Deleted Member Posted February 2 I don't get a lot of things about this app and the more I'm on, the more I want to delete it. There should be blocked and unable to see your account, hidden or reported for spam, but only having to report and hidden (because blocking isn't really blocking) you have to falsely report people. đ Honestly this app is just so flawed.
Wi**** Posted February 8 Sunday at 12:10 PM, Fillmedaddy said: I don't get a lot of things about this app and the more I'm on, the more I want to delete it. There should be blocked and unable to see your account, hidden or reported for spam, but only having to report and hidden (because blocking isn't really blocking) you have to falsely report people. đ Honestly this app is just so flawed. And in so many ways. They don't want you to start new threads that are duplicates, but there is literally no way to search for existing topics and sub topics. There is no common sense way to find information on this site that should be part of the fundamental elements of any forum software. It also falls into the plethora of sites that advertise themselves as being free. Unfortunately, there is no site that is free nor one even those you have to pay for that you don't have to wade through a multitude of scammers in order to find real life serious and honest people. It would be truly nice to meet real people who you can eventually meet in real life and get to know. Maybe I am just too old fashioned but I have had so many people try to scam me that I am almost at a point of giving up and just leaving online alone all together.
Wi**** Posted February 8 November 30, 2024, 0mG0ddess said: Letâs talk about the ones who ghost you that come back and stalk your profile ⊠đ» I agree. I would rather have someone tell me to go to hell than to ghost me.
Deleted Member Posted February 8 30 minutes ago, Windwolf said: And in so many ways. They don't want you to start new threads that are duplicates, but there is literally no way to search for existing topics and sub topics. There is no common sense way to find information on this site that should be part of the fundamental elements of any forum software. It also falls into the plethora of sites that advertise themselves as being free. Unfortunately, there is no site that is free nor one even those you have to pay for that you don't have to wade through a multitude of scammers in order to find real life serious and honest people. It would be truly nice to meet real people who you can eventually meet in real life and get to know. Maybe I am just too old fashioned but I have had so many people try to scam me that I am almost at a point of giving up and just leaving online alone all together. I got flagged for a conversation I started because "it was a duplicate" but I was asking a specific question to a specific course and couldn't find anything about it when I tried to search it. And even if it was a duplicate, I don't see what commenting on a 3 year old post is informational, helpful, or convent. đ Basically the only post allowed are the ones from when the forms started because at some point you can argue "every conversation was had".
Ar**** Posted February 8 (edited) 11 hours ago, Windwolf said: there is literally no way to search for existing topics and sub topics Not true. I don't know how it is for the app - I refuse to use/download it for many reasons plus it only gives access to one of the forums anyway - but if you are logged on to the site and open up the "Browse" tab (usually found between the My Fetish.com and Community tabs) there is a search bar. Entering any keyword or phrase into that will present you with a list of articles, members interested in that subject/keyword, and forum threads discussing that topic. Anything from a particular kink, to a fantasy, BDSM paraphernalia, specific cities etc - if it has been covered here, you should get a hit from it. Edited February 8 by Aranhis
Deleted Member Posted February 8 11 hours ago, Windwolf said: I agree. I would rather have someone tell me to go to hell than to ghost me. Really? Imo ghosting is better than giving that person any more of my time or that person giving me theirs atp.
Wi**** Posted February 8 Unfortunately the app wasn't well thought out. The app should simply be a mobile version of the desktop website. Though there is material on the website that wouldn't be allowed on the app, functionality should be the same.
Wi**** Posted February 8 Since I found this thread, it has inspired me to do a little more research. I had previously found several other sites that seemed completely phony so I started doing some research. One of the phoniest sites I found was "Fetishspace dot com. It's a coin based site that steals real profile pictures and turns them into chat bots. The site is owned and managed by Creative Network Alliance SP.Z.O.O. a Polish Company and they have a half dozen sites that I have found so far. I am getting really upset at the way people are being ripped off. It makes me want to create a site just for exposing the frauds. I thought after I retired I would be done with that. For 30 years I managed the six domains and websites owned by our Non-profit. It was a headache. But it makes me angry that people who only seeking to connect with others are more likely to be scammed than connected. From what I have discovered ,pretty much all sites that are coin based are scam sites. They don't give you the option to pay a monthly fee. You pay for coins and chat until the coins are used up. Chat bots keep you interested and buying coins hoping for a meeting that will never happen. Maybe I have just grown to intolerant in my old age but I think there's a time when bullshit just has to stop.
