Most relationships are now-a-days superficial and based off of a checklist of unrealistic expectations. Impulsively we find something wrong as a reason for yet another excuse to abandon ship. Sometimes through bad luck, other times to bad choices. I am not here to judge because I myself am no different and no better. Perhaps not all of us are meant to walk with someone long-term. Perhaps some of us are just meant to walk alone and to have only short-term experiences and to enjoy them while they last, thankful for what it's worth with no regrets, also to stop pushing both toward and away, but to just let it be as it may, with no pressure and no chase, just mutuelly assertive timely communication hopefully face-to-face and not just online. Although sometimes I wish we could just skip the long drag fake formalities and PC small talk. I wish that we could simply be real for a change without getting judged so we can ley down those defensive shields and just get down to business authentically.