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Gender Man
Age 50
Status Single
Height 182cm
Weight 72kg
Body shape Slim
Eye colour Brown
Hair colour Brown
Hair length Long
Beard Full beard
Orientation Straight
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Zodiac sign Libra
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**before you begin, while I loooove age gaps I don't get into agePLAY in any way shape or form. You do you, but despite the 'Daddy' vibes, I don't like it. If we align in other ways, cool, let's focus on that. And with that said...

I've always known I was kinky, though early in life I never really pursued submissive women before. However, in my relationships, in the bedroom, I've always been the one in control. Then over the years my tastes became more and more.. refined. Wicked. Evil. It started out maybe with some hair-pulling here, an ass-slap there. A good hard crack in the mouth. Then the taunting. "You like that, don't you?"... and eventually I found myself with my hand around my girlfriend's throat, spitting in her face, and forcing her to knees at my feet.. and further still on all fours to give my boots a good polish with her tongue.

Despite being a rather chill and pleasant person I have a mean streak a mile wide, and have found that it takes a special kind of girl to be able to handle the particular brand of abbuse I absolutely loooove dishing out. Abbuse which can range from very subtle, simple, and discrete to the overt, extreme, and downright cruel. Unfair. Unforgiving even. She should expect to be a vessel for that. Be excited about it even. Eager and enthusiastic. Dutiful and attentive. A shameless little slut. A willing victim. Complicit in her own defiling.

I'm an artist by trade and inspiration is a very big thing for me. I find that plans almost always fall through anyway and anything that's born out of the moment is infinitely more satisfying IMHO. I say this as sort of an explanation to my 'style' as a Dom. I can be very unpredictable and chaotic. I might let you get away with something on Monday that you may get called out for on Tuesday. And despite not being a mood-driven individual, I do find that my mood almost always determines how I wish to be approached and how you will be treated at any given moment. To me it adds an extra level of spontaneity and excitement to the whole thing. Predictability while comforting can be utterly boring sometimes. Don't you agree? Though having said all of that, providing and craving stability is still a priority for me. It's not all chaos. And if you're the type of submissive who needs lots of rules and structure, etc, well I certainly provide that as well.

I don't believe your submission to me should stop at the bedroom either. If I own you, you are -mine- and I'll do as I please with you. Whenever, wherever. Thought truth be told I enjoy a 24/7* dynamic more than just straight up 24/7. I don't ONLY ever want to be a Dom all the time. That would be boring too.

Mainly I'm looking for the kind of submissive/slave that wants to be shaped and molded into the ultimate fulfillment of my desires. The living embodiment of things that pleasure and delight me. Yet at the same time be able to not lose herself entirely under my control. I want to dominate a person, a personality, not program some android sex-bot automaton that needs to be micro-managed every step of the way. I might as well just jerk off at that point.

Right now I'm looking for anything from play partners, to friends, to potential slaves, pets, prey, toys. Primarily a new little plaything who I can pass off as my girlfriend. And on that note my favorite types are petite women, pale skinned redheads, anyone with green eyes, pretty feet, who's sweet and good-natured, friendly, generous, empathetic, caring, insatiable, a little weird or eccentric, ( or maybe a lot ), artistic, stylish, cute, nerdy, edgey, dark, spooky.

Having said that my tastes in women- and in life- are really quite varied. As long as you're interest-ing I'll be interest-ed. Also please FFS don't get hung up on my holy grail of hotness and feel the need to list the ways you don't add up.
That's not a list of criteria you need to meet, just some things I find particularly appealing._ Don't be compelled to point out you don't have red hair, or green eyes, or whatever the fuck else. Why not point out what you DO have that you think will drive me wild instead, hm?

Aaaaand on that note please don't be shy. Feel free to message me and make the first move if you like the vibe here. Provided you haven't been crushed to death by this mountain of text of course. It's the 2020s ladies. How 'bout you chase us around a lil for a change, eh? ;)

Mostly looking for women, but AFAB enbys I'll consider on a case by case basis too.

Limits

***, vom, age regression, rudeness disguised as 'bratting', and no hitting or fighting with me physically unless we talked about it beforehand. I'm not the masochist here after all. :P

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***, vom, age regression, rudeness disguised as 'bratting', and no hitting or fighting with me physically unless we talked about it beforehand. I'm not the masochist here after all. :P
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**before you begin, while I loooove age gaps I don't get into agePLAY in any way shape or form. You do you, but despite the 'Daddy' vibes, I don't like it. If we align in other ways, cool, let's focus on that. And with that said...

I've always known I was kinky, though early in life I never really Read more… pursued submissive women before. However, in my relationships, in the bedroom, I've always been the one in control. Then over the years my tastes became more and more.. refined. Wicked. Evil. It started out maybe with some hair-pulling here, an ass-slap there. A good hard crack in the mouth. Then the taunting. "You like that, don't you?"... and eventually I found myself with my hand around my girlfriend's throat, spitting in her face, and forcing her to knees at my feet.. and further still on all fours to give my boots a good polish with her tongue.

Despite being a rather chill and pleasant person I have a mean streak a mile wide, and have found that it takes a special kind of girl to be able to handle the particular brand of abbuse I absolutely loooove dishing out. Abbuse which can range from very subtle, simple, and discrete to the overt, extreme, and downright cruel. Unfair. Unforgiving even. She should expect to be a vessel for that. Be excited about it even. Eager and enthusiastic. Dutiful and attentive. A shameless little slut. A willing victim. Complicit in her own defiling.

