point between work and home. During the winter when it's dark by the time I leave work, I get completely naked before I even leave the parking lot. I like to go to some of the area parks late at night or early in the morning and walk around naked. I've also done it on occasion on hiking trails during the day, leaving the trail and finding a private spot to undress, and usually I masturbate while surrounded by nature. I'm not trying to show myself off. It's the risk of possibly getting caught that turns me on. I also dabble in self-bondage. I do it mostly at home, though there have been a few outdoor adventures after getting some of the bugs worked out. My son (he's 36), comes over every Sunday morning and we go out for breakfast. He's caught me a number of times, especially when I first started. The first time was almost ten years ago. I was sitting upright, blindfolded, naked, and tied to a chair, with a vibrator in my pussy making me orgasm all night. I was too exhausted to get free before it was too late. The second time, I was tied spread-eagle in a door frame, naked, with a blindfold and gag, plus an anal hook that was forcing me onto my toes, while a vibrator on a pole was in my pussy. I think the most embarrassing time was last year. I was trying out some new toys, two fucking machines. I was tied to a bench doggy-style, wearing a hood with the mouth open, with a fucking machine driving two dildos into my pussy and asshole, while a second fucking machine was pumping a dildo into my mouth and throat. It wasn't that I couldn't get myself loose that time, I was just enjoying it too much and didn't want it to end yet. DP gives me the most incredible orgasms, and I was in the middle of one when I heard the front door open and close. I didn't hear anything else for maybe ten minutes, until he pulled the toy out of my mouth and took the hood off. Then he stood by and watched after I told him I wasn't finished yet. I was moaning and shouting as I came several more times, begging for the double-fucking I was receiving. He had moved out of my view and was most likely behind me watching the two dildos pumping in and out of my body. When I turned my head and looked over my shoulder, I saw he had his cock out and was stroking himself while watching me get fucked by the machine. I was so horny that when I saw it, I begged him to put his cock in my mouth and let me suck it. He didn't, but if he had at that moment I would have sucked him dry, and a dozen more right behind him. It's not that I wanted to suck off my son, I just saw a hard cock and I really wanted it in my mouth. He did shoot his cum on my face. I've never been with two men at the same time, but I'm very open to the idea. Getting DPed with two real cocks would be a dream come true. Yes, I have quite a sex toy and bondage gear collection, including two fucking machines with various attachments, a restraint/sex bench, an assortment of floggers and paddles, nipple clamps, dildos, and vibrators I enjoy oral sex, vaginal sex, and anal sex. I enjoy a rough fuck sometimes, hold me down and use me. I also enjoy getting forced. I love it when a guy puts his cock in my mouth and forces it deep, not stopping even if I gag. I like the feel of a cock sliding in and out of my throat. Even when I gag, I relax eventually and take it all. I like to be tied up, spanked, flogged, and fucked. I like light biting, nipple clamps, pulling my hair, and even some light slapping. One of my favorite positions is getting tied up doggy-style while wearing a blindfold, then waiting to find out which hole the guy is going to fuck first, my mouth, pussy, or asshole. The good ones go for all three, even fucking me with toys. I'm not always submissive. There are times that I like to get a guy on his back, slide my pussy or asshole onto his cock and just ride the fuck out of him. I bounce hard on his cock while I pinch and pull on my nipples, usually cumming several times before he fills me with warm jizz. I can also get pretty aggressive when I really need to suck a cock, pulling it out of his pants almost any place that's mostly private and sucking it until he feeds me a tasty mouthful of spunk. BTW, yes I swallow;-P
Female (57) Tustin, California
I’m a brat. I’m NOT HOOKING UP OR SEXTING. Trust is a big thing for me, and it takes a bit for me to trust someone. Although once I trust you I am the most reliable and loyal person you’ll know. I have a job. I’m stubborn and will talk back. I tend to over think and can get upset, I also can get clingy. But I’m also sarcastic and playful and I’m a tease and I’ll try and push all your buttons just to get a reaction. Because I love to get into trouble Also I am PLUS SIZED so if you don’t like it you can leave.
