What submission means to me goes way beyond just the trust and respect. It means to serve and obey my Sir. It means to serve my Master in any way shape or form and to obey his wishes because he always has my best interest at heart. It means to openly communicate so that he is completely aware of my mindset. Having a person in my life that I feel totally comfortable with, someone whom I trust enough to give him my all, to trust every essence of my life. Total honesty between both parties involved, without that there is nothing How can there ever be trust without honesty? The truth must always be told Nothing built on lies is stable and is guaranteed to fail. It is you that daily helps me realize that reality can be just as amazing as any fantasy I may have. It is giving you all of me. Not just the parts I deem fit but every inch inside and out. I’ve realized something about myself lately –that my submissive side is so much more than an occasional stress reliever or playtime. It’s become what I need and what I crave. It is a deep rooted friendship that allows each of us to be free. Getting to this place in my mind has been a bit of a journey. Accepting that the things that turn my body and mind on do not make me a freak.
I’m feeling confident now that I have figured it out, after almost 3 years discovering the true me. It is you that brings out my deepest thoughts.
To trust in your partner enough to give him control is a freedom and throughout it all will assist in taking care of needs not just physically but mentally as well. To have someone that takes the time to know you inside and out, that pushes you to discover who you are and to have a feeling of belonging. It is a remarkable blend of both intimacy and passion. P needs you to push the limits of her experiences whatever that happens to be, for her to let go and be willing to go with that experience -- willing to ride the wave, as it were.