Deleted Member Posted February 8 35 minutes ago, Windwolf said: Since I found this thread, it has inspired me to do a little more research. I had previously found several other sites that seemed completely phony so I started doing some research. One of the phoniest sites I found was "Fetishspace dot com. It's a coin based site that steals real profile pictures and turns them into chat bots. The site is owned and managed by Creative Network Alliance SP.Z.O.O. a Polish Company and they have a half dozen sites that I have found so far. I am getting really upset at the way people are being ripped off. It makes me want to create a site just for exposing the frauds. I thought after I retired I would be done with that. For 30 years I managed the six domains and websites owned by our Non-profit. It was a headache. But it makes me angry that people who only seeking to connect with others are more likely to be scammed than connected. From what I have discovered ,pretty much all sites that are coin based are scam sites. They don't give you the option to pay a monthly fee. You pay for coins and chat until the coins are used up. Chat bots keep you interested and buying coins hoping for a meeting that will never happen. Maybe I have just grown to intolerant in my old age but I think there's a time when bullshit just has to stop. No that's intolerable. And it explains why so many men on here are skeptical, but if that's the case it says more about the conversations you have with the other person than anything. If you are on a form and you want connection but only treat the person on the other end like a sex toy, yeah more likely to be scammed. But maybe if you treated the person with respect, you probably could figure it's a scam easily. Obviously catfish do exist and can engage in any conversation, but an Ai scam I don't know.
Wi**** Posted February 9 I agree totally. I was taught that respect starts with self. Those who have no self respect also have no respect for others. AI on the other hand is currently not as good as it will become. It seems easy to me to determine chat bots for humans. But a lot of people see what they want to see. There is no excuse for a lack of respect. Being dominant doesn't give anyone the right to demand submission when it has neither been offered or earned. I believe that many people think that dominance means being cruel and uncaring and bestows fights that have not been granted. In my own opinion , submission is earned through love and respect. In the 41 years I was married to my wife, she submitted to only me. Her gift was the greatest gift I have ever experienced. Amazing sex was the result of an amazing relationship not the source of it. I believe that when people are seeking nothing more than a sex object, they overlook the most wonderful and powerful part of a D/s relationship. I hope that I am so fortunate as to experience this kind of relationship again before I cross into the spirit world.
Ch**** Posted February 9 7 hours ago, Windwolf said: I agree totally. I was taught that respect starts with self. Those who have no self respect also have no respect for others. AI on the other hand is currently not as good as it will become. It seems easy to me to determine chat bots for humans. But a lot of people see what they want to see. There is no excuse for a lack of respect. Being dominant doesn't give anyone the right to demand submission when it has neither been offered or earned. I believe that many people think that dominance means being cruel and uncaring and bestows fights that have not been granted. In my own opinion , submission is earned through love and respect. In the 41 years I was married to my wife, she submitted to only me. Her gift was the greatest gift I have ever experienced. Amazing sex was the result of an amazing relationship not the source of it. I believe that when people are seeking nothing more than a sex object, they overlook the most wonderful and powerful part of a D/s relationship. I hope that I am so fortunate as to experience this kind of relationship again before I cross into the spirit world. This!!! It's unreal how many people message me demanding video chats or shit right away! I'm glad to have that No Thanks option!
Deleted Member Posted February 9 19 minutes ago, ChameleonLady said: This!!! It's unreal how many people message me demanding video chats or shit right away! I'm glad to have that No Thanks option! Yes!!! The pass option idk if it was always there and I missed it, but I like it better than just blocking. Because some people need a pass and others need to be blocked and to me there's a difference.
vi**** Posted February 14 Saturday at 06:12 PM, Windwolf said: I agree totally. I was taught that respect starts with self. Those who have no self respect also have no respect for others. AI on the other hand is currently not as good as it will become. It seems easy to me to determine chat bots for humans. But a lot of people see what they want to see. There is no excuse for a lack of respect. Being dominant doesn't give anyone the right to demand submission when it has neither been offered or earned. I believe that many people think that dominance means being cruel and uncaring and bestows fights that have not been granted. In my own opinion , submission is earned through love and respect. In the 41 years I was married to my wife, she submitted to only me. Her gift was the greatest gift I have ever experienced. Amazing sex was the result of an amazing relationship not the source of it. I believe that when people are seeking nothing more than a sex object, they overlook the most wonderful and powerful part of a D/s relationship. I hope that I am so fortunate as to experience this kind of relationship again before I cross into the spirit world. Say it louder!
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