Female (23) San Diego, California
Enter my domain with reverence and you will be rewarded. I’m a sensual and sadistic Goddess with a heart of gold combined with natural supremacy and domination that will make you want to drop to your knees. Whether it’s pain, humiliation, or pure pleasure you crave–I will infiltrate your psyche and own your body with my authentically nurturing, supremely creative, and selectively sadistic activities. My magic and demeanor breathes bravery, joy and wholeness into souls like yours. https://dot.cards/goddessharmonex
Female (45) San Jose, California
I'm a person who loves life and try to enjoy every moment of it. I have an optimistic and cheerful personality. But I have no beloved person to give all my attention, love and passion to and spend life together
Female (60) San Jose, California
I am very active and energetic. I make my dreams come true myself; being a goal-oriented dreamer is a nice thing, indeed. I am a very optimistic person, try to find positive sides in every situation. I believe that everything that happens in life is for the better. I am very romantic and passionate and I believe that love has no boundaries if it is real.
Female (40) Los Angeles, California
My name is Janny from Beverly Hills, CA. I'm already 36 years old now. I used to as a data analyst for 7 years and now I am Co-owner of Business.
Female (35) Beverly Hills, California
hiii I’m just slightly new to some of these things! but I’m a fast learner and I’m open to many experiments! I’m a switch but I leave more towards sub. I really love praise and affection. at the same time treat me like the rag doll I am ?
Female (21) Inglewood, California
I am an open person. I love everything about creativity. I take various courses that can contribute to my personal development and in future help me to achieve my own goals and the formation of a career. I love to spend time with friends, go out of town to the mountains or to the sea. This is my weakness. There I feel incredibly comfortable and I can wander for hours and think about life. I realized one simple truth that you need to live now and take what life gives you. So I try to do what scares me to get stronger and catch a wave of new adrenaline mixed with fear and pleasure. Next to me I see a man who has understood this simple truth; who is serious about his search and at the same time who can easily agree to a spontaneous trip.
Female (41) Bakersfield, California
Hey im 18 LA, im a princess all the time but once you get me in bed im yours to use, punish, and humiliate. turn ons fat shaming slut shaming slapping pet play master/ slave humiliating public humiliation abuse
Female (18) Los Angeles, California
I'm a portrait artist and starting to tattoo. I'm a BBW, and I love to laugh. I do draw live models sometimes, so maybe in the future, I might draw you. I'm a married woman. However, under the current situation, there are times of separation between him and I, which during that time we agreed to let me go out with women.
I am **Elena** 9_9 and I live a simple life. I value authenticity and prefer genuine interactions with real people. I don't like chatting with superficial people.
Female (35) San Mateo, California
I love all things pink and cutesy I also like Disney movies and reading I’m usually reading for most of the day I also enjoys coloring with my stuffies and I try to wear my paci as much as I can because I tend to chew on my fingers and if I could only drink out of sippy cups and bottles I would lol I’m in littlespace as much as a I can by myself through the day every day I wear some kind of pigtails with ribbon and bows I also and a strictly no pants girl because they’re uncomfortable and I want to look like a princess so my wardrobe is pretty much pink dresses and skirts and knitted sweaters
Female (20) Clovis, California
The most important quality I have; I'll tell you when we meet. I can say for sure, I am an optimist. I feel like I'm at the stage in my life when everything should be fine. I am not afraid to make discoveries, to explore something new and unknown for me in feelings and a relationship. I don't want to spend my life alone, I am a cheerful and loving woman, I want to give love and affection! I want and can prove it in real action, perhaps you'll notice it first. Our happiness is in our hands, agree? Less words, more action!
Female (54) Santa Clara, California
This is long but PLEASE read it, it's important if you WANT to talk to me. Hi, I know I haven't been responsive to a lot of people's messages as you can see from my response rate :jumping: but they are for good reasons. I'm an anxious person. I have autism (if you wonder, it's moderate) and it's pretty much all I have been diagnosed with so far. I had it since I was a kid. If you want to talk, please start with an interesting question or ig a joke :jumping: , not with “Hi, how are you doing?” I have a hard time getting interested that way, not trying to be rude, sorry. Also, in the middle of the conversation, I may stop responding because you said something I personally find a turn-off. Also, I may not respond at all to you because I'm not interested, sorry. But I'll give it a try… or probably not… we’ll see. I apologize for appearing rude but it's just how I am. My previous bio doesn't really match what I'm looking for since I was still trying to figure out what I really wanted but it doesn't mean I won't agree to roleplay it's just I'm not always going to be down for it. You need to make sure photos are actually you and that you’re not hiding your face. If you wonder why I’m like this a guy not from here catfished me at least that’s how I see it. Basically, he lied a lot about himself. Mind you I already had trust issues but him doing what he did affected me a lot and I'm now more stricter. Please NO nudes I'm not into that.
