Deleted Member Posted November 26, 2024 I am new to being a sub for a mistress. Is it normal for them to want me to write on my body that i am owned by them?
Deleted Member Posted November 26, 2024 Author Is signing up for a website for a bdsm contract normal?
Deleted Member Posted November 26, 2024 Author If you’re not comfortable doing it then say that. If she doesn’t respect that then walk away.
Deleted Member Posted November 26, 2024 Author 1 minute ago, ActionMan1990 said: A BDSM contract 100% screams scammer be careful 💪 Preciate im just gonna walk away bc i dont feel comfy signing up for a website for a contract
Ka**** Posted November 26, 2024 3 minutes ago, ActionMan1990 said: A BDSM contract 100% screams scammer be careful 💪 He is right
Deleted Member Posted November 26, 2024 Author 4 minutes ago, KarlJ-1915 said: He is right Appreciate yall
My**** Posted November 26, 2024 Don't blame you not wanting to sign a contract but what a feeling being able to give up total control as an adult it's really something just knowing you'd find someone willing to be responsible for your care
Deleted Member Posted November 26, 2024 Author 5 minutes ago, Mytunghurts said: Don't blame you not wanting to sign a contract but what a feeling being able to give up total control as an adult it's really something just knowing you'd find someone willing to be responsible for your care Well its not that im oposed to signing a contract its the fact that the website she had sent seemed sketchy
Deleted Member Posted November 26, 2024 Author I occasionally have my subs write on themselves in pen or lipstick. Nothing permanent unless it's agreed upon and waaaaaaaay down the road after years of committed relationship. As for a contract, I have one which is also for a committed relationship, because it outlines the expectations, responsibilities, hard limits, safe words/gestures for both parties involved.
ey**** Posted November 26, 2024 1 hour ago, xiro_storm said: I am new to being a sub for a mistress. Is it normal for them to want me to write on my body that i am owned by them? it's common-ish in online play, but would you want to do this for someone you're not owned by equally, what specifically is she asking you to write - as she may be going to use that to try to verify somewhere
ey**** Posted November 26, 2024 1 hour ago, xiro_storm said: Also is a bdsm contract normal they can be a fun addition to a dynamic, or a good way to work out together how a dynamic is going to work. However, they are not legally binding - they are just for *play*
ey**** Posted November 26, 2024 1 hour ago, xiro_storm said: Is signing up for a website for a bdsm contract normal? is it a template? (maybe) is it something you have to pay for? (no)
Deleted Member Posted November 26, 2024 Author 16 minutes ago, eyemblacksheep said: is it a template? (maybe) is it something you have to pay for? (no) It was a website where i had to create an account and pay for a membership in order to get a contract
ey**** Posted November 26, 2024 40 minutes ago, xiro_storm said: It was a website where i had to create an account and pay for a membership in order to get a contract yeah, scam
BruiseWayne Posted November 26, 2024 No dude the whole 'website contract' thing that you have to pay for is a scam. Don't do that. You're only going to lose your *** and be disappointed.
BruiseWayne Posted November 26, 2024 (edited) The writing is normal, but no neither of those things are. The contract and signing up for a website are tools for scammers. Don't ever do that. Edited November 26, 2024 by BruiseWayne
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