Hello, thank you for taking the time to view my profile. I may be the wrong side of 50 but in my mind & in spirit I'm still in my 30's. A bit about me: love the great outdoors, walking, cycling & photography particularly; a huge love of live music, tastes vary according to how I'm feeling; have a love of the arts & all things vintage or retro, love to trawl those kind of shops & markets; currently on a strict workout regime to get fit again. As for the fetish & kink side of me I'm still relatively new & exploring as I go along. Discovering I like to switch depending on who I'm with & the circumstances; I adore spanking, both giving & receiving; I absolutely love a lady's bellybutton, find them so amazingly sensuous, & absolutely adore feet aswell, everything about them. I also have a thing for armpits, strange I know but that's how it is. And totally love lingerie, especially panties & have even started wearing them myself on occasions, something I would like to develop further along with latex wear. That's just a small taster, please feel free to message me, would love to chat.
Foot worship & adoration; bellybuttons; nylon or silk covered legs; spanking ( both giving & receiving); nipple play; panties
Very well said & well written & I could not agree with it more. As someone who is also poly I have come across far too many people who cannot grasp the importance, or even necessity, for honesty & openness in such scenarios. So many times I've heard & had it said to me it's just a bit of fun & Read more… games. Yes it is fun & it is enjoyable, but the need to understand it is so much more than just that, & certainly not just a game, seems to elude so many. You can be hurt just as much in that dynamic as in any other relationship, as I too discovered more than once, even when I thought there was no chance I would feel that way come whatever. Echo your sentiments entirely & thank you for raising awareness of this.
Hi & welcome to the site, I hope your adventure here is a fun & enjoyable one for yourselves. You may find it helpful to read related articles to these & other subjects that interest you in the magazine on here; & also to check out, & get involved in, these & other things in the forum sections Read more… aswell. A lot of interesting, good & helpful advice & knowledge to be found there. Also the vast majority of the community on here is very friendly & only to happy to help.
Check out the various forums & magazine articles on here dealing with this subject, always good advice & suggestions to be found in them. Find out & discover what you feel would be a good starting point for you both & build from there. Good luck, have fun & enjoy yourselves.
Hi, I may not be the best person to respond to this as have not been in a long distance relationship of this nature, only a vanilla one some time ago. While it is an ideal situation for some it isn't for everybody, & as you say even then it can get hard. With the advent of things like Skype & Read more… Facetime, this makes keeping in touch & feeling their presence to a degree somewhat easier & can help alleviate those feelings. But it isn't the same as having them there I realize that. Do you get to ever meet up at all or very much. If so I would imagine those meetings are very intense, at times you miss him maybe replay those images vividly in your mind. Possibly you could consider recording them if you are both open to this, to replay back at those moments if this would help you. Otherwise I guess it could be a case of immersing yourself in some of your other interests with other acquaintances until those feelings pass to take your mind off him a bit. Chatting in the lobby room or on various forums on here with fellow members is sometimes a good way to pass the time & can be very therapeutic. Sorry I could not be of more help & assistance to you but I hope you find something that helps you x
A huge red flag indeed & absolutely agree 100% with what Victoria has said. You were right not to proceed with this. It is highly unlikely that any genuine potential Mistress/Domme would even contemplate any interaction with a potential sub/ slave without a vanilla meeting in a neutral setting Read more… first, let alone make any requests or expectations of that kind. Plus the fact that bitcoin was stipulated is highly suspect also.
Likewise any prospective sub/slave would be advised to adhere to similar guidelines Put it down to experience & a lucky escape, take your time finding the right Mistress for yourself, get to know & trust them totally first before taking things further & good luck in your continued search.
@SirPhileusFlogg - ideal opportunity isn't it, don't even have to go looking for it, it's there on a plate for you...kind of miss those days sometimes...giving the female guests those knowing looks in the morning 😄
Hi, oh yes it is very much a thing, & probably far more common than you'd imagine. Whereas many people may not actively seek out such a thing, or view it as a particular link or fetish, I have little doubt that a fair number are or would be aroused by being in such a situation.
Myself, many years Read more… ago, was a night manager of a hotel & whilst going about my nightly activities & duties this was a regular occurrence. I found it to be extremely arousing & a huge turn on on many occasions. I'm not aware of any particular name associated with it but I like the name SirPhileasFlogg has given it below. Obviously being a night manager at such a place the opportunities arose to partake myself, & I also found it exciting that other people might hear us - but that's a whole different story 😀