Female (19) Los Angeles, California
Bi, Dom, open minded I seek a kinky Sub/Slave who will love, honor, worship, serve & obey me in exchange of training, fun, discipline, punishment, pleasure, love, guidance, control and protection. I am strict when I need to be, firm hands. Always down for fun. I like receiving oral & giving anal pleasures mixed w passionate kisses, bondage & spankings!
Female (37) Berkeley, California
I do as I please My personality tends to switch with the person I am interacting with I have both a dominant side, and a VERY submissive side for certain people. I like to get to know the person I am engaging with prior to indulging in our play, as it is very important to establish our roles and boundaries. Disclaimer: I Do NOT consent to my info, pics, or otherwise being used for any kind of project or otherwise, without my absolute written permission.
Female (25) San Diego, California

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My life is happy, healthy, peaceful and busy. I want to meet someone who is fun, complete and enjoys the exciting things in life. I think this will lead to working with an honest and positive partner.
Female (36) Beverly Hills, California
**If you want to meet, please be able to host somewhere private within San Diego county.** Hi, I'm Theresa and I'm an STD friendly, 300lb slut. I listed myself on STDcarriers (search my name on that site) because I have genital herpes, hpv & genital warts. That said, I will spread my legs for any male itching to spread his toxic seed. A few things I enjoy are: Gentle urethral play: this makes me cum very hard. Cervix play: I'd like to have my cervix stretched open enough to be penetrated by a thin dildo. Deep, hard anal: you can fuck my ass until it's raw. Needles: I'm open to having my nipples pierced.
Female (45) San Diego, California
*I am here to keep track of events and existing friendships.* ** DO NOT ASK ME TO BE YOUR DOM/MISTRESS/GODDESS/ETC. Same goes for addressing me with any of those descriptors. I'm not here for that, and I am so far from interested in people who approach me for a relationship that it's not even funny.*** Let my mail rating serve as an example of how I don't suffer idiots. If you come into my inbox with the intent of getting me to stroke your kink, I will not put up with it. I'm open to people who need more actual info about the community, or looking for resources. I'm basically asexual, so please don't start a convo with what you'd like to do to me. Openers about my appearance will only succeed in getting an eye roll. In real life, I'm a wannabe homesteader, Wastelander, cosplayer, prepper, geek, fail-gardener, and mother. I like the isolation that comes from living off the beaten path, where I can raise a family in peace and back to nature as I grew up. Years ago, I was labeled a pseudo extrovert, and it seems to fit quite well. The docs also slapped me on the spectrum as an aspie, so I've got that going for me! In kink life, I fill the role of Amazon Dom with my kitten. There are many fetishes that I wander through, and I seem to discover something new and fun every other week. However, just because I enjoy a kink with the people I love doesn't mean I will enjoy it with others. The connection that I have with my significant others is unique to me, so outside of a scene, I do not play with strangers. Add me, follow me, or message me - it's all good! Just don't be a dickweed, and I won't eat your face. ❤ **Desires and Fantasies** Someone who can read a profile would be a good start. All of my kink and romantic needs are fulfilled by the wonderful people in my life, so I am NOT looking to add anyone else to my personal dance card at this point. My time management skills are shit, and with the perpetually busy days that come with adulting, I want to dedicate every bit of free time that I have to my existing polycule.
Female (35) Camptonville, California
Am a life dominant mistress am here for submissive slave who is ready to worship me, adore me and obey my command. someone who is ready to derive pleasure in pain and i promise to push your limit, to height of pleasure and submission
Female (29) San Jose, California
I am sensitive and romantic by nature. I am full of emotions, dreams and plans for my future life. I believe in love and true feelings. I admire people that are honest and kind to me. I believe in open and honest relationships.
