Hey @BigChanges, I understand what you’re describing.What you’re running into isn’t the spank function itself, but contact and messaging restrictions that depend on profile settings and membership conditions.A spank is simply a signal of interest. The gift popup you’re seeing is related to Read more… messaging permissions — some users allow contact only via match, premium membership, or gifts. That part is separate from the spank itself.Clicking “X” does not permanently reject someone or block them. It simply means you’re not sending a spank at that moment. Profiles can still appear again depending on system rotation.So you’re not being f@rced to reject someone — you’re just encountering contact limitations that are based on user settings and platform structure.Greetings, Carmen FET Team

Hey @BigChanges,Spanks are simply a way to show interest in someone’s profile. If both users spank each other, it creates a match.If you see a message about sending a gift or upgrading, that’s related to messaging or contact permissions — not the spank itself. Some profiles have restrictions Read more… depending on membership type or settings.Clicking “X” only means you’re not sending a spank at that moment. It doesn’t permanently block the person, and profiles can appear again depending on the system rotation.You’re not being f@rced to reject someone — it just means that certain contact options require specific conditions (like a match or membership level).Hope that clarifies how the feature works.Greetings, Carmen FET Team

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I have removed various posts due to discrimination, personal attacks, and related responses.
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Yes, you're absolutely welcome to share explicit erotic poetry — just not in this section of the forum.
The Kink Academy is a strictly SFW space, which means anything explicit won’t be approved here.
For content like that, we have the “BDSM Stories & Kinky Sex Confessions” forum. That’s the Read more… perfect place to post your erotic poetry and connect with others who enjoy it.
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