Hi! Pleased to meet you. I'm a 34 year old English lass who has been bouncing around the scene for a while now. I leave and return often, largely because interpretations of the labels and terms used are very different and I struggle to find common ground. I wouldn't describe myself as a Dom, sub or switch as a result, as my perceptions don't sit in the bell curve. But, the pull remains, that desire to feel skin break, to struggle against restraints, to be malleable to another's will. To be a good little girl

I'm not looking for what I've previously experienced in online D/s interactions. Shame, humiliation, name calling, reducing me to a thing, treating me as lesser; I've tried it all (ALOT) and I don't find any of it enjoyable.  Mental and emotional connections are what are most important to me, my brain is my largest erogenous zone and I'd like to see what happens when it's stimulated properly by another, what can I become in the right hands. So, my focus is online only as it's far simpler to work out intentions and saves everyone's time. This isn't about sex, this is about connecting on a different level, where sex is one of many tools used to break down day to day boundaries and maybe discover something new. The info in the next section gives more idea about my kinky leanings, but to be honest, it's kinda down to you to ask your questions.

Desires and Fantasies
I am a 34 year old woman looking for her online distraction. Fantasy worlds, power play, types of mental dominance, charged and unusual forms of communication; these all interest me. My kinks are convoluted and complicated, I'm looking for a complicated, bookish, 'primal romantic' type of Dom or Switch to play with.

Make me yield, by tearing me apart with your words. I'm looking for intellectual, provocative, messy conversation; I want to hear and see ideas about the what's and whys and how's of sex and society, and I want you to demand the same of me. Be creative, and incessant, with your verbal teasing. Sexually I want you to unpick me, break me down, make me crazy. Intercept my day and force me into our world. Render me useless for all other than your needs, with the images that you plant in my head. See if you can make me loose control.

Two must haves; you must be turned on by language and words, and you must be a gentleman. And I mean the Oxford dictionary first entry definition of a gentleman, not whatever particular brand of preconceived BS that you may or may not currently use. Humiliation, cruelty, expecting me to be a nodding dog; none of this interests me. Of course, you may be skilled enough to turn me into a nodding dog but that's your choice.
There will be no photos, no live chat (just instant messaging and /or email), and no suggestions of anything going into my ass. Don't bore me; this will be largely cerebral, and I don't want to read the same 4 line fantasy over and over. We don't need to do any of the "getting to know each other" stuff, this isn't that sort of gig. Be whatever and whoever you want to be (werewolves have always appealed). I won't be telling you any 'facts' about myself, beyond my profile. You will learn more if you want to.

Whips, chains, thunderstorms, knives, blood, bark, concrete, heat, rope, bruises, whispers, words, intensity, teeth, alleyways, shadows, making you groan in the dark. These are a few things that tickle me. I'm sure that there are many more that we could find out together. I want to create a world where we are both sexually (as far as possible without physical contact) and intellectually fulfilled and free to express all and anything, a space to escape from the mediocrity and nastiness of reality. I enjoy tasks that test my brain, and rules put in place to help rather than limit. Treat me like a woman, not a machine.

More is on my profile, but you can expect me to be curious, questioning (some would call me bratty), passionate and devoted to the right person. If you want a traditional sub, I will greatly disappoint. If you are interested in weird and different, I look forward to hearing from you.