To all the care givers , daddy Dom,and brat tamers

[Female_diogenes]

A dominant woman is still dominant even when she has no submissives. But a dominant male is completely reliant on the validation of others agreeing that's what he is to be one 

[Deleted Member]

I’m super confused why brats are being lumped in with littles here. They are not interchangeable and they are most definitely not the same.

[Deleted Member]

No, but then both of the baby girls I had were strong, independent women who could navigate life. I was there for them 24/7 as needed. I did help them whenever they needed me to be there for them.  

[my****]

February 5, Female_diogenes said:

A dominant woman is still dominant even when she has no submissives. But a dominant male is completely reliant on the validation of others agreeing that's what he is to be one 

You know, I used to agree with this, and then my relationship ended nearly a year ago. I still feel dominant. I depend on myself for validation and it is much more satisfying to be called brilliant by a girl, but I am in a good place and still feel like myself.

[ni****]

Hmm.. a valid question i have wondered this myself. I wouldnt want to "bother" him but after some time and trust i guess its a truly dynamic depending thing.
LTR yes. Communication would be paramount.

[lukaspot]

On 2/6/2025 at 6:58 AM, Female_diogenes said:

A dominant woman is still dominant even when she has no submissives. But a dominant male is completely reliant on the validation of others agreeing that's what he is to be one 

A real Dom owns his power, whether on his knees or bending others to his will. Weak men need applause. True dominance is written in the way he takes control.

[Timcornbread]

On 1/25/2025 at 5:29 PM, ageregressor said:

Do you guys like it when we (little and brats) come to you guys for everything 🤔🤔?

Yes. Come to Daddy about everything. He will teach you what your responsibilities are and what are his to take care of for you. By coming to him about everything sets the dynamic to go from home to 24/7, when the communication work is done.

If you have a Daddy in this dynamic, he will want to do a lot of what you do for yourself for you. He is a "pleaser'. By not coming to him, YOU, are denying him the pleasure of pleasing you.

I can braid hair. I learned macramé' as a ***. So can Kitten. If either one of us braids, it looks great. When she comes to me and asks me to "braid her hair, please?" I get the pleasure of being asked to serve her. The pleasure of serving her. Also, the pleasure I get from braiding. Macrame and beading are my de-stress hobbies. I also get the intimate time with her since it usually involves showers, washing of hair. Blow and go... so many ways Daddy gets pleasure, pleasing Kitten.

Kitten gets a shower, back rub, scalp massage with wash and conditioner. Brush out and blow dry. Oiling and braiding. Sometimes with beads, sometimes not. Her Daddys attention for 2 hours of close fun, mostly naked, time together. It does not always lead to sex. Sometimes it leads to new toenail polish for her or a back rub for Daddy since Kitten feels so good after Daddys care. She gets all that by asking Daddy to, " Braid her hair, please?"

The answer is almost always, no, If you don't ask.

As far as the little/brat comparison. To me a DD/lg to DD/brat is the willingness of what Daddy is willing to put up with. Kitten can be a brat. But that line is different to me because in our dynamic, I don't want brat play except for fun. Once she learned this line, she now has a 'flirting with funishments' line that works for us.

 

[wa****]

No we own you and of course can come to Dom when need something, though should just be following the agreement from the start. Yes I in control and owner but does not mean the little is worthless. I dont have little at this time and all are different. I want also love and caring and will always show respect. If she obeys lol

[Amazonbbw]

Unfortunately, I am submissive and have never been in a dominant relationship, but I really want such an interaction.
I'm just a little shy and sometimes nervous 😓

[Deleted Member]

Ok, realistically, my goal is to give you space to come to me with whatever you feel comfortable bringing me. I delight in being so important that the Little seeks my attention in everything. I know you *can* do without me...you did without me before you met me, but the fact that you choose to bring me everything is wonderful. Why would any Daddy/Caregiver not want that? Yes, I do in fact want to see your art/Lego/stuffie. Yes, I will help you pick out your clothes for the day. Yes, I am so glad you told me that you got anxious talking to a stranger today.

Please, don't ever think for a second that we don't want *everything* you bring us, good, bad or meh.

[Vi****]

I always liked it when I was brought everything and told what's going on, I've never had one that wanted me to pick out their clothes for the day or let me pick their clothing while shopping l thou.