Looking to experience it for the first time. I have never done it. I want too try both sides of it. Being the Dom,and being the Sub. Or both with someone at the same time. I am married and my wife knows nothing about this, and I would like to keep it that way. I would like to be tied up spanked made to serve a woman and having some lite CBT used on me. I want to also be able to make a woman suckmy cock.