Female (34) Madera, California
I am an open and talkative person. I love and enjoy this life. I am open to this world with all its aspects. I will face all adversity with my head held high as temporary difficulties. I know how to be friends and respect those people who are close to me.
Female (39) Dodgertown, California
I am a loving woman, caring, sweet, understanding and romantic. I have many goals in life and one of them, is having a family of my own with the right man. I like to stay active
Female (44) Sacramento, California
I am very active and energetic. I make my dreams come true myself; being a goal-oriented dreamer is a nice thing, indeed. I am a very optimistic person, try to find positive sides in every situation. I believe that everything that happens in life is for the better. I am very romantic and passionate and I believe that love has no boundaries if it is real.
Female (40) Los Angeles, California
I am an open person. I love everything about creativity. I take various courses that can contribute to my personal development and in future help me to achieve my own goals and the formation of a career. I love to spend time with friends, go out of town to the mountains or to the sea. This is my weakness. There I feel incredibly comfortable and I can wander for hours and think about life. I realized one simple truth that you need to live now and take what life gives you. So I try to do what scares me to get stronger and catch a wave of new adrenaline mixed with fear and pleasure. Next to me I see a man who has understood this simple truth; who is serious about his search and at the same time who can easily agree to a spontaneous trip.
Female (41) Bakersfield, California
The most important quality I have; I'll tell you when we meet. I can say for sure, I am an optimist. I feel like I'm at the stage in my life when everything should be fine. I am not afraid to make discoveries, to explore something new and unknown for me in feelings and a relationship. I don't want to spend my life alone, I am a cheerful and loving woman, I want to give love and affection! I want and can prove it in real action, perhaps you'll notice it first. Our happiness is in our hands, agree? Less words, more action! I see myself as an intelligent, sensitive woman with a big kind heart and a bright young soul. I am successful enough not to worry about money and just live enjoying simple things and moments. I love nature and take care of the environment as much as I can. I'm an animal over. I can't imagine myself without a family.
Female (36) Santa Ana, California
My name is Janny from Beverly Hills, CA. I'm already 36 years old now. I used to as a data analyst for 7 years and now I am Co-owner of Business.
Female (35) Beverly Hills, California
I am a cheerful and happy woman. I am a positive and life loving person with a good sense of humor. I see good things in every day. I am reliable, faithful and know how to love. I love to travel and explore new places. I like to study the culture and cuisine of different countries of the world.
Female (40) San Francisco, California
I think the ideal relationship is when you feel really comfortable with each other, when you can enjoy the party time together, as well as the calm romantic evening at home same way.
Female (44) Elk Grove, California
The most important quality I have; I'll tell you when we meet. I can say for sure, I am an optimist. I feel like I'm at the stage in my life when everything should be fine. I am not afraid to make discoveries, to explore something new and unknown for me in feelings and a relationship. I don't want to spend my life alone, I am a cheerful and loving woman, I want to give love and affection! I want and can prove it in real action, perhaps you'll notice it first. Our happiness is in our hands, agree? Less words, more action!
Female (54) Santa Clara, California
What I want is truly hard to describe. I do enjoy having kinky conversations. I can’t do that with just anybody though. I wanna be a slut for just one man. I want him to be my confidant, my best friend. And all that good stuff. Monogamy has gotta be one of my favorite “kinks”. The thought of owning someone’s heart, mind body and soul truly turns me on. I realize now that monogamy is a trait long lost in this era but I’m still hopeful to find something meaningful here ❤️
Female (28) Newport Beach, California
I am sure that its very important to be in love and its very important to have the person with whom you would be able to spend every day and express yourself and open yourself and be free in telling your ideas and being so simple. I think that i am looking for a friend and someone who can become this perfect image of a man for me and i would never feel any limits in our communication and in our feelings. I want to fly and feel that love is great thing and my man wants and needs me and it would help me to be the best woman in the whole world for him)
Female (34) Los Angeles, California
