Wayfinder please!

[KrunchyMunchie]

So I'm very new to alot of this in practice but have had my limited share of experiences that have me wanting more. Call me hedonistic but I'm ready to be selfish and explore my sexuality more and I'm so tired of repressing it! I have a super timid vanilla husband who will not help explore new kinks due to lack of self confidence. I build this man up constantly but it's SUPER frustrating that he just doesn't click with his own sexuality and doesn't embrace passion. (He's working in therapy). What are some resources I can give him to help open himself up? I'm not asking him to spontaneously spawn into a new personality as I've told him I accept him as a person no matter what but he needs to love, accept and understand himself first and foremost. He doesn't seem to want to do this. We're currently trying mutual separation so we can gather out respective thoughts. I'm between a rock and a hard place. I want this to work because I love him (and baby daddy) but I feel like he is completely denying part of me and more importantly himself. He's also vehemently against an open relationship even with established boundaries. Advice and support resources are greatly appreciated. Thank you! ❤🙏

[Deleted Member]

Introduce him to some hypnotic audios to condition him to relax and enjoy new experiences. When he appreciates his much fun it can be yo be mird playful he might understand your needs better. I'd suggest shibbysays on sound cloud or reddit.

[Ebrit]

There are some online erotic fiction websites where people have written their own fantasy scenarios. Maybe read some and if you find one you like get him to give it a read, this can spark people's curiosity and imaginations.

[Vandalslut]

He'll need to accept himself and like himself first otherwise he'll just keep on denying you along with himself. Both of the suggestions here are excellent - there's also sites with free short kink films which may also spark his curiosity and which will give you an idea of what you may like to try. 

There'll be a reason he doesn't like himself - hopefully therapy will bring this to the surface so he can deal with it.  He may have had a bad sexual experience; a real heart break of a relationship ending - anything.  Wishing you luck.