Mo**** Posted February 22 She just changed her mind. That’s not that bad at all lol. You probably could’ve saved the night of you were a bit more chill from the sounds of it lol. Recently I met this thicc girl. No face pics for privacy. Before we met I asked for a face pic she sent one with like a million filters. I wasn’t gonna make a big deal. From the filters even if she was a bit busted she was still cute. I know we all self conscious but whatever. We agree to meet at this local Thai spot. I get there and I text her letting her know I arrived. I see this lady nearby that looked like she was 75 years old and bald like George costanza bald. Then I get a text from her and she says i just got here too. I assumed she had just pulled up. So I start texting her “I almost walked up to this old bald lady cuz I thought it was you.” Right before I hit send I look up and the old bald lady was right in front of me and says “hi Dayv?” Not cool. The pic she sent had the top of her head cropped off to hid her bald head and the 9,000 filters. I’ve never been cat fished lol I was sooooooo mad but I’m not a piece of shit so I went in Sat and ordered a drink she ordered food I paid and left.
Abraxas1 Posted February 22 My worst hookup date from online dating involved a one eyed cat, Getting trapped in a bathroom, a house that was so much a bombsite that even if it was transformers era Meghan Fox gaf i still was going in no bedroom, some tears then a daring escape and a 7 mile walk to safety.
Gh**** Posted February 23 20 hours ago, Abraxas1 said: My worst hookup date from online dating involved a one eyed cat, Getting trapped in a bathroom, a house that was so much a bombsite that even if it was transformers era Meghan Fox gaf i still was going in no bedroom, some tears then a daring escape and a 7 mile walk to safety. Why ya gotta rat on me like that? 😂 jk
Gh**** Posted February 23 My worst hook story… tbh I’ve only ever hooked up INTENTIONALLY like, twice. The rest I thought there was more progressing than a hook up. That said, there’s been a lot of one time things that were awkward or weird. Hard to choose one. I think the worst was the one I intentionally went to as a hook up, because 1) I felt gross for it 2) he had two big, very rowdy dogs and as someone who doesn’t like dogs and is made very anxious when dogs are very hyper and uncontrolled around her, I was not chill. Also there was dog hair… EVERYWHERE. I needed a bath when I got home more because of the hair than the sex. Not my proudest moment.
dirtymindedfun Posted February 24 Marissa irl was completely psycho. I've never seen nothing like it. And I've seen it all I finally no what a narcissist is and it started the very first time.
Abraxas1 Posted February 27 On 2/23/2025 at 6:16 PM, Ghostcat said: Why ya gotta rat on me like that? 😂 jk Because people need to be warned haha Her dogs eyes had a look of please, please take me with you. haha
Sm**** Posted February 28 February 21, arcticdoll said: I don't know how asking people about their __worst hookup__ is going to "...liven this app up..." when the answer to that is usually going to be some kind of trauma. Mine is the reason I no longer do NSA, casual, or hookups *especially* for anything kinky. He asked a question that has some expected funny responses. Just because you have trauma from your experience doesn't mean everyone has, but rather than just pass the question by you felt the need to voice your negative opinion and get some victim points while expressing it. Next time you "don't know how.." or "don't understand how..." maybe just do what a normal individual would do and keep your opinion to yourself. Comments like yours hinder openness in the community because you feel the need to make someone feel less than for trying to engage with others.
CopperKnob Posted February 28 3 hours ago, SmokeyJ said: He asked a question that has some expected funny responses. Just because you have trauma from your experience doesn't mean everyone has, but rather than just pass the question by you felt the need to voice your negative opinion and get some victim points while expressing it. Next time you "don't know how.." or "don't understand how..." maybe just do what a normal individual would do and keep your opinion to yourself. Comments like yours hinder openness in the community because you feel the need to make someone feel less than for trying to engage with others. Meanwhile, "comments like yours," silence people who have or are experiencing DV or SA. "Comments like yours" add to v1ctim blaming and r*pe culture. "Comments like yours" are the reason v1ctims don't feel that they'll be believed. "Comments like yours" hinder openess within society as a whole. The OP is divisive for the exact reason Eyem highlights. Next time you don't understand someone's response, you could "just do what a normal individual would do and keep your opinion to yourself." Either that, or consider other people's perspective might be different to yours (the exact point of the forums). Whilst you think the OP prompted funny responses, there is a whole population that did not.
ey**** Posted February 28 15 hours ago, SmokeyJ said: Comments like yours hinder openness in the community because you feel the need to make someone feel less than for trying to engage with others. So. On the contrary. If you ONLY want happy/funny answers that hinders openness in the community when it's a question that's blind on some of the divisions Like, my worst dates, or hook up experiences.... are generally, we just didn't click. Maybe the other week I was climbing up trying to turn off an extractor fan and fell and seriously injured my leg which put a dampener on the things. I once ended up in a hotel for a fuck which was comically bad. But there are others where their worst hook ups include... saying no and being ignored. Finding they've been followed home. Someone deliberately playing them with drink (or worse) Engagement is going to include, "actually - some of my worst dates were pretty traumatic!"
Sm**** Posted March 1 19 hours ago, CopperKnob said: Meanwhile, "comments like yours," silence people who have or are experiencing DV or SA. "Comments like yours" add to v1ctim blaming and r*pe culture. "Comments like yours" are the reason v1ctims don't feel that they'll be believed. "Comments like yours" hinder openess within society as a whole. The OP is divisive for the exact reason Eyem highlights. Next time you don't understand someone's response, you could "just do what a normal individual would do and keep your opinion to yourself." Either that, or consider other people's perspective might be different to yours (the exact point of the forums). Whilst you think the OP prompted funny responses, there is a whole population that did not. Lol. Just keep reinforcing exactly what I said. When your victim mentality is your ideology it's no wonder you "don't understand..." I understood exactly what she was saying which is exactly why I said something about it. Go be a victim someplace else. Heaven forbid someone actually try to get a laugh around here lest hurt someone's little feelings. Pathetic.
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