Hellooo~ I’m Amara, a kinky bisexual, British Caribbean Black girl who **loves** cumshots and tributes. Pretty much sums me up, haha! ? A few things to note: This is not my rodeo on Fet. I know what I’m looking for and what I offer so this is a very lengthy profile. Buckle up! If you cannot reach the bottom of this profile, I guarantee you will not be able to handle my level of communication in a relationship. ✌ If you don’t fit within the hard limits, please don’t bother DMing. It will save us both the time! If you’re within the flexible limit, shoot your shot and let’s see if our personality matches. : ) Let’s start with you and what I’m hoping you’re like: - Caucasian (hard limit) - American or Australian (soft limit) - Ideally around the ages of 38-52~ (soft limit with some wiggle room. My preference is mid to late 40s though!) - (Anyone under 30 is an automatic hard pass for conversation) - Single (HARD LIMIT. No married guys and, for now, no ENMs/Polys. I’m a greedy little gremlin and I’m not looking to share at the moment! ?). - Monogamous with the open mindedness for *potentially* opening the bedroom up for one-off play sessions or house parties. This would be with mutually picked partners but in the waaay off future. - I have a huuuge weakness for men with accents. The Californian accent, the Southern drawl and the Australian twang especially is like an instant boarding pass to inside my panties. - Not overly muscular nor extremely weighty in build. I do genuinely like a little bit of a dad bod! ♥️ - Smaller physical attributes (hair colour, eye colour etc.) don’t really matter to me though I would prefer a little bit of hair (though not completely bald/shaved). It gives something to grip on to! Not entirely a dealbreaker, however, if there is a great connection. Due to the nature of Fet, I’m not planning on sharing a full-on selfie early on but I will reveal it slowly over time with the right person. Plus, semi-anonymous play IS one of my kinks! It really adds to the hotness for me. ? For now, here’s a description of me: - 26 years old, 5’2”. - Light-skinned, British Caribbean black female. - Dark brown eyes. - Curly dark brown hair. Both almost look black unless I’m in the sun where the true colour shines through. - 180lbs and declining (thanks to 75Hard!) - Ample bosom and butt (thanks to genetics!). - Ears pierced, no tattoos. - Never married, zero kids. - UK based My personality and some things that I enjoy: **The Vanilla Stuff** - Demisexual, Sapiosexual, Bisexual. - Insomniac so I’m often up at weird hours of the night. - Video games. I have the majority of all the consoles so let’s play something sometime! - VERY Amateur Woodworking. - Woods and forests for strolls, hikes and non-vanilla things. - Would love to try my hand at cosplay next year and I already have the perfect outfits in mind! 70s Ororo Munroe (X-Men Storm), Teen Titans (Original) Rachel Roth (Raven), Shego from Kim Possible, Tifa Lockhart from Final Fantasy. - I LOVE asking and receiving questions; and, as you can see from this profile, I adore lengthy messages so please be inquisitive and talkative! There’s a lot of conversation starters here to choose from if you’re stuck. **The Kinkier Stuff** - ✨ Brat / Submissive / Accidental Occasional Domme / Middle (DDMG) ✨ You don’t have to like all of the same things that I do but having some overlap to talk about would be nice! : ) Here’s a list of some of my interests and things I want to try: Spanking and other impact play Choking and other breath play Collars and gags Blindfolds and hoods Restriction/Pinning/Cuffs Shibari DDMG Age gaps Interracial / Raceplay CNC Cock worship Fucking machines Suspension/Suspension fucking **Light** verbal possessive degradation Photo exchange Hot candle wax play **Some** knife play Public play Voyeurism Rutting and Primal Casual nudity Freeuse Orgasm control Aaaand forced orgasm. Phew! Okay, now that the bullet points are out of the way… if you’re still here and interested then I’d like to finish up by expressing what I’m looking for in a connection and why. ~ Outside of the bedroom | I’m hoping that whilst you’re dominant in the bedroom, you have a firm, yet softer, persona outside of the bedroom that allows me to be a bit of a ‘dominant caregiver’. One of my main ‘love languages’ is acts of service and I tend to autonomously ensure everyone’s needs are met. Whether it’s making sure you’re fed and your cup is full, keeping up with appointments, upcoming celebrations and gift wrapping to medicine, hot water bottles and head massages when you’re sick. Now, by no means am I referring to being nothing more than a subservient 1950s housewife stereotype. I do these things as a show of affection… because I want to, when I want to. NOT out of a sense of obligation and ‘tradition’. I’m headstrong and will speak my mind. I’m the dominant in my own life and have to be to have gotten where I am plus where I want to get to. So, I’m not looking for anyone who wants a meek, yes-woman who will wait on them hand and foot… I’m not looking for someone who wants to ‘tame’ or diminish and pacify the