I'm an artist by trade and inspiration is a very big thing for me. I find that plans almost always fall through anyway and anything that's born out of the moment is infinitely more satisfying IMHO. I say this as sort of an explanation to my 'style' as a Dom. I can be very unpredictable and chaotic. I might let you get away with something on Monday that you may get called out for on Tuesday. And despite not being a mood-driven individual, I do find that my mood almost always determines how I wish to be approached and how you will be treated at any given moment. To me it adds an extra level of spontaneity and excitement to the whole thing. Predictability while comforting can be utterly boring sometimes. Don't you agree? Though having said all of that, providing and craving stability is still a priority for me. It's not all chaos. And if you're the type of submissive who needs lots of rules and structure, etc, well I certainly provide that as well.

I don't believe your submission to me should stop at the bedroom either. If I own you, you are -mine- and I'll do as I please with you. Whenever, wherever. Thought truth be told I enjoy a 24/7* dynamic more than just straight up 24/7. I don't ONLY ever want to be a Dom all the time. That would be boring too.

Mainly I'm looking for the kind of submissive/slave that wants to be shaped and molded into the ultimate fulfillment of my desires. The living embodiment of things that pleasure and delight me. Yet at the same time be able to not lose herself entirely under my control. I want to dominate a person, a personality, not program some android sex-bot automaton that needs to be micro-managed every step of the way. I might as well just jerk off at that point.

Right now I'm looking for anything from play partners, to friends, to potential slaves, pets, prey, toys. Primarily a new little plaything who I can pass off as my girlfriend. And on that note my favorite types are petite women, pale skinned redheads, anyone with green eyes, pretty feet, who's sweet and good-natured, friendly, generous, empathetic, caring, insatiable, a little weird or eccentric, ( or maybe a lot ), artistic, stylish, cute, nerdy, edgey, dark, spooky.

Having said that my tastes in women- and in life- are really quite varied. As long as you're interest-ing I'll be interest-ed. Also please FFS don't get hung up on my holy grail of hotness and feel the need to list the ways you don't add up. That's not a list of criteria you need to meet, just some things I find particularly appealing._ Don't be compelled to point out you don't have red hair, or green eyes, or whatever the fuck else. Why not point out what you DO have that you think will drive me wild instead, hm?

Aaaaand on that note please don't be shy. Feel free to message me and make the first move if you like the vibe here. Provided you haven't been crushed to death by this mountain of text of course. It's the 2020s ladies. How 'bout you chase us around a lil for a change, eh? ;)

Mostly looking for women, but AFAB enbys I'll consider on a case by case basis too.
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Does anyone like brat taming anymore?

It's good to see you learned and grew from the experience. Too many people these days and ESPECIALLY in this lifestyle aren't capable of that kind of self reflection or being able to admit that something they're doing isn't 1000% awesome ALL the time.
So good on you for recognizing you had a bad Read more… behavior that needed to be dealt with and you made the necessary changes.

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Does anyone like brat taming anymore?

Yeah I mean look a little light teasing in either direction is probably NBD, but anything beyond that yeah don't do until both parties have agreed that's the way they want to play and engage with one another.

BruiseWayne
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Does anyone like brat taming anymore?

Yeah and I don't know how things got like this or why all these brats think that kind of behavior would be perfectly okay to engage in with a total stranger, lol.
You'd think it would be common sense, but eh.
Though TBF the one who posted that comment seems to have come to understand how to enter Read more… into a brat/tamer relationship the right way now and that it's supposed to be between two consenting parties who have decided to play that way.

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Does anyone like brat taming anymore?

It's not the tone really even. It's how are you supposed to know a total stranger isn't just being an asshole to you or not. That's the problem, lol.
Like @BlondageDoll pointed out, it's actually a playstyle agreed upon by two consenting parties. Not a free pass for someone to just be rude and Read more… insulting to anyone they feel like.

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Does anyone like brat taming anymore?

Exactly this.
Alot of 'brats' don't seem to understand that though. They think calling themselves that is a free pass to just be rude and insulting to anyone who crosses their paths, and often they try to use it as a convenient ass covering mechanism for shit behavior on top of all that.

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Does anyone like brat taming anymore?

IDK if you're doing this or not, but you shouldn't be rude to a Dom you haven't taken the time to establish a connection with first. I notice a lot of brats think it's perfectly okay to just be aggressively insulting, challenging, and difficult right off the bat, and not all of us like that to be Read more… perfectly honest. Maybe some do, but I know I personally would respond very negatively to it. So if that's what's going on here, maybe hold off on all that kind of behavior in the beginning, establish you're not an asshole first, make friends, get to know them a little, show them what you're like when you're NOT a brat, then you can start in with all the 'bratty' behavior. Otherwise it's hard to tell if a total stranger is just being playful or if they're actually an asshole, lol.

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Accepting yourself

Sure, there's always going to be outliers. And I never said this was the way it goes for EVERYONE in kink.
Just that IME it tends to be very common, and I've been doing this for quite some time, during which I have seen it play out this way with a ton of people, many who I know personally, and Read more… with plenty of others outside my sphere of influence.
So I'm very confident in saying this is pretty normal for a majority of the people who engage in kink.

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Accepting yourself

Maybe at first, but once you see how common it is, you come to realize that's just how it is for kinky people lol.

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Accepting yourself

It usually follows that however you normally are more often than not you're probably going to be the opposite when it comes to kink. So you taking on a role that goes against what'd you'd expect is actually exactly what you would expect as far as kink goes lol.
So maybe it'll help you to know that Read more… this is a very common occurrence in the lifestyle.
Like take me for instance. Normally I'm a very nice, polite, empathetic, patient, and good natured, easy going, chill kind of person. In kink though I'm a full blown sadist who's relentlessly condescending, nasty, cruel, unforgiving, and mean, lol.

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