Hello, thank you for taking the time to view my profile. I may be the wrong side of 50 but in my mind & in spirit I'm still in my 30's. A bit about me: love the great outdoors, walking, cycling & photography particularly; a huge love of live music, tastes vary according to how I'm feeling; have a love of the arts & all things vintage or retro, love to trawl those kind of shops & markets; currently on a strict workout regime to get fit again. As for the fetish & kink side of me I'm still relatively new & exploring as I go along. Discovering I like to switch depending on who I'm with & the circumstances; I adore spanking, both giving & receiving; I absolutely love a lady's bellybutton, find them so amazingly sensuous, & absolutely adore feet aswell, everything about them. I also have a thing for armpits, strange I know but that's how it is. And totally love lingerie, especially panties & have even started wearing them myself on occasions, something I would like to develop further along with latex wear. That's just a small taster, please feel free to message me, would love to chat.
Foot worship & adoration; bellybuttons; nylon or silk covered legs; spanking ( both giving & receiving); nipple play; panties
Firstly, if I may, a question. Was he aware this was your first ever scene? If so, maybe that contributed to how he was with you & your feeling a little deflated if that is the correct term. You were of course right to research the scene first to get a good idea of what is involved & what to Read more… expect, but remember every D/s relationship differs & varies, not all Doms are the same, nor indeed are all subs. I would recommend talking to him about it some more before playing again, about what both his & your expectations & wants are. Then see how it goes. It is, of course, your decision whether to continue with it if after a while you're still not feeling satisfied or fulfilled, but maybe he just isn't the one to provide what you hoped or expected, conversation & time will tell. Best of luck to you.
His blocking of you in those circumstances does seem a little strange. I would say to be extremely cautious, especially as you are having doubts & concerns. In your head the idea of a psychopath can seem thrilling & exciting, however the reality of someone actually being one is a whole different Read more… matter, it goes without saying that thrilled & excited are not emotions you would be feeling should you find yourself in such a real life situation, the possible outcome does not bear thinking about. Of course, this does not mean he is one, it could all be innocent, but your concerns mean you should at the very least be extremely careful, as would anyone entering a new relationship of that kind, a precautions should probably be taken, certainly to start with. All the best to you & good luck whatever you decide
I have been a user of Fetlife for sometime & have found it a most useful & beneficial site. In my experience I have found it particularly useful for finding out about events that are local to me, aswell as putting me in touch with fellow kinksters & fetishists nearby, also befriending & Read more… communicating with those further afield. I also enjoy playing some of the games on there which is a feature of some of the forums As with any site, it can have its various issues & both pros & cons, but on the whole I have found it to be a particularly good site.
Never do anything that you are not comfortable or happy doing. It is also grossly unfair of him & incredibly selfish of him to react that way when you tell him. He says he's embarrassed & pissed off when you tell him & yet he does not give any consideration to how you would feel about having to do Read more… such a thing & he obviously doesn't care about your feelings. Just because he has this fantasy does not mean you should have to fulfill it for him if you really don't want to.
Absolutely not at all...it makes perfect sense for you to feel this way if that is your thing & what does it for you. Naturally not everybody will feel the same way about it, but then each of us are different. I would just enjoy & make the most of the effects that you gain from this.
Hi, I too have a huge navel fetish, (that's a huge fetish, not necessarily huge navels, I love them all) & for stomachs. Same as you I have not had a partner or girlfriend really been into it or really got it. While some have been accomodating as far as the fetish goes, they have not understood it Read more… or as I say got into it & enjoyed it the same way. Some find it weird & strange. Like yourself I live in hope of finding a lady who will enjoy it & derive some real form of pleasure from it.
Hello & welcome to the site. In the forum you will find many different topics & threads on the varying aspects of fetishes & kinks. Focus on the ones that are of particular interest & appeal to you, get involved in some of the discussions on there. Don't be afraid to ask about anything, the Read more… majority of users here are very friendly & only too happy to offer advice & give pointers. Don't be afraid to start new threads & topics of your own, you will get responses. Good luck & best wishes on your journey of discovery here.
One of the questions you need to ask yourself is are you happy & contented with how things are between you. You say you like him & seem compatible, while that goes a long way & counts for a lot, is that enough for you? Are you wanting or expecting more from him? Do you want to push yourself Read more… further? Is he an experienced Dom himself? Maybe as he knows this is your first relationship of this kind he is being overly considerate towards you, not wanting to push to too much too soon, holding back if he's not sure you'd be comfortable with more. Maybe this is all he's comfortable with. Maybe he is a bit of a pretender. I don't know. I think if you are wanting or expecting more it is a discussion you need to have with him to either let him know or to find out what's what. If you're still feeling unsure or not entirely happy don't be afraid to seek alternatives or to move on all together. I hope this is of some help to you x