spirit that I have built. But rather I want someone who is looking for their equal. Someone to gently fan this fire so that we can both be great, together, in our own individual yet harmonious ways… (Unless, of course, we’re roleplaying then by all means let that misogynistic freak flag fly! ?) ~ Inside the bedroom | In the bedroom, however, I want you to grab the bull by the horns and put me in my place. At the end of the day, I’m tired of having to be the strong dominant for everyone else and just want to find someone who will let me melt completely in their open arms. At last being able to relinquish the remaining shred of my control, fully knowing that I am safe. ~ Brattiness | I’m a ‘playful’ bratty sub. My form of ‘disrespect’ is playful teasing and rebellious defiance. I like to gently poke the bear and run away when it’s finally riled up. I expect to face the consequences of my actions but that won’t stop me from batting my big, brown eyes at you and pleading for forgiveness… Which you’ll give me because I’m your sweet girl… Sucker. ? I like to run until I’m caught, kick until I’m pinned and gently nibble until I’m gagged. ~ Adventurous | My kink list above is by no means exhaustive, with new things being added to it fairly regularly. Though the list is long, there is still a *large* part of it that is yet to be physically explored. I’m looking for a safe, reliable space in which to do that with an experienced, patient dominant who is happy to show me the (sometimes literal) ropes. Mentor me in the experiences I’ve yet to try and guide me in perfecting the things you enjoy most. I want you to turn me into your personal, custom-made toy. I’m hoping you’re equally adventurous, wanting to grow and explore new things together. Toys, outfits, scenes, clubs and hidden gems. There’s a whole world of fun out there to be explored and I’m willing to bet it would be better shared. ~ Relocating | In regards to long distance and relocating, I’m up for moving to an entirely different country for the right person. Not at this current point in time but definitely in the future should things progress and remain steady. My goal has always been to move to either California or Canada so I’ll eventually be in either USA or CA regardless. I’m flexible on where exactly within these countries I’d move to. I could consider Australia for the right person if they were unable to immigrate to the US with me. But, as an overly ambitious heads-up, should we ever be cohabiting a home together, I fully intend to repurpose a whole room (or basement) into a depraved little playroom, filled with all sorts of devious devices for both to enjoy. If you’ve made it this far then perhaps you’re the person I’ve been looking for… If you think so then I’d love to hear from you! Send me a message, opening with a little bit about yourself like your age, location, SFW interests/hobbies and our NSFW shared interests. If you made it this far, say: purple cabbages. You’ll shoot straight to the top of my lookout list. ?
Female (26) San Francisco, California
I'm not looking for a relationship, just some new sexual experiences with a variety of men. I'll consider friends with benefits if you're really good. I try hard to maintain a non-dairy diet and eat healthy most of the time. Because of this and the fact that I'm a petite woman and not your stereotypical Cali beach going sun worshiper, I really don't look my age. The fact is I'm a simple, low maintenance woman - a low key, drama free, calm, go with the flow-spontaneous type of person and have a tendency to speak my mind but won't talk your ear off. I like lots of things, especially when it comes to sex. I have some particular kinks that any potential partner should be aware of. I like to be naked in places I shouldn't, like driving my commute. I take off my bra and panties before leaving work, then my skirt comes off as soon as I get in my car. I usually unbutton my shirt all the way, but leave it covering most of my breasts while I'm sitting in stopped traffic, then I rub my pussy and finger myself. Once traffic starts moving decently, I slide my shirt down to my elbows so everything is uncovered and on display, and start pinching my nipples. I usually cum at about the halfway point between work and home. During the winter when it's dark by the time I leave work, I get completely naked before I even leave the parking lot. I like to go to some of the area parks late at night or early in the morning and walk around naked. I've also done it on occasion on hiking trails during the day, leaving the trail and finding a private spot to undress, and usually I masturbate while surrounded by nature. I'm not trying to show myself off. It's the risk of possibly getting caught that turns me on. I also dabble in self-bondage. I do it mostly at home, though there have been a few outdoor adventures after getting some of the bugs worked out. My son (he's 36), comes over every Sunday morning and we go out for breakfast. He's caught me a number of times, especially when I first started. The first time was almost ten years ago. I was sitting upright, blindfolded, naked, and tied to a chair, with a vibrator in my pussy making me orgasm all night. I was too exhausted to get free before it was too late. The second time, I was tied spread-eagle in a door frame, naked, with a blindfold and gag, plus an anal hook that was forcing me onto my toes, while a vibrator on a pole was in my pussy. I think the most embarrassing time was last year. I was trying out some new toys, two fucking machines. I was tied to a bench doggy-style, wearing a hood with the mouth open, with a fucking machine driving two dildos into my pussy and asshole, while a second fucking machine was pumping a dildo into my mouth and throat. It wasn't that I couldn't get myself loose that time, I was just enjoying it too much and didn't want it to end yet. DP gives me the most incredible orgasms, and I was in the middle of one when I heard the front door open and close. I didn't hear anything else for maybe ten minutes, until he pulled the toy out of my mouth and took the hood off. Then he stood by and watched after I told him I wasn't finished yet. I was moaning and shouting as I came several more times, begging for the double-fucking I was receiving. He had moved out of my view and was most likely behind me watching the two dildos pumping in and out of my body. When I turned my head and looked over my shoulder, I saw he had his cock out and was stroking himself while watching me get fucked by the machine. I was so horny that when I saw it, I begged him to put his cock in my mouth and let me suck it. He didn't, but if he had at that moment I would have sucked him dry, and a dozen more right behind him. It's not that I wanted to suck off my son, I just saw a hard cock and I really wanted it in my mouth. He did shoot his cum on my face. I've never been with two men at the same time, but I'm very open to the idea. Getting DPed with two real cocks would be a dream come true. Yes, I have quite a sex toy and bondage gear collection, including two fucking machines with various attachments, a restraint/sex bench, an assortment of floggers and paddles, nipple clamps, dildos, and vibrators I enjoy oral sex, vaginal sex, and anal sex. I enjoy a rough fuck sometimes, hold me down and use me. I also enjoy getting forced. I love it when a guy puts his cock in my mouth and forces it deep, not stopping even if I gag. I like the feel of a cock sliding in and out of my throat. Even when I gag, I relax eventually and take it all. I like to be tied up, spanked, flogged, and fucked. I like light biting, nipple clamps, pulling my hair, and even some light slapping. One of my favorite positions is getting tied up doggy-style while wearing a blindfold, then waiting to find out which hole the guy is going to fuck first, my mouth, pussy, or asshole. The good ones go for all three, even fucking me with toys. I'm not always submissive. There are times that I like to get a guy on his back, slide my pussy or asshole onto his cock and just ride the fuck out of him. I bounce hard on his cock while I pinch and pull on my nipples, usually cumming several times before he fills me with warm jizz. I can also get pretty aggressive when I really need to suck a cock, pulling it out of his pants almost any place that's mostly private and sucking it until he feeds me a tasty mouthful of spunk. BTW, yes I swallow;-P
Female (57) Tustin, California
Hello everyone. I am an optimistic and honest person. For me, family and close relationships are the most important parts of life. So came here to find a place where I could make friends, but mainly looking for a long term relationship
Female (35) Irvine, California
A bit shy, chubby girl who loves anal.
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Female (30) Camarillo, California
Hey im 18 LA, im a princess all the time but once you get me in bed im yours to use, punish, and humiliate. turn ons fat shaming slut shaming slapping pet play master/ slave humiliating public humiliation abuse
Female (18) Los Angeles, California
I love having fun and having fun with my friends, but dream of romantic home evenings with my man. I believe in a real family without quarrels, lies and deceit. Like any woman, I want to love and be loved. My friends think that I am cheerful, but at the same time reliable and responsible. I'm looking for a loving intelligent man and wonderful caring loving tender and firm man. A man I will forever trust and share everything with. I believe relationship base on friendship, transparency,trust, honesty, and consistent correspondence
Female (43) Dodgertown, California
I don't expect to find anything here, but if I meet the right person, I want to discover the future world with him, we can travel to many places and have adventures together. The most important thing for a man is to take care of a woman and be faithful to her. If you don't have the patience, it's not for you, because I don't like